Question Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 3:40 pm
okay so i just lost my virginity two days ago and i felt so useless...he was alot more experianed then me and it was terrible. I had to idea how to blow him or ride him or massage him. And when he was ontop of me he wasn't going fast enough cuz the thought i was sensitive.. I feel weird like moaning his name and saying faster or harder or whatever. Oh and when he did go harder i guess i made a weird face or something....how do u be more sexy???
hahamber16 answered Saturday September 22 2007, 11:13 am: First times are always some awkward especially if you are losing it to somebody that has already had sex. You can't be sexy with anybody unless you are comfortable and the impression I am getting from this is that you weren't comfortable. It sounds like it was an "in the moment thing" and thats exactly how I lost mine as well. I want to say practice makes perfect but I dont want you going out and screwing every guy just to make yourself more "Sexy". Wait until you are with someone and take it slow, you will learn certain things that will either make you comfortable or not. Comfort is the number one thing that leads to you being "Sexy"... so find a guy that you can be yourself in front of, and you will be suprised of how "sexy" you can be later on. Hope it helped... :) [ hahamber16's advice column | Ask hahamber16 A Question ]
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