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heya im sabrina..im 17...if i had to describe myself i simply would put it in these few words
*honest
*caring
*reliable
*helpfull
*happy
*crazy
*thoughtfull.
i am a very caring person an am willing to help anyone. i belive in second chances..but nothing more. i like to think people can trust me an find me easy to talk to as im a great listener.
i have have experienced alot of good and bad stuff in my life. and im working day by day to get over the bad. its what makes me stronger an i have learnt from alot of my wrongs. i belive in helpin others i live to make people happy. i try my best at most things but evan i can be wrong.i have amazing friends. and i wouldnt be here without them. talking gettin advice helps so much. i just want to give that back to people who need it. xxx

advice

I used to like this kid. like a lot. we kissed all the time and stuff like that, talked on the phone all the time. and somewhere in between all of that, he started talking to my best friend, and fell for her. so basically, he never calls me anymore, and I don't see him often anyway because he kinda far away. So now I'm starting to have doubts if he even did like me. Well about two weeks ago, the last time I saw him, he kissed me-- I kissed back. He told another best friend of mine that I kissed him first, I pulled his face in, all this stuff. He tried to put blame on me on a scenario that didn't even need "blame"... I was furious. My friends all told me "forget about him, hes a dick, he likes your best friend" all this shit. I agree with them, and I haven't really talked to him; he hasn't really called me (only twice since then) and I only called him once. I've been trying to tell myself hes such a dick, and for a little bit it worked. But now I'm realizing that I miss him. A lot. I miss kissing him, I miss him holding me, and I feel pathetic. He disrespected me and I feel used, but a part of me still wants him so bad. I can't talk to him about what he said either because the friend that told me said she wasn't supposed to tell me. What should I do? If I do see him, the next time is going to be the end of next month. Any advice?

It sounds to me asthough you have some good friends there. being honest with you about this an telling you. hold on to them.

this guy clearly dont know what he wants.
you proberly do mean something to him. from what you said about how close you were before with him.

it was wrong of him to start putting "blame" on you for something that he clearly had no problem with taking part in..remember it takes 2.

you`ll miss him. because of how close you were.

but think about it if he likes one of your friends whats to stop him being like that with her?

to me it sounds like you deserve alot better. maybe stay friends with him. but dont go any further unless you no its you he likes. an his not gana go behind your back telling your friends its all you.

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Okay so i was in a really serious relationship and we were in love and the whole 9 yards. but then we just broke up and the day after i was a complete mess, and i didn't shower and went to school, hair up, in sweats, no makeup, looking like i just got high because my eyes were so wore out from crying. ((Completely not me, i'm always dolled up looking like a girly girl))

For guys-- If you were the guy in this situation, would you rather see your ex. like that for a while showing you that you've made her miserable? Or would you rather see her looking better than ever showing her what you've lost? What would hurt you the most? or make you the most jealous?

For girls--What do you think? Should I go on looking amazing or keep looking like crap until i pull myself together? ((read guys question))

I don't know what to do in general either, do i try and make him jealous? Do i just keep living a happy life and show him that i'm doing great without him? or miserable without him? Idk.

HELP!

i belive if your boyfriend loves you hed want nothing more then to see you happy.
i dont think you should try and make him jealous because im sure he knows just how much his lost.

yes. be honest about how you feel. if he askes if your hurting tell him you are. if he asks how your doing dont hold back and not tell him.

if your feeeling rele low at the moment..then to me it sounds like you need a bit of cheerin up..so i would personally go out looking your best treat yourself like a princess. hold your head up high. no matter how bad you feel.

you`ll be ok an you`ll get trough this.

ive always been told

no guy is worth your tears. and the one who is..wont make you cry.

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Well i used to like this guy Matt at the beginning at hte end of first semester of my 8th grade school year but i stopped likeing him at the end of that year but now it's beginning of my 9th grade year and i'm going to a different school then him so i dont see him or anything but i keep having dreams about him or at least with him in them and i dont get why because i dont like him anymore i mean i havent seen him since the end of last year but still

dreams have many meanings and sometimes no meaning at all..often the dream has complete different meaning to the actual person or thing your dreaming about.

i still dream about alot of things that i have no contact or feeling for anymore.

dont get too hooked up on your dreams. after all its what you see an think when your awake that matters most.

if you carry on having this dreams maybe you should just simply try to forget them and if you cant forget them..maybe you havnt stoped likin him as much as you think you have.

its bothering you enough to question it isnt it?.

dreams are dreams. leave it at that

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ok first i dont know if this goes here but whatever this is going to sound really stupid but ok iwas at hardees with my sister who is 15 and betsy who is 16 well betsy's brother Shane works there and we were about to leave just throwing stuff away when Betsy accidentally dropped a cup so ice and soda spilt on the floor so she started to clean it up with napikins but it was still wet so i was going to put there caution wt floor sign on it so no one falls or anything but then Betsy's brother Shane just starts yelling at me telling me to leave and that i do not touch that caution wet floor sign and stuff and so Betsy was like hello she was trying to help so cause someone is probably going to walk in here and fall and then sue you or something so we left and yeah i just cant get it out of my head and i know it's really majorly stupid but yeha i cant get it outt of my head

hmm it sounds like your friend betsy`s brother might of been having a bad day an took it out on you. which if he did he owes you an apology. which im sure he will give if he rialises how wrong it was of him to shout at you. afterall you were just looking out for the safty of everyone else.

if it still continues to trouble you..why not go see him in the week ask him if he is ok? ask him if anything is wrong..he might talk to you.

you did nothing wrong just remember that.

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14/f

so my friend wants me to get a homecoming date so we could double date before the homecoming dance, like just go out to dinner. i really want to because i think it'd be fun but i recently just found out i think i'm gay..everythings just been really complicated for me lately. she made like a whole list of guys and i marked no next to every one. bahh should i just go with some guy anyways? i don't know..anything you can give about being gay to could help. i just don't know. i really need advie

thanks

Firstly dont do anything your not comfy with.
if you think you might be gay maybe talking to your close friend about it could help.

at your age your going to question alot of things like if you like girls or boys or both.
i went threw it myself.

you could ask a close guy mate to go with you. if your not ready to talk to anyone about how you feel an just make him no its just as friends. im sure your friend wouldnt see any harm in that.

just remember do what you want to do. and enjoy your self.

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I have problem and my problem is that I had sex a day ago and today my v is hertin and I be need in to pee avery 5mins and its only a little bit and when I do pee it hert in side and this is not the frist time it happend and when it did I got check but they didn't say any was wrong with me , but now am woudering wat should I do cause am worried and don't know wat to d0 cause it hert s0 bad

you said you got checked and they said nothing was wrong with you. that may be true if it is then you have nothing to worry about.

but if you still find yourself in pain
you may need to go back for another check up.

my sister recently had the same problems.
but it turnt out she had a water*urine* infection
she was running back an forth to the toilet.
but its nothing to worry about. you just might need to have some antibiotix.
drink plenty of water. an should be all sorted in a matter of days.

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