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whats going on with her?
i used to be bff's with this girl kayla and then highschool came and we didnt have any classes together except one and she dropped it. so i started hanging out with a whole lot more people and now im friends with a lot of people all over school. and when me and kayla hang out its like she is a whole different person and she seems to get on my nerves alot. when i talk about my other friends she gets all defensive and interuptts me when im telling a story and breaks in with what her and this other girl danielle did. and danielle dont like me at all for some reason and tells kayla lies about me. my friend jt says that she is jealous. he is my bff now becasue kayla and me dont ever see or talk to each other any more. so can you tell me whats going on with all of this??
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Wow, i think every girl in America goes through this- well at least I did =] When you grow up, your old friends and yourself might drift becasue you are both changing into "who you are" At a younger age (when you both got along great) you are both a lot more open minded because you arent sure who you are or where you stand with anything. Its good that you are making friends, and it sounds to me like Kayla is probably a little jealous at the fact. Sometimes its really hard watching your best friend go out without you, and hang around people that she doesnt like. She isnt a very good friend though if she isnt happy for you that you are making other friends. When I went through this, I learned who my true friends were and who arent. Friends come and go in your lifetime, and some of them will be really hard to say goodbye to. Especially if you have been friends for a long time. Dont ever feel afraid to go out and make friends because your upsetting one person though. You cant put all your trust and love and respect into one friend, because what happens if that friend leaves you one day? Who are you left with? Nobody but yourself. Like i said before, Kayla might be getting annoying to you because you are both changing into different people (high school does that.. believe it or not) When my best friend Jenn and I went through that, we chilled away from eachother a little bit and then everything seemed to be fine after time. Changing is hard enough as it is, but also having a friend who is going through the same process but ending on a different path is even harder. If your friendship is worth it, you will continue to be her friend and try to help with whatever she needs but in all honesty, it sounds like it isnt. I would not waste my time with someone who cant listen to me or help me out, thats what friends are there for. I know this response was long but i really hoped it helped you out!!... :)
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