ok so i have a bf and one of our friends is having this party. he will be there and so will some of my friends that have never met him be4. i really dont want them to meet him becuz:
1) if they think hes hot theyll b all over him
2) if they think hes ugly later they wont shut up
3) either way they will be really annoying and say stuff to him that i wouldnt want them to
i already talked to them they dont care they said i need to calm down etc.
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday July 5 2004, 12:41 am: Let him meet them. If your friends think he's hot, don't LET them get all over him. Tell them to back off.
I brought my guy to my old school. EVERYONE there thought he was extremely hot, but I was touching him at all times so no one could steal him from me. ;)
If they think he's ugly, who cares? It's their opinion, not yours. Some "friends" of mine think my guy's ugly, but I think he's the hottest guy ever...only my opinion matters to me, as yours should to you.
I hope I helped a bit!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Sunday July 4 2004, 11:15 pm: Who cares what the hell your friends think. he is your man not theirs! If they are all over him then put them in their place and if they think hes ugly, so what, as long as you like him who cares what they think. Have a good time at the party and good luck! :)
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Sunday July 4 2004, 5:30 pm: gurllll realxx :) everything will b fine...i understand that ur nervous n ur worried n everything but calm down..1st if ur friends thing ur b/f is hot n they will b all over him then thats not wut i would call a friend...2nd if they think he ugly...i understand they'll start talkin n i admit its kinda mean to juge ppl wrong....but thats wut friends do..tell them how u feel bout him n that u dont care bout his looks...wut u see in him is his personality n if they're tru friends enough they'll understand n they'll stop it ;) trust me i've been there...my friends thought one of my b/f's was ugly but when i told them how i felt they understood n they never mentioned his looks again :) after awhile they actually agreed wit me that he was nice n everything so dont worry :) n try to relax ;)...xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
Amanda801 answered Sunday July 4 2004, 12:37 pm: Just tell your boyfriend about how your friends are going to be acting. But tell him that if they think hes ugly its not gonna matter to you or if they think hes cute its not going to matter to you because your the one going out with him and your the one that really knows him. He should understand and after you say that, he should ingore your friends like he should talk to them but not take anything they say seriously. And if they are hanging all over him he should remember what you guys talked about and he should leave and go to different part of the party. [ Amanda801's advice column | Ask Amanda801 A Question ]
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