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I never thought I'd miss him...
I used to like this kid. like a lot. we kissed all the time and stuff like that, talked on the phone all the time. and somewhere in between all of that, he started talking to my best friend, and fell for her. so basically, he never calls me anymore, and I don't see him often anyway because he kinda far away. So now I'm starting to have doubts if he even did like me. Well about two weeks ago, the last time I saw him, he kissed me-- I kissed back. He told another best friend of mine that I kissed him first, I pulled his face in, all this stuff. He tried to put blame on me on a scenario that didn't even need "blame"... I was furious. My friends all told me "forget about him, hes a dick, he likes your best friend" all this shit. I agree with them, and I haven't really talked to him; he hasn't really called me (only twice since then) and I only called him once. I've been trying to tell myself hes such a dick, and for a little bit it worked. But now I'm realizing that I miss him. A lot. I miss kissing him, I miss him holding me, and I feel pathetic. He disrespected me and I feel used, but a part of me still wants him so bad. I can't talk to him about what he said either because the friend that told me said she wasn't supposed to tell me. What should I do? If I do see him, the next time is going to be the end of next month. Any advice?
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Well what hes done probably isnt the best thing,
although this might sound like im defending what hes done but you cant help who you like
Its totaly normal to miss someone even if what theyve done isnt that nice i mean youll probably feel this way for a while
If you see him dont be mean or funny with him, just dont expect him to be the same with you
If you want to ask him about then you should although he might say that he doesnt like you which could be a bit upsetting but some people rather know the truth.
hope this helps
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It sounds to me asthough you have some good friends there. being honest with you about this an telling you. hold on to them.
this guy clearly dont know what he wants.
you proberly do mean something to him. from what you said about how close you were before with him.
it was wrong of him to start putting "blame" on you for something that he clearly had no problem with taking part in..remember it takes 2.
you`ll miss him. because of how close you were.
but think about it if he likes one of your friends whats to stop him being like that with her?
to me it sounds like you deserve alot better. maybe stay friends with him. but dont go any further unless you no its you he likes. an his not gana go behind your back telling your friends its all you.
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