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I need some acvice please!!!
hey well I have a really good friend name ana, and I have such an amazing boyfriend name peter well they knew each other for like years, and my friend ana used to be in love with him!! and at first I cared about it and now I don't cause I know he would never cheat on me and I know my friend ana wouldn't do that to me, and well lets just say (not to be conceited) she's 10x's bigger than me she's really fat and I'm atheltic, but its not the looks always count but I feel that she still has feelings for him and she keeps going to him and hugging and touching in places that I don't like, and peter (my boyfriend) always says stop, what are you doing, but she doesn't get and it and plus she has a boyfriend, so I don't know what to believe. and I already told her that I don't like that and she goes and says I can't help it I'm like that, and I started thinking what do u mean u can't help it, soo I really don't know if I should trust her or not, or should I just let it slide. please help!! she's my best friend and I don't like what's she's doing EVEN my boyfriend started realizing it, so please help
does she still have feelings for him,even when she denies it? I don't know help
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ok well heres the thing. everyone does things that arnt good. but they CAN help it. people can help what they do. so dont believe her she knows she can help it she just wants you to think she doesnt.
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If your boyfriend doesn't like the way he is being treated or touched, it's up to him to speak up and make that clear to her. It sounds like he is trying. Encourage him to be honest with her, or to remove himself from her presence if she can't respect his bounderies.
This issue, really is between him and her.
If you trust him, then you don't really NEED the situation to change, although you'd like it too. If he NEEDs this to change, the best thing you can do is support him in that, not pick on Ana over you own feelings, but gently remind her that Peter has asked her not to behave that way.
Some people do just have different bounderies, and since Ana and Peter have known eachother so long they might have established a different comfort zone (or she might think they have).
As Ana's friend, you should assume she is telling you the truth. If you love and trust them both, help the two of them communicate and keep your own worries and jealousy out of it. Let them work it out.
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usually the first step of a crush is denial so she probably does. but you shouldnt call your friend fat. even if it is true. but when she does something like that to your boyfriend then say hey you know what, hes my boyfriend not yours so if you wanna get all touchy feely wit a guy then go get your own. and dont say you cant help it cuz if your really my friend you WILL help it..just let her no that you mean buissness...hope i helped
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