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alright so me and this guy are dating and like i have no problems keeping conversations with guys at all..like i never have in my life.EVER! soo im going out with this guy and we never talk at lunch or ever..we cant keep a conversation..we talk sometimes in the hallways..i mean its not awkward...but i want more to talk about. me and him are going to the mall together this weekend..how do i keep a conversation without trying to sound desperate or cheesy (: thankss
and p.s. we both like eachother and i think its nerves..but any ideas on how to get over them. cause i like him alot an he likes me too but i dont want him to stop liking me cause we never talk.. (link)
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well i would say that u talk about how things are in life for you and ask him how life is for him you know what i mean?
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My parents are divorced, but still have the same ideas on alot of stuff. I am white. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. My parents both say that i can not like(have a crush on), date, or marry anyone who is Black, "Mexican"(I tell them all the time "HISPANIC"), Chinese, or Mixed. The thing is, I like ALOT of people! About half of which are not white. Its not because I like other colors, I just happen to like these people. my parents say they will disown me if i ever marry someone not white. The boy I am crazy about is Hispanic. I have a lot of different colored friends. So racism realy offends me. But whenever i mention this, they get mad. What can I do! (link)
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You shouldnt worry. parents go through these things but they get over it. trust me i had that happen to me. but after a while they will let you hang out with them and then pretty soon after that they will let you date them.
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Okay so I recently started dating a football player at my highschool. We dated for about a week, and while we were dating there was another boy (a black boy) who started to flirt with me and he asked me out everyday every chance he got, I started to flirt with this boy and I started to like him too.
I soon later, Broke up with my boyfriend to date this boy. I told my boyfriend I wanted to wait until after football season was over so I could actually spend time with him outside of school and he said he understood.
He eventually found out I was dating the other boy and he got mad that I left him for a black boy.
I really like the person I am dating now, but everytime I talk to him on the phone all he wants to talk about is sex. I told him I rather do the real thing and I thought it was stupid to do so over the phone, But everytime I talk to him on the phone he is telling me he wants me to get "horny" or talk dirty to him.
I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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Well you should break up with this guy beacause it's not right to talk about sex and i think you were better off with the football player.
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alright 14/f.
boyfriends 14/m too
to start off me and my boyfriend have been together for more then a year and almost two years in december. trust me on this one, we really do love eachother. if you dont believe in this age of love then stop reading :) The past two weeks, we keep arguing. When the boyfriend and I are like with a group of friends somehow at some point of the day we'll start arguing. But i have NO IDEA what we argue about, like it must have been something stupid cause i dont remember. Honestly I think thats why were fighting, i dont know why but it seems we only fight when were with other people. Basically were not arguing anymore, but to prevent it where can we go to be alone? [my boyfriend and i live two blocks maway from eachother and many kids live around our area] (link)
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Well I would hang out at his house or invite him to yours without anyone going with you guys.
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okay look i like this guy im 13 hese 16 yes, i kno age diffrence,anyway well a couple of weeks ago i printed out a pic of me and him that waws on my compuuter and he saw it rite and then today he was jokin around wit me and gave me a tatoo well it was a gum and inside it a little tatoo he gave it to me rite as a friend im guessing and then after that in the end of the day i was still holding it i didnt throw it away
just holding it
then i see him pas by and from the corner of his eye he was lookin at the tatoo in my hand and i was like.. sh*t then my friend is with him on the bus and she was like talking to him like i love emily so much! shes soo cute and pretty about me and then he just looked at heer and didnt respond.. do u think its obviouse that i like him? do u think he knows?
thanks
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well you know boys can tell when you like them if you still have something they gave you. so he might know. have you given him any hugs? just e-mail me and i will help you there. just e-mail me at samisuqui@cox.net
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In the U.S. I know you have to be 18 to buy tickets to see a rated R movie, but at a place like walmart do you have to be 18 to buy a rated R movie? (link)
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yes. you do because if they dont let you in the movies if your not 18 then they wont let you buy a movie if your not 18. Im really sorry though.
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My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a month. We never have anything to talk about. It feels weird. Hes in 6 of my classes plus lunch.I need stuff to talk about.
please help me!!
stuck in a conversation (link)
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well my boyfriend and I are the same way but all you have to do is think of somethig to talk about. you know like start it out asking him how he is and then go to talking about random stuff.
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I don't really like to show cleavage, I really don't know why but I'm kind of insecure about it. Instead of showing cleavage, I was wondering, what are some other good ways I could show off my body? Like any types of jeans, shirts, etc. that doesen't require showing cleavage lol. thanks! (link)
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I sugjest using tight pants and shirts so that way everything just pops out.
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my friend got mad at me for not letting her cheat on a test. i didnt think it was right to have her cheat. what should i do???? (link)
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well if I were you I would tell her that cheating is not right and if she was your real friend she would know not to mad at something like that.
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ok well my best friend moved away and we have been getting into alot of fights and like we used to never fight and now she thinks i won't stand up for her and stuff like that and now shes says were not best friends anymore we are just friends and she wants me to prove to her that we are best friends by tellng her and stuff but i can't impress her shes just so hard to impress.
What do i do?
HELP FAST
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Well the thing is if she wants someone to stand up for her it should be her standing up for herself. I would just agree and just be friends because if she was your real friend she would know that she should stand up for herself.
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I have been hanging out with this guy. The first night we hung out it made the moves on me and we hooked up. I didn't plan on that happening cuz that is kind of whoreish but whatever.. anyway we kept hanging out and it seems like every time we hang out we have sex. He says that he really likes me i had a feeling he was just using me but he says that he really likes me so whatever. He said that we would date but I'm too young.. we are like 7 years apart. I really like him but if we cant date for 3 years idk if i should stop messing around with him and just be friends i've tried that but i can never stick it out. I get jealous when he talks to other girls like he talks to a lot of girls he lives in a college town and goes to parties. He has pictures of him and hot chicks all over his walls. I don't know what i should do.. what do you think? (link)
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well i think you should just be friends. Because like if he is seven years apart it wont work out. and when someone is that many years apart their just using you to tell all his guy friends that he had sex with you and then one day they will rape you. And i dont think you want that.
