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i have a best friend and i love her so much as a friend that i call her my sis and i always have to talk to her like every hour and always be around her! i think im obsessed about our friendship and ive tried everything to stop being so obsessed over a friendship by trying to call her less and stop having her spend the night all the time and trying to not be around her everywhere she walks but its really really hard and it doesnt work! WHAt CaN i dO? Please help me asAp!... and thanks you!! (link)
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try to hang out wit other friends...rather than her...make plans wit ur other friends...but dont just stop hanging out wit her...just make time for all ur friends in ur life ;) n hang out wit all of them...i think its kinda sweet n koo dat u guys are close n everything but i got to admit it seems freaky 2 so...i dunno just try to hang around wit all ur friends make time for all of them...good luck ..xoxo effy
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Ok well everytime i log into my column my rating keeps going down...like yesterday i had 25 ppl that had rated me and now i only have 17? are ppl unrating me or something? or is this happening to everyone? (link)
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i just signed up for this but i dont think this is happening to everyone cuz its not happening to me...(i got rated once n i'm still da same) lol..so prolly ppl are unrating u or something...xoxo effy
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me and my brother are always arguing and i hate it. he always calls me names and im older wot can i do (link)
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hahahh i kno wut u mean..i've a brother of my own but i'm younger though....we always have fights n arguments but i lov him n he loves me...when i get annoyed n w/e i try to talk to him n w/e he understands...so now we kinda cuted that thing out even sometimes we still get out of hand lmao...but thats natural...tell ur brother to respect u n that u dont like it when u guys argue :) i bet it'll b better :) good luck xoxo effy
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I'm about 5'0, and way 100 lbs.13/f/ny. am i over weight? (link)
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u insane or wut?!? ur not over weight silly...yr actually skinny ;)...xoxo effy
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Does anyone know any good buddy icons sites? I really hate doll icons, so I need some good sites that don't have a ton of dolls. (link)
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www.originalicons.com
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okay i have this neighbor ill call him bob n his best friend who ill call fred last year bob n i had this thing but now its over -or at least it is with him i know how i feel i know it sounds really immature but i love him. well anyway fred has asked me out and i dont know what to tell him . hes really sweet nice n kinda cute but im in lovw with his beast friend. what can i do (link)
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tell him the truth...tell him that u dont see him the way he sees u...n that u have feelings for another person ;) xoxo effy
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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
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gurl...y is it bad gettin involved wit him?!?!? listen i understand he is a lottt older then u are...but if he feels like that for u n u feel the same way...IN LOVE AGE DONT METTER! so if u care for him enough u wouldnt care bout his age...;) n now that ur gonna b 18 it wont b a problem..so think bout it ;)xoxo effy
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ok so i have a bf and one of our friends is having this party. he will be there and so will some of my friends that have never met him be4. i really dont want them to meet him becuz:
1) if they think hes hot theyll b all over him
2) if they think hes ugly later they wont shut up
3) either way they will be really annoying and say stuff to him that i wouldnt want them to
i already talked to them they dont care they said i need to calm down etc. (link)
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gurllll realxx :) everything will b fine...i understand that ur nervous n ur worried n everything but calm down..1st if ur friends thing ur b/f is hot n they will b all over him then thats not wut i would call a friend...2nd if they think he ugly...i understand they'll start talkin n i admit its kinda mean to juge ppl wrong....but thats wut friends do..tell them how u feel bout him n that u dont care bout his looks...wut u see in him is his personality n if they're tru friends enough they'll understand n they'll stop it ;) trust me i've been there...my friends thought one of my b/f's was ugly but when i told them how i felt they understood n they never mentioned his looks again :) after awhile they actually agreed wit me that he was nice n everything so dont worry :) n try to relax ;)...xoxo effy
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hey i was just wondering do guys prefer straight hair or do they like curly/wavy hair? also which one do u think is "in".
