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Hii, my name is Jen. :) I'm indecisive about almost everything. - I'm very realistic and down to earth. - I am honest, and the only thing I ask for is honesty back. As long as you tell me the truth, I cant get mad; maybe hurt or upset, but i cant be mad, and that is the only thing i ask of anyone. - I've never been the kind of girl who needs a boyfriend. I don't go out looking for one. - I'm very sensitive towards others. - I usually only say things to make myself laugh. - In the Winter, I hibernate; if I can't wear flipflops then it's just too cold. If it's cold outside, then i will be inside in sweat pants and a hoodie probably writing, or doing something unproductive. - I love to laugh and I love to love. - I love every day that God has given me. Even if it's a sucky day, he's given me one more chance to make my mark. I'm thankful for the life I have lived, because it has made me who I am today, and I'm pretty satisfied.I'll help anyone who has a problem with: Love, Friendships, Health/Fitness, Sex.
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okay so i just lost my virginity two days ago and i felt so useless...he was alot more experianed then me and it was terrible. I had to idea how to blow him or ride him or massage him. And when he was ontop of me he wasn't going fast enough cuz the thought i was sensitive.. I feel weird like moaning his name and saying faster or harder or whatever. Oh and when he did go harder i guess i made a weird face or something....how do u be more sexy???
Honestly, this question makes me sad. Wait until you're with someone who you're in love with and who's in love with you, and you won't be so uncomfortable and it will come naturally.
okay so im 14 and most of my friends hav gotten fingered, eaten out, gave hjs and bjs, but ive only made out... like its just not my style. i only like to really makeout if i like the person.i just dont know when im ready to give a hj or bjor anything related to that. any advice/opinions would be great :]
You are so, so young. When I was 14, I had the same questions/thoughts you did. Thank God I have matured a lot more since then, and developed morals. I'm 19 now, and still haven't had sex, or any form of sex, and I'm going to wait until my wedding night to do so. I've had many opportunities to have sex (and oral sex, etc.), but I simply knew what was right for me, and down the road I would regret it. I enjoy the challenge after remaining pure this long, I take great pride in it. Not many people can keep it in their pants. I know only 1 or 2 other virgins...isn't that sad? I want to set a good example to everyone out there. I love being different from everyone else.
Anyway, you still have a lot of growing up to do before you're even mentally capable of making decisions like that, even though you may feel like you are. You're barely a teenager. It's okay to date and have fun with guys, but there are a lot of risks that come with sex (every form of sex). A night of compromise isn't worth a lifetime of regret.
A good quote to keep in mind:
"Anyone can go out and have sex, but it takes a lot more to say 'no'."
So yesterday, pretty much this morning, around 12:30-1:00 I had sex with my boyfriend. I lost my virginity to him and I don't regret it. We had a little to drink and then just ended up making out...and one thing lead to another and we had sex. It wasn't to painful and didn't realize that I had bled until I took a shower this morning and noticed my clothes. So yeah, we didn't use any protection but he said not to worry he didn't cum. I'm kind of nervous but not too worried about it, I just really don't want to get pregnant. We had sex for about 5 mins only; maybe evben less. Do you think I should get the morning after pill or am i ok?
Like others have said, it doesn't matter how long you had sex, or even if he pulled out/didn't cum, because there IS such a thing as precum. There is still a good chance that you're pregnant. You need to take the pill as soon as you can, if it's not too late. Good luck!
Okay, My names Jasmin, I'm 14 and live in Kentucky. I'm dating a guy named Chad, while I like a guy named James. Me and Chad's only been datin a couple of days, and I cant seem to get my mind off of James. I've dated James before and I'm inlove with him, or atleast I feel like I am.& I feel guilty if I date someone else, I feel like I'm doing him wrong. The thing is, we go to different schools, and we hardly ever get to see eachother, while me and chad go to the same school, my parents dont really approve of chad, and when i ask whats wrong with him they say look at his family? I'm like okay, not everyone turns out to be like their parents, which there isnt anything wrong with his parents, his dad just drinks occasionally. My father says chad wont work for nothin. My question is..what should I do, I love one, an Like another. I'm so confused.
You're dating Chad, but apparently you don't have many positive reasons to be involved with him. Love is a lot stronger than like. You should be with James, if that's who you "love".