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brothers arrrrrrr


Question Posted Sunday July 4 2004, 8:20 am

me and my brother are always arguing and i hate it. he always calls me names and im older wot can i do

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S_C answered Friday July 9 2004, 5:18 pm:
i kno, my sis is like that
sumtimes i just wanna EXPLODE, your best bet, is to ignore him, or if u can, get sum dirt on him, i have a younger brother, except he has ADHD, so it's kind of not his fault, but then it kind of is, my older sis is just naturally that way GRR

being the middle sux!

but anyways, either try to catch them doin sumthin, and get proof to tell ur parents, u mite be older, but ur also WISER.. it's a nice thing when u get siblings in trouble


well i kno that wasn't much help, but siblings are like that, i guess sumtimes we just hafta deal wit it!

Sry that i wasn't much help
But hope all is well 4 ya :)

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 6:12 pm:
LOL. Me and my sister fight ALL the time. But difference is... she's older than me. You can either:
1.) Talk to him about it.
2.) Ignore him.
3.) Walk away.

xoxo Kourtney

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footballchicka06 answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 1:39 pm:
Sit him down and tell him how you feel. and tell him that you love him and you don't want to fight. i have been thought that to I got 3 brothers i get to fight with :)

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GC2daMAX answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 10:30 am:
if u ignore him itll piss him off and he'll stop-just act like its not bothering you! GOOD LUCK

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Bubbles33 answered Monday July 5 2004, 9:34 pm:
That sounds like me ..i got to put up wit it every day the name callin and everything else..im 11 and hes gunna turn 16 in december he just picks on me cause he has nothing better to do..enough about my life lol...You should just talk to him about it or just ignore him..and sooner or later he will get the point that you dont care and maybe he will stop doing it i alwayz ignore my brother and he stops after a while..Good luck with this one!!

~bubbles~

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cowgurl answered Monday July 5 2004, 12:57 pm:
talk to ur parents about it. See if that helps. IF not talk to him. If that doesnt help than just steer clear.
Good Luck
*Melody

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lovinyouzzforeva! answered Sunday July 4 2004, 8:17 pm:
Yikes, sounds like my life! =) what i do is ignore him, after a while he gets ticked and leaves me a lone, also, i (i know its bad to) bribe him, saying th9ings such as: "you can't borrow my cd if you don't stop," or "i wont pay for you movies anymore" It's not right to, but thats a desparate situation. Also, you can pulll a classic thats gaurenteed to work: MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!
<333 alyssa

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Sunday July 4 2004, 5:46 pm:
hahahh i kno wut u mean..i've a brother of my own but i'm younger though....we always have fights n arguments but i lov him n he loves me...when i get annoyed n w/e i try to talk to him n w/e he understands...so now we kinda cuted that thing out even sometimes we still get out of hand lmao...but thats natural...tell ur brother to respect u n that u dont like it when u guys argue :) i bet it'll b better :) good luck xoxo effy

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dancer_freak05 answered Sunday July 4 2004, 3:45 pm:
Just ignore him. Or ask him to stop.

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Cammie answered Sunday July 4 2004, 12:36 pm:
Just like brother and sister...you're always going to have little quarrels...and sometimes huge fights. But in the end, you know that he loves you...and you love him. When he starts acting up, just ignore him. Give him the silent treatment! You shouldn't have to deal with his bratty attitude all the time! If you don't feel like giving him the silent treatment, but rather blast his booty...don't! You might say something you'll regret! Like, "I hate you as a brother!" or "I wish Mom and Dad never had you!" or really MEAN things like that. (Not saying you'd actually say those things though. :) ) Oh, and don't hit him ever. Then he'll have a reason to be a brat to you. Just say how you're not going to deal with his rude attitude. Say you're sick of him treating you so badly, and think he needs to show some respect to you. You're older, more mature, and he needs to respect that! Sometimes younger siblings don't learn how to just back off and give the older sibling space. So BEFORE you get into a huge argument, say "Don't talk to me like that." Tell him what he's doing is annoying/bothering/ticking you off...but say it nicely. If he keeps doing it, just do what I said WAY above. OR, just walk away. It's so much easier than screaming at each other. Maybe you, your Mom, Dad, and brother should all have a family discussion and talk about you and your brother's issues. I hope I helped! Please rate me!

Sincerely, Cammie

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o0psychicwish0o answered Sunday July 4 2004, 8:43 am:
This is normal. I have a older brother and we call each other names and fight all the time. If you want it to stop, be nicer and stop calling him names. That should work and if it doesnt, tell him that you dont like yall arguing. i hope i helped! rate me please.

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Hillarie answered Sunday July 4 2004, 8:40 am:
Ignore him. All siblings are like that, mostly.

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sweetjewel answered Sunday July 4 2004, 8:29 am:
im a middle child but i always bug my older sis 2 and call her names like fatso when shes not fat and like now shes going on a diet when shes fine but i do it b/c shes mean 2 me so if u try 2 be a lil nicer ur bro will stop bugging u or if that doesnt work ignore him, when he sees that hes not affecting u anymore he'll stop.

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