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So i have been on the YAZ for almost 3 months now, but i recently had sex and i have tons of the symtoms of being pregnant. Since im on the pill that makes your body think you're pregnant.. will the result of the pregnacy test say that I am pregnant? (link)
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yeah. if your pregnet then it will come out positive. But YAZ is a pregnant pill.
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hey well I have a really good friend name ana, and I have such an amazing boyfriend name peter well they knew each other for like years, and my friend ana used to be in love with him!! and at first I cared about it and now I don't cause I know he would never cheat on me and I know my friend ana wouldn't do that to me, and well lets just say (not to be conceited) she's 10x's bigger than me she's really fat and I'm atheltic, but its not the looks always count but I feel that she still has feelings for him and she keeps going to him and hugging and touching in places that I don't like, and peter (my boyfriend) always says stop, what are you doing, but she doesn't get and it and plus she has a boyfriend, so I don't know what to believe. and I already told her that I don't like that and she goes and says I can't help it I'm like that, and I started thinking what do u mean u can't help it, soo I really don't know if I should trust her or not, or should I just let it slide. please help!! she's my best friend and I don't like what's she's doing EVEN my boyfriend started realizing it, so please help
does she still have feelings for him,even when she denies it? I don't know help
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ok well heres the thing. everyone does things that arnt good. but they CAN help it. people can help what they do. so dont believe her she knows she can help it she just wants you to think she doesnt.
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Look...i really like this guy and he really likes me but i also like this other guy...and i think about them both all the time....wat do i do? the guy that likes me back means the world to me while the other one is just a "man Whore" but i like them both...help me (link)
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well i would just say that if you love this guy who likes you back you should date him. because if he would mean the world to you then you should date him if things dont go right brake up and date the other.
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I tried to search this on google but nothing came up but...
Is is true that you can get breast cancer if you hit a girl in the chest too hard?
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actually yes. because you see when your breast get hit it makes the muscle not so good anymore and then your breasts wont be the same anymore. and also if you hit your breast like really really hard then that could lead to some serious problems.
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I'm not sure if this is the right category, sorry. Anyway, my problem is that I tend to get very attatched to people, and i scare myself sometimes because I begin to wonder, what would I do if that person didn't want to be my friend anymore or something? Some people say it's a good thing to get attatched, but I feel like I'm being kind of clingy. What's your opinion, and, is there any advice on how to not feel so dependent on people? I guess I'm just kind of lonely. Thanks (link)
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well. i get attatched to my friends too. and the thing you should do is try not to be too clingy. you know just take it easy and let your friendship grow by its self.
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ok well theres this girl i like and she knows i do but i dont know if she likes me well looks at me almost as much as i look at her and she smiles at me and she does look nervous and just latley she had to take a test in my homeroom for my homeroom teacher and she sat 2 seats behind me the other one was already tooken by someone probaly but i try to say something but im just not sure what to say
i think she does like me but how do i talk to her more cause this year we have no classes together last year we did (link)
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well i sugjest to talk in the hall. ask for her phone number. i had a problem like this before. but one day i got the nerve to ask them if they liked me. he said yes. its not that bad when they say no. she's your friend right? well she if she doesnt like u she will tell you in a nice way. trust me on this. it happens.
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I like this guy lets call him "Phil"(random name). I have a crush on him, he's at my new school. He plays guitar, is short, but cute, and luvs the same music i do(fob, mcr, p!atd). So today he sits next to me and my friend Tori for lunch. He says I remind him of his ex girlfriend. Now, from what I know from talking to him, he only has had one girlfriend and she and him were together 3 weeks ago, but he asked her to go to homecomeing with him, she said no and she brokeup with him. He was evidently head-over-heels for her.
FYI: I have a short attention span. So i just hear him say creepy and point at me. So i turned my head and said 'What's wrong with me being creepy?' He threw his hands up in surrender and said "I said it's just creepy how much you are like my ex-girlfriend"
He's SO nice and cute! There's a Sady Hawkin's dance comin' up, so i was wondering what do u think he meant by that I'm like hisex, is that good or bad given the past. (link)
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i think its kinda bad because if his ex borke up wit him he probally isnt on good terms with her
but dont tryto change urself jus cause a guy if he doesnt like you for who you r forget him you can do way better
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My bff is acting strange lately. She used to always want to hang out with me and our other friends but now, she attempts to sit with the "popular" kids and ignores us in the hallways. But as soon as we leave school she's like "wanna go to my house?" and we don't want to hurt her feelings by saying no. so we say yeah. But then once we get to her house she starts gossiping, which we(me and other friends) don't like. She talks about people. and sometimes we wonder why she does. She is turing into one of them(populars) it is getting old.
We know that the populars don't like her at all cause she's constantly saying "oh i am fat" and "my hips are HUGE" and no one likes that. So she is pretty much trying to become something that she probly will never be and we are getting anoyed.
Well my question is how can i explain to her that what she's doing is anoying us? i mean i tried telling her that she was annoying us but she says that "your a dork! you don't know what cool is! and what i am doing is the definition of cool" not even kidding she said that exact thing to me. And to our other friends and now they(friends) don't wanna be around her!!
What can i do before she loses all her REAL friends forever? (link)
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Try telling her that you really care for her and that those kind of people who start rumors are not the kind to hang out with. And that if she really wants to be cool then she should hang with her real friends (you and others)
Sincerely, Sami Q.
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