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My best friend (or was)
ok well my best friend moved away and we have been getting into alot of fights and like we used to never fight and now she thinks i won't stand up for her and stuff like that and now shes says were not best friends anymore we are just friends and she wants me to prove to her that we are best friends by tellng her and stuff but i can't impress her shes just so hard to impress.
What do i do?
HELP FAST
Thanx
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Well the thing is if she wants someone to stand up for her it should be her standing up for herself. I would just agree and just be friends because if she was your real friend she would know that she should stand up for herself.
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I understand what you're saying and that you want to be best friend with this girl but...why do you want to be best friends with someone who puts all the effort on you and makes you feel like you aren't worthy of her friendship?
I had a best friend right the way up through school but it was never about impressing each other because it was a mutual friendship. We got together and hung out, went shopping, made up games, played on her Sega, made mini films and TV shows on her video camera......fun stuff. We were on equal footing and would never have dreamed of making each other feel inferior.
If this girl is demanding that you prove your friendship to her, then you need to ask yourself how come she has nothing to prove?? What makes her so special? If you ask me, the very fact she is treating you this way tells me that you deserve a much better friend and you should get out there and find them!
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