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confidence problem
14/f
Okay, so first off i do have a confidence problem.
WHen im with my friends, some of them i can be really loud, but then with ALL my friends or in big groups i get really quiet. I was wondering if this had anything to do with my confidence.
If it does how do i gain confidence. And i don't want to be shy when it comes to groups, its just i never can think of anything to talk about either..
please help! and thankss
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You and I are almost the exact same way. The problem isnt confidence- its comfortability. You are more comfortable to be yourself in a small group of close friends rather then a large group. I'm crazy fun with a few friends, but when Im at a party with a lot of people I know im pretty quiet and i get uneasy. Building up comfortability and confidence just means you have to get used to being in larger groups. Gaining confidence comes through experience (unless your willing to spend a ton of money on useless tapes that tell you that "your good enough") Start a conversation with a small group (when there are a ton of people around) and they might bring it up to other people and you could get to talk to a lot more people. Your only 14 as well, and thats when you start to really question if what you are saying is "cool" and you are worried how people percieve you... Youll gain confidence through age as well- so dont worry. Hope it helped.. =]
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