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serious relationship breakup
Okay so i was in a really serious relationship and we were in love and the whole 9 yards. but then we just broke up and the day after i was a complete mess, and i didn't shower and went to school, hair up, in sweats, no makeup, looking like i just got high because my eyes were so wore out from crying. ((Completely not me, i'm always dolled up looking like a girly girl))
For guys-- If you were the guy in this situation, would you rather see your ex. like that for a while showing you that you've made her miserable? Or would you rather see her looking better than ever showing her what you've lost? What would hurt you the most? or make you the most jealous?
For girls--What do you think? Should I go on looking amazing or keep looking like crap until i pull myself together? ((read guys question))
I don't know what to do in general either, do i try and make him jealous? Do i just keep living a happy life and show him that i'm doing great without him? or miserable without him? Idk.
HELP!
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This is the trick to breaking up:
STOP CARING WHAT HE THINKS/FEELS/WANTS/WHATEVER.
Don't try to do things that will effect him. It just drags everything out. You end up arguing about nothing just because you are trying to keep his attention focused on you and the breakup drama.
Worse then that, it slows down the process of getting over him.
He's gone! He doesn't get to be the centre of your universe anymore. His response to the way you dress don't matter, at all.
Yeah, I know you are going to think about him and how he sees you know, you can't help that, but you can't let those thoughts about him dictate how you live your life, or even how you dress!
Dress the way you want too. Be friends with the people you want too. Flirt if you want too. To hell with him and what he thinks. His opinion should no longer carries any wieght in your life.
Take whatever time, and do whatever you need to help YOU. If dolling yourself up makes you smile, do it. If mucking around in sweat pants helps you chill and relax, do that!
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Continue to look GORGEOUS! Show him what he's missing. Why show him that your so upset about him? You broke up, evidently theirs no point in looking like crap. Unless, he broke up with you, then you can be upset as much as you want. Don't try to make him jealous, its immature, let it be, just let him do what he needs to do, and you do what you ahve to do. Live your life the way you want it, not how you think you should show him how your life is. Live it for you. Hope I helped!
-Brina
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i belive if your boyfriend loves you hed want nothing more then to see you happy.
i dont think you should try and make him jealous because im sure he knows just how much his lost.
yes. be honest about how you feel. if he askes if your hurting tell him you are. if he asks how your doing dont hold back and not tell him.
if your feeeling rele low at the moment..then to me it sounds like you need a bit of cheerin up..so i would personally go out looking your best treat yourself like a princess. hold your head up high. no matter how bad you feel.
you`ll be ok an you`ll get trough this.
ive always been told
no guy is worth your tears. and the one who is..wont make you cry.
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