ok im 15/m. i'm really shy but i like a girl and i can't stop thinking about her. the thing is i haven't even talked to her yet. she likes someone but idk if they are going to get together. i need help on trying to be her friend and maybe a little more than her friend.. thanks
LiTTLEGiRLBLUE answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 9:35 pm: Well, you should be friends with her first. Earn her trust that way. If you're too shy, just go up to her with a question [fake or not] and just simply start a conversation. Once your friends with her, hang out with her as much as possible. And when you think the time is right ask her out.
oXoCutiex6 answered Monday September 24 2007, 8:52 pm: ah, this reminds me of me and my boyfriend...
my boyfriend liked me, and never told me.. but he told his friends, who told me, but it turned out..although we never talked.. i was falling for him long before his friends decided to tell me that he liked me...
point is, you never know until you try.
start saying "hello", "goodmorning"
work into conversations.
after a while of doign that,
start saying "how are you" and.. "whats wrong" if something seems ot be bothering her.
you're my age,
and i understand exactly what you're coming from
i think this is cute.
but.. seriously.just start saying things to her..
maybe try going to a place were she goes, if she plays a sport, go watch her. and so on and so forth.
maybe get the nerve to sk her to a dance?
maybe be a secret admirer (wow, im tired= i can't spell) ? those are adorable.
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