Question Posted Monday September 24 2007, 10:39 pm
welll, boys have been giving me more attetion i guess and i have no idea how to flirt or talk to them. i dont get nervous, but i just dont have anything to say. like on IM the convo is always the basic, hey. whatsup. nothing, you?. and thats it. what do i talk abouttt and how to i flirt?
chakra answered Wednesday September 26 2007, 9:58 am: Be your self. It is important that you don't act differently around your guy because he will see right through it and think you are fake.
Be happy. If you smile you will look more approachable and friendly. He wont want to be with someone who looks unhappy all the time. Also when your with your mates and he's with his, flash him a nice flirty smile.
Give him compliments. Guys get insecure about themselves just as much as us girls so he'll love it when you boost his confidence now and then.
Find out what kinda stuff he is into. Then do some secret research on it. he'll think its cool that you like the same cool band as him or his fave movie. Don't go overboard though, if you have Everything in common with him it'll soon get boring.
Laugh at his jokes, even the bad ones. not hysterically though or he might twig what you're up to.
Disconnected answered Wednesday September 26 2007, 9:30 am: well you could say something like your hair looked good or your shirt is cool...or if you have lessons with them talk about that..and if he says he dislikes the lesson/teacher/work you can jokingly call him silly or lazy :)
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