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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
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is the motorola v3 razr like a guy phone? and do you guys think its an ugly phone or not? i want some opinions.. thanks!!
That is the coolest phone I've ever seen! My brother wants to get it... So does my dad o_O Anyway, in my opinion... I don't exactly see a girl carrying that phone but it's a pretty damn cool phone and if I didn't have one I'd probably get it too. Most people I know that have it ARE guys, but I know a few girls that have it too. But hey, who cares? It's an awesome phone! GO FOR IT!
Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.
what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.
What are some sweet things I can do?
BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!
-thanks a million!
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-Kelsee-
Okay... first of all you HUGGED him. What in the hell is wrong with a hug? I hug people all the damn time! I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months, he doesn't give a damn if I hug another guy! It's not like you had sex with him or anything!!!! No offence, but you're boyfriend is a JACKASS if he's getting pissed off at you that you hugged a guy. It's a freaking hug, it means NOTHING. I hug guys, I hug girls. That doesn't mean I'm a lesbian because I hug girls! You have a VERY guilty conscience if you're feeling that way after HUGGING a person. If you kissed him, yes I could totally understand you feeling that way. But sweetie... you HUGGED him for the love of God. Tell me, what is wrong with a hug? That's not cheating! It's fine that you felt BAD... I don't understand why the hell you WOULD feel bad. And you're boyfriend is stupid as hell if he's going to not trust you anymore for hugging someone. What, is he going to forbid you to hug people anymore? Can you not hug your grandma anymore because he's going to be afraid that the hug MEANS SOMETHING????
Here's what you can do: Tell your boyfriend he is an insecure little boy for getting pissed off that you hugged a guy. That's retarded.
Hun, he still loves you!!!!!! God damn it's a freaking hug!! I don't understand what's wrong with a hug! What, were you like rubbing your hands up and down his ass or something? Did he grab your ass or your boobs? If he did THEN I'd feel guilty! But if it's an innocent little hug you'd give to grammy, what the hell are you worrying about? Here look ::Emily(that's me)hugs Kelsee:: What's your boyfriend gonna do now? Hunt me down because I hugged you? Please, he can cry me a fucking river (excuse my language).
He needs to get over it. It was a hug. Not sex.
ok, i've recently decided to become a vegitarian, but i was wondering is chicken considered meat, or poultry, and is poultry considered meat? so basically can i eat chicken?
Yes, chicken is meat. It's not RED meat though, and it's poultry. And if you've a veggitarian, it doesn't matter if you eat chicken or not. If you want to eat chicken, go for it. Eat the chicken. There are many different kinds of veggitarians:
Ones that eat NO meat: Steak, pork, chicken NOTHING but will eat sea food.
Ones that eat NO meat/seafood.
Ones that eat No meat, but eat chicken AND seafood
Ones that eat NO meat will eat chicken, but no seafood.
Ones that will eat NOTHING that comes from an animal: No eggs, butter, milk, dairy products in general- Those are Vegans.
You can eat chicken if you want to, it doesn't make you less or more of a veggitarian. Different veggitarians eat different things. It's up to you.
i really want to get the area between my bottom lip & chin peirced (like christina aguilera has) does anyone know how much this costs and if its painful?
It's called a labret, first of all. And, it depends on YOU if it will hurt or not. It can hurt some people and not others. But it's really quick, so it won't be that bad. But it should cost around 25-40 dollars. Depending on where you go of course. But it's not that expensive. However, it's really hard to eat with them in... A few friends of mine have it and one of them ripped it out of their lip, and the other one ripped it completely THROUGH her lip... like her lip was like split in half. So you should definately be careful. And, it does get stuck on shirts when you put it on. Just be careful and keep it clean! But again, the price will varry from place to place. Just make sure it's a good place.
So I got side swept bangs today. My hairdresser didnt really make the bangs thick enough, she hardly used any hair. I want to cut a little bit of my hair just so I can make it a little thicker. She used sort of a razor looking thing to cut the hair with, so maybe I could use a razor to cut my hair with? This is probably a bad idea but has anyone ever done it?
