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conversation?
alright so me and this guy are dating and like i have no problems keeping conversations with guys at all..like i never have in my life.EVER! soo im going out with this guy and we never talk at lunch or ever..we cant keep a conversation..we talk sometimes in the hallways..i mean its not awkward...but i want more to talk about. me and him are going to the mall together this weekend..how do i keep a conversation without trying to sound desperate or cheesy (: thankss
and p.s. we both like eachother and i think its nerves..but any ideas on how to get over them. cause i like him alot an he likes me too but i dont want him to stop liking me cause we never talk..
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well i would say that u talk about how things are in life for you and ask him how life is for him you know what i mean?
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I'd just try and find things that you're both interested in. That should be easy at the mall. Point out stuff you like, and he'll probably point out stuff that he likes and in no time you won't be able to stop talking!
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Dear Conversationless,
I myself had the SAME PROBLEM a few weeks ago. He asked me out over the summer, we talked on AIM, and during school only a few one word phrases. So now it's october and we're broken up. And a found a new guy, i like less, but talk to more. See i don't think it's REALLY nerves, it may be that your friends are just more talkative, or that you are unsure if people will think your a flirt or something like that. All i can say is start the conversation, and talk about things that he likes and can talk about for HOURS.
--Chesterfield Valley Girl like duh chya for life
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Say things that don't just have one-word answers. Saying how nice a day it is outside isn't going to keep him interested. Comment on something he has with him, like if he has a skateboard with him, talk about skateboarding. Keep yourself updated on the news. Like I was out of convo with my hairdresser the other day, so I talked about staph infections which I saw on NBC, which kept a good convo for about 15 or so minutes. Or talk about the new movies that are coming out, or something light gossip.
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