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Boyfriend problems.
Okay so I recently started dating a football player at my highschool. We dated for about a week, and while we were dating there was another boy (a black boy) who started to flirt with me and he asked me out everyday every chance he got, I started to flirt with this boy and I started to like him too.
I soon later, Broke up with my boyfriend to date this boy. I told my boyfriend I wanted to wait until after football season was over so I could actually spend time with him outside of school and he said he understood.
He eventually found out I was dating the other boy and he got mad that I left him for a black boy.
I really like the person I am dating now, but everytime I talk to him on the phone all he wants to talk about is sex. I told him I rather do the real thing and I thought it was stupid to do so over the phone, But everytime I talk to him on the phone he is telling me he wants me to get "horny" or talk dirty to him.
I dont know what to do anymore.
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Well you should break up with this guy beacause it's not right to talk about sex and i think you were better off with the football player.
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You tell him flat out no. You don't want to do it.
Explain to him why - whether it makes you feel uncomfortable, or you just don't enjoy it. Don't say it's stupid - it sounds like a bad excuse because some people really like to do it.
Next time you see him, have a few words with him about it. It's a silly thing to get into arguments etc about phone sex.
He should understand, and if he doesn't and gets mad over little things like that, if I were you, I'd reconsider being in a relationship with him.
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