BAD BAD BAD IDEA! Never ever try to cut your own hair. I've tried it before. One of my biggest regrets. I would say go back to a DIFFERENT hair dresser and ask her to just make them a little thicker. It'll cost probably like 10 bucks, not much but it's better to get them professionally done than to do it yourself. Bad idea to do it yourself. Just go back and get it re-done. It won't kill you. I promise.
okay 7-12 in our school is in highschool.. and im goig in 7th.. and im kinda scared ill get confused and stuff and i wont know where to go (ive been going to this school since 2nd grade but i dont know the highschool that well) please help me and tell me your experinces of your first day of highschool
Holy crap... 7th grade is when highschool starts for you??? That's insane! Anyway, if you get lost, easy, ask the nearest teacher or maybe an upperclassmen. They aren't as scary as everyone makes them out to be. So just ask someone if you're lost! It's not a big deal, and you shouldn't feel stupid. All the new comers ask where to go. When I started highschool, my very first day some girls tried to trip me. I shot them a look and they didn't do it again. Since you start out so young for highschool, you may not get tourtured as much as 9th graders would. So you're safe. Highschool's really not that bad. I must warn you, it does change people though. Highschool is a whole different world, different people and people CHANGE. You may lose friends like I did, and gain better ones like I did. But overall, my highschool experience has been A-OK. =) Good luck!
I was in the kitchen making cookies when I discovered that I had no vanilla extract. The cookie recipie that I'm using calls for only 1/2 teaspoon of the extract, but I'm worried about how they would turn out.
Is it ok to leave out the vanilla extract, or are there any substitutes for vanilla extract?
Thank you very much for your advice!
You could try vanilla icecream! I'm kidding =)
Anyway, it's not a huge deal not to have vanilla extract in your cookies. It just takes away some of the flavour to them. I think you'll be okay without it. You should add a LITTLE extra sugar though. Just a little. Not like a cup or anything.
hello...
im 13/f and my friend was over at my house today and i showed her this site and she wanted an advice column. i told her that she was to young (shes 11) and she got really mad. so my question is:
why doesnt this site allow anyone under 13 to be a columnist?
will rate
Read through this site: http://advicenators.com/faq.php?f=84
It'll answer everything for you.
If yur on the 1st day of yur period, but yur flow is just normal, not heave and not light, can yu go swimming w/o a tampon? Like is there anything yu can use or do to go swimming w/o a tampon. Dont talk about how easy to use and comfortable tampons r, thats not what i care about. Plees help, i rate high
Tampons are so easy and comfortable! I'm KIDDINGG I just figured I'd mess with ya for a sec. Anyway, onto your question! It's not exactly SAFE to go swimming without a tampon. Reguardless of how heavy your flow is, you should always either A)Wear a tampon or B)Not go swimming. There is always a chance that you might start bleeding while you're in the pool and.. well you should know what happens. There really isn't anything you can do so that you don't have to swim with a tampon in. Sorry hun. It sucks, I know.
ok this is more of a question for the guys...but mabe the girls can answer it too
why do guys lie?!?!
i have a guy friend and hes awesome! but he ALWAYS tell me he loves me and i KNO hes lieing...he tells every girl he loves her...and he goes out with every girl...and cheats on every girl
i kno ALL guys dont do this...but i just wanna know why some do
I like I might have answered your question before... but again I'll say it. 97% of guys are assholes. It's just part of their nature. Out of the 7 guys I dated, 5 of them cheated on me. They are assholes, they get bored easily and want some fresh ASS. They lie because that's the only thing they know how to do. Men are ASSHOLES... most of them anyway. But as for your friend, when he says he LOVES you, he doesn't mean he's IN love with you. He just loves you as a friend. I tell all my friends, guys AND girls that I love them. I'm not lying about it though. I do love my friends. He probably means it that way.
i have a hard time falling asleep is there anything i can do or buy?
Tylenol PM! Holy crap that stuff knocks you out faster than a baseball bat to the head! Well, not exactly. But it works REALLLLLY good. =) Makes me sleep like a baby.
Hey.This is just a question. I'm doing a servey about how many guys on here like heavier girls... so, yea, just all guys let me know. Thanks!
I'm not a guy, and I'm not a lesbian. But I'll be honest. About 97% of guys are assholes and are shallow. Now a days guys like their girlfriends anorexic, blonde with blue eyes EI: Paris Hilton. If a girl has the slightest bit of pudge on her tummy, they say she's too fat and ugly blah blah blah. They don't give a DAMN about your personality. They just want a girl with a pretty face and a nice body. Sometimes they could care less about the pretty face. Anyway, it's hard to find a guy that would want to date a girl for who they are, not for what they look like. But if this question has anything to do with YOU being larger around the waiste, then I wish you luck finding a great guy. All girls deserve a great guy. No matter what the girl looks like.
does high school really suck? Should I be freaking out about it, or am I just overreacting?
