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i have a best friend and i love her so much as a friend that i call her my sis and i always have to talk to her like every hour and always be around her! i think im obsessed about our friendship and ive tried everything to stop being so obsessed over a friendship by trying to call her less and stop having her spend the night all the time and trying to not be around her everywhere she walks but its really really hard and it doesnt work! WHAt CaN i dO? Please help me asAp!... and thanks you!!
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It's totally normal to adore your bf,I know I love mine!!!:) But you should always keep in mind that spending every second of every day together is not healthy for the friendship,cuz believe me,y'all WILL get on each other's last nerves,and that might spoil the entire friendship!!Spend some time with other friends @ the mall or the movies,or an arcade or something,somewhere where you're keeping busy.Spend time with family,watch a movie w/your rents or go visit Grandma for a weekend.Also spend some time with just YOU,indulge yourself in the things you like,whether it's watching reruns of your fav. TV show or playing soccer.Whatever it is.That way,when you and your bff are together,it will be that much more fun and exciting cuz you'll both have something new to share and talk about!!!!
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well i have a bestfriend that i feel the exact same way about her but you can kill her with too much kindness so try to give her some room but you can still be super tight like you always are
maybe you should try a couple days away and see how you feel.
goodluck!
melody's lil cuz'
lori
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try to hang out wit other friends...rather than her...make plans wit ur other friends...but dont just stop hanging out wit her...just make time for all ur friends in ur life ;) n hang out wit all of them...i think its kinda sweet n koo dat u guys are close n everything but i got to admit it seems freaky 2 so...i dunno just try to hang around wit all ur friends make time for all of them...good luck ..xoxo effy
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maybe make more friends and spend time with them so ur not always around her
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Join some clubs without her and make new friends of your own, not ones that you share. this will keep you occupied so that you don't feel you have to spend *all* your time with her. after a while, even when you're not with other friends or at clubs, you'll stop feeling the need to spend so much time with her. it's ok to have a really close friend but please don't let your friendship rule your life ok? <333 and keep me posted. :D
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If i was in ur shoes..i would still keep in touch with her n all u dont wanna lose that friendship over something stupid
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try hanging out with some other friends...u can still hang out with her but also try 2 get with some other friends and when u feel like calling her...call another friend...hope this helps!!!
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