thxxxxxx (link)
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there are diff types of guys..there are some who likes str8 some who prefer curly.. n some who dont relly care :)...i've str8 hair...but i still think that curly hair is better...dunno y i guess usually ppl wit str8 hair likes curly n the one wit curly likes str8... xoxo effy
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well i've decided to take the plung and kiss my bf! ahhhhh i'm scared! anyways, i need a plan. bearing in mind that i'll have to do it in school time (lunch or break) or on the way home from school. any ideas??? I WILL RATE U FOR THIS! (link)
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for my opinion do it whereever u feel comfortable n u think its the rite place...if u dont feel right doing it on lunch or break in school time then u got the other chance on the way home from school...so give it a try...wut u waiting for?!?! ;) xoxo effy good luck
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theres this guy and ive known him for a while now ((were the same age)) cuz hes my dads friends son and our familys get together every once in a while and just the other day we planned to go camping and when i got there my mom and his mom both told me to go w/ him and play golf and play games at the arcade w/ my brother and his brother so i did and then we talked for a while n then all the parents and kids went to another cabin late at night becuz they had dinner and me n him n my brother stayed back at our camp site and we sat down at a table and talked for like 3 hours and stuff and my brother like just listened cuz hes younger then us so we were talking n stuff and then he told my brother later on when the parents came back that he rilly liked me and then my brother told me that and then i was like o kewl and then at like 1 in the morning we were doing fireworks cuz its close to the 4th and we were bored and so my brother his brother me n him and there dad all did fireworks for a while and he stood by me and was asking me a bunch of questions like have u ever kissed a guy do u have a bf and stuff like that and i was assuming he wanted to kiss me cuz he was like well have u ever kissed a guy do u ever want to who do u want to kiss n stuff like that so then the next day we had to leave which was today and i mean i already like another guy but i like him to but i dont know if i would want to go out w/ him cuz he lives like an hour away and i dont see him that much only when our familys get together but i mean i like him a lot and idk wut to do! help pleez!! (link)
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hi...well thats a tough one...u need to take a time off from guys n try to think wich one makes u feel better n wit wich one u see ur self :) try to figure out wich one u want n make up ur mind...while u doing that talk to both of them...with the kid u just started liking try to keep in touch either by phone calls or talkin online or something..then as soon as posible make up ur mind...when u do that go for the one u like n good luck! just dont take to long n lose both chances...xoxo effy
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wat candy is your fave:
A)Hersheys (with or without almonds)
B)Twix
C)M&Ms (any kind of M&Ms)
D)Other (if you pick this kind wat is your fave)
thanx!! luv ya!! (link)
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i like them all :-P lol ...i dont relly have a fav :-D xoxo effy
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hi my friend has been really mean to me, they are starting to beat me up when there in a mood help xx (link)
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wut?!?! n u letting them beat u up? STAND UP FOR UR SELF...talk to them if they dont listen then KICK THEIR ASS 2 :-P n if u cant get someone older to talk to them n scare them away...btw dont call them friends cuz if they treat you like that then thats not wut friends are like ;) i'm sure u'll go n find some new friends much better then that n that will respect u...xoxo effy
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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends (link)
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hi...well, u made me remember my 1st yr in highschool ;)...i felt the same way...but trust me everyone thats gonna b a freshman next yr is gonna feel the same way! All the kids dat come new worry bout that...but after a day or 2 the fear goes off and automatically b4 u know it u'll have plenty of new friends...Just b u n dont worry bout a thing! xoxo effy
*~*~Happy 4th of July*~*~
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me n ma mates keep arguing and it really upsets me. i dont no wot to do about it can ne 1 help (link)
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well try to talk bout it...try to tell ur mate how u feel bout u 2 arguing...i'm sure everything will get better :) xoxo effy
*~*~Happy 4th of July*~*~
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how do i start my own fashion club that isn't on the net and do you know of any good websites that have fashion tips please reply asap (link)
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hi...i dont know any website that will give u fashion tips..but if u go to www.google.com n search for "fashion tips" i'm sure it will give u plenty websites ;) xoxo effy
btw happy 4th of july
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do? (link)
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hi. well i understand that u prolly love this kid so much n u wanna create a family and w/e...that's every gurls dream BUT dont u think ur a lil 2 early for that?!?!? i mean think bout it...ur young...later on u might change ur mind bout this guy...anything could happend..u know who knows may b he is not the one for u...i had been wit a guy for 2 yrs...while i was in a relationship wit him i thought the same thing...but after awhile things changed..he changed...n we ended breakin up...so dont rush in to things...now live ur teen life and have fun...TRUST ME u'll have time for EVERYTHING :) just give it time...dont do something u will regreat later on ;) xoxo effy
btw happy 4th of july
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hey~
i'm 12 and weigh 155 i don't look fat AT ALL but i don't get a lot of boyfriends and i have a chubby face. at the end of my 6th grade year i weighed 160 but i started running and biking every day and lost 5 lbs. but i want to get down to at least 130i still have till august 17 any suggestions i need help i want to look HoT!! (link)
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hi...well when i was yr age i've been there...n what helped me go down was i didnt eat that much...usually i ate healthy food like for ex: salad...etc. dont eat junk food at all n the key is to exercise...add a lil running or walkin to that n u'll b fine :) xoxxo effy
p.s. happy 4th of july ;)
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hey does ne one kno a good FREE website where i can make my own website to put pics and just put cute clip art and shout outs to my friends...thanks (link)
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www.xprofile.net
www.picturetrail.com (picturetrail is better cuz da one in xprofile sometimes dont work ;))
xoxo effy
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hey efty
this is about this girl that u know really well. I like her and everythin but when I told her that im gonna visit her
she blew me off
and I mean we got to know eachotha and talk on da phone and c each otha
but when I told her that im comin fo vacation to her city she said I wont chill wit u,
How can I act or answer to he or make her wantin to chill wit me
me nimo pak eftyy e din se per ca vajze eshe eeee
lol
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hey, well i uff...dis is tough..like u said i know the gurl n i know her pretty well...1st of u dont have to act or do anything else then B UR SELF!!...I mean u never know the reasons why she blew u off..i know that gurl n like u said i know her well...n one of the reasons why she blew u off its b/c it doesnt depend on her...i mean she doesnt get to have a choice...seriously so dont take it personal ;)...talk to her more :) u kno get to kno her more n everything...its kool to have a friend like her, trust me i've been there n i still am, but wut i think its kinda insane, is b/c u guys are a lil 2 far away...n may b she doesnt wanna have something more then just simpel friends online...u feel me?!?!? anyways "u can never blame a man for trying " so u do ur thing ;)) cuz u never know!! never give up on something u want real bad..u rather regrat something u did then something u didnt do ;).(if u feel dat way) xoxox effy ;)
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