Well it depends. Are you a guy or a girl? Because if you're a guy, expect hazing to come your way. The upperclassmen will pick on you alot the first few weeks, threaten to throw you in trashcans and stupid stuff like that. But no one ever does anything to the girls. So if you're a chick, you're safe. HOWEVERRRR might I add that highschool changes people insanely. I was a freshman last year and I lost like... all of my friends. But the good thing is you make new ones and those are stronger friendships. Here's a quote I want you to keep in mind when entering HS. It's by Paris Hilton. Even though I hate her, I actually agree with this quote:
Once you enter high school things change.
Your best friend becomes a [B .i .t .c .h]
Your boyfriend becomes a [P .r .i .c .k]
Homework goes in the [T .r .a .s .h]
Cell phones are being used in [C .l .a .s .s]
Detentions becomes [S .u .s .p .e .n .t .i .o .n]
Soda becomes [B .e .e .r]
Gum becomes [P .o .t]
Bikes become [C .a .r .s]
Lollipops becomes [C .i .g .a .r .e .t .t .e .s]
Lip-gloss becomes [M .a .k .e .u .p]
French kissing becomes [S .e .x].
....yeah high school does change everybody, whether you want it to or not....
i've got that eyeshadow from hot topic. i put it on but my skin color shows up in the middle and applying more makes it very hard to see. (bright green) is there anything i could do to make it bright and stay? All it does is fall over my eyelashes. I heard putting concealer works... does it?
You can try to use it wet. Whatever you use to apply it, put a little bit of water on it first and then apply it. It should work. That's normally what I do. It makes the color much brighter and "stronger" I guess you could say.
how much is it usually to get your nipples pierced?...
Depends on the place you go to. My friend got his done and they were 45 per nipple. Other places will charge more or less. But I'd say it's around 50 dollars per nipple. And are you sure you want to get them done? My friend is a pretty big, tough guy and he almost cried. It bleeds ALOT too. Just make sure you go to a good place at least!
Why do you guys delete all questions about masturbating and please and about what people can do for their partner and stuff? Because you just started doing this recetly..so i was just wondering! thanks!
We no longer answer questions that will give a graphic detail such as sex positions, ways to masturbate/pleasure ones self. We try to keep the site at the very least PG-13 if you know what I mean. And by giving people a list of sex positions and different ways to masturbate is NOT keeping the site PG-13. Plus, there are MANY sites you could visit to get that information.
Hey. Im 17 years old, and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We live together and everything, but one night, when we were having sex, we didnt even notice the condom slip off. Well, he came inside of me, and then we looked frantically for a condom we though was still on. The next day it came out of me, but there was no cum in it or anything. it was as clear as it was when it first came on. Also, im not on birth control. It has been 2 weeks since, and I was just wondering if there is any chance of getting pregnant. Also, it was only 2 or 3 days after my period. So, can i?
What you have to know, is when you have sex, regardless of whether or not you used a condom, or if you were on birth control (Which yes I know you weren't) there is ALWAYS a chance. To be honest, your chances are pretty high. He came inside of you and the condom fell off. Your chances are VERY high. My only advice to you is to just wait it out until you're due to get your period. If you don't get your period on the expected date, wait a week and if you still don't get it, take a pregnancy test. Even though your chances are very high, there is a chance you may not be, please refer to this site to learn more on ovulation and the possile time you were ovulatinghttp://www.4woman.gov/Pregnancy/ovulation1.cfm
Right around my nipple, i have a few black hairs. i always shave them cuz they are ugly. but is it normal to get hair there?
Yes it is. All girls have it. But it's only more noticable on girls with darker hair, like brown or black. But it's completely normal to have hair there.
does anyone know where i can get a music code for myspace for the song Note to self by from first to last?
I searched for you, and the only place that even had a video by From First to Last was at MusicVideoCodes.com and the only video they had was Ride The Wings Of Pestilence. I searched google for about 20 minutes and didn't find anything. Sorry.
when u first like start a my space and you put a email address in and all that.. well anyway if someone wants to add you as a friend and its all like they email the request. well is the request sent there? like to ur email..because i made a email up
Yes, the requests are sent to your email. However, when you log into myspace there will be a big glaring message that says NEW FRIEND REQUESTS or NEW COMMENTS or NEW MESSAGES. So, you don't exactly have to rely on your email to figure out who is trying to accept you as their friend, send you a message, or leave you a comment. You'll be able to figure it out when you sign into myspace.