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i like him....alot
I like this guy lets call him "Phil"(random name). I have a crush on him, he's at my new school. He plays guitar, is short, but cute, and luvs the same music i do(fob, mcr, p!atd). So today he sits next to me and my friend Tori for lunch. He says I remind him of his ex girlfriend. Now, from what I know from talking to him, he only has had one girlfriend and she and him were together 3 weeks ago, but he asked her to go to homecomeing with him, she said no and she brokeup with him. He was evidently head-over-heels for her.
FYI: I have a short attention span. So i just hear him say creepy and point at me. So i turned my head and said 'What's wrong with me being creepy?' He threw his hands up in surrender and said "I said it's just creepy how much you are like my ex-girlfriend"
He's SO nice and cute! There's a Sady Hawkin's dance comin' up, so i was wondering what do u think he meant by that I'm like hisex, is that good or bad given the past.
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Well since he talks to you, it's unlikely he's afraid of you or anything like that. It's possible he is simply referring to an uncanny resemblance, maybe you have similar hair or features.
If you want to go to the dance with him, ask. Being like his ex could be a good OR a bad thing, depending on how he meant it. Show that you're not just another version of his ex. If she comes off as a conceited bitch, don't be a conceited bitch. Know what I mean? Be nice to him, talk about things, and be yourself (guys can tell when you're being fake)
You seem to have a lot in common, so I think it's worth a shot asking him to the dance. Like I said before, once he spends some time with you he may realize that you're actually a lot different than his ex-girlfriend (which is probably a good thing!)
Good luck, and my inbox is open if you need more advice.
-LM
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i think its kinda bad because if his ex borke up wit him he probally isnt on good terms with her
but dont tryto change urself jus cause a guy if he doesnt like you for who you r forget him you can do way better
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If you say he was head-over-heels for her, then I suppose that it would be a compliment, and the fact that he hangs out with you is pretty much an "okay, i really like you" move. see if he asks you to the dance within 2 days of it, and if he doesn't just ask him. it's just a beautiful relationship waiting to happen.
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I think that before you consider dating him, you need to clarify exactly what he sees in you that so reminds him of her, and make sure he understands - REALLY understands - that you are not version 2.0 of his previous girlfriend, but that you are an individual person who may be very different in some ways than the girl he dated before.
If he doesn't get this through his head, then he's going to be thinking of her whenever he's with you. That can't be what you want.
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