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Q: when i go to sleep and have my period sometimes blood stains through my pants what can i do to prevent that?
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There's not much you can do, but try to wear pants/shorts that are old, and maybe wear a heavier pad. (unless you wear tampons, try to do the same.)
jess ♥
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Q: i think i just made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. me and my best guy friend have always had a friends-with-benifits relationship. he was fingering me today and ended up sticking his penis in me. we were going for a little, but we had to stop because he had to leave. he didn't get to cum and we did full out have sex. but knowing that his penis was in me... is that enough to count for losing my virginity?
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duhh, of course.. Once you have "full out sex" I think you pretty much lose your virginity..
jess ♥
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Q: ok when i go to a search engine like ask.com or msn or google..it has everything i searched for saved in the spot where you type in what your looking for. is there any way to delete that? if my parents ever use my laptop and see the things ive searched for..that wouldnt be good
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I'm not really sure there is a way, because when you first get your comp, usually theres this thing that pops up and asks you if you want to have the auto-bar or somthing on. I don't think there's a way. So I would just try not to let your parents see your laptop, and if you have a dell, like i do, go to start, then log off and then it will switch users. And if you want your comp away from your parents, make it password protected. You can do that by going to control panel-then user accounts.
~*Jess*~ ♥
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Q: i have a hard time falling asleep is there anything i can do or buy?
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If one of your parents says its okay, maybe try sleeping pills that arent too strong, but not to light either. Check out these websites:
http://panicdisorder.about.com/cs/shsleephygiene/ht/bettersleep.htm
http://seniorhealth.about.com/library/prevention/bl_good_sleep.htm
(the last one says senior health..just ignore it..it has that on the side..)
~*Jess*~♥
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Q: i've had boobs for five years now and vaginal discharge and hair in all those places but i still haven't gotten "it" yet and two years ago the doctor said it woul be within the month. i know i won't want it once i get it but i just want it so i know i'm normal. oh yeah (14/f)also my mom got hers when she was 15.
kate
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Even though your 14, that doesn't mean your not gonna get it or anything. You can get your period from ages 9-18. And if you have discharge, that may mean you're getting ready to start. Here are some good websites to visit:
http://www.sexualityandu.ca/eng/teens/LAP/periods.cfm
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/menstruation/a/yourfirstperiod.htm
http://kidshealth.org/PageManager.jsp?dn=KidsHealth&lic=1&article_set=39563&cat_id=20440&
I think this should help you a lot.
Any questions, comments, or concerns, just drop 'em in my inbox.
~*Jess*~ ♥
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Q: i had my period last month for 2 days and it was very light. Now it is very heavy and its more than two days. Does this mean they will change each month?
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It might change each month. 2 days isnt normal, usually its 3-7 days. And why it was so heavy was because last month you got it so light and for a very short amount of time, and thats why it lasted over 2 days.
Any comments, questions, or concerns, just drop 'em in my inbox.
~*Jess*~♥
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Q: when you have your period and you were sitting down and then you get up is it normal that i always feel a lot of blood coming out for a few minutes?
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Yes, definitely. I know this may sound gross, or whatever, but its like, gushes that are coming out. Its very normal.
Here's a couple websites:
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/menstruation/a/yourfirstperiod.htm
http://www.sexualityandu.ca/eng/teens/LAP/periods.cfm
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Q: actually this isnt a question. i wanted to thank you for the column settings thing even though i found it before, because every1 kept giving me answers i didnt need haha so thanks!
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your welcome lol
♥
any other questions or anything, drop 'em in my inbox.
~*Jess*~ ♥
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Q: Okay, well someone on here told me to use "sun in" for my hair to lighten it. And i was wondering so i can tell my mom and see if she will get it for me.. how much is it? and where can i get it?
♥ thanks
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yea you can use SUn-in to lighten your hair, and usually at CVS its like, 7$ or 8$. Cvs, or any of those kinds of stores.
Jess ♥
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Q: how do you make your advice column pretty? with colors and stuff, haha thatd be helpful and i'd definately rate you!
-meg
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Go to column settings. And you can go from there.
Jess ♥
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Q: How do you get rid of blackheads? The strips don't really work for me..does anyone actually know what will work? Please don't just give me a product you saw on a commercial or something..Thanks..I rate high!!
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Pro-active. It may work for blackheads.
Jess ♥
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Q: Will a ps2 game shark work with ps1 games? I read on a forum that it would work but I am doubtfull.
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It might. Most likely, yes it will. Just try it, im pretty sure it will.
Jess ♥
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Q: Hi i was just wondering dus any1 know of any sites that tell you how to get from a certain place to another place by bus or train? cos all i can find is driving directions but i dont have a car
or if you cant find any then could sum1 tell me how to get from barking station to Harwich please
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Try Mapquest..it doesn't only give driving directions..it gives all kinds of stuff.
jess ♥
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Q: when i was in fifth when we used to kiss it use to be tap and now im in 7th and every one is tounge kissing and im scared that if i go out with someone hes gonna wanna french kiss and i wouldnt mind but i never tounge kissed anyone before and i m scared im gonna do somthin wrong and hes gonna tell people im a bad kisser cause i dont know how to french kiss now how can i learn how
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How old are you? If your 13 thats great, but if your 12 youll be banned. Drop it in my inbox. I wouldnt worry about it. Why would you? I mean, if you look at it this way and your not ready, let that guy know. Even though it may break up something, hes not worth it then. He's only using you.
Jess ♥
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Q: I've been working out a lot for sports, and now I have so much muscle. I used to be really skinny, but now my abs push out my stomach even more, and my thighs are huge. How do you get rid of muscle without not eating?
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That's not really possible. I think the only way not to gain muscle is not to do sports, and you most likely wont want to do that. And you cant help but eat. Theres not much that you can do. Technically, you're always gaining muscles. Especially if your athletic.
Jess ♥
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Q: how do i Lose Weight Safely? dont be mean about it! i am 150 pounds and i am only 14.
help
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How tall are you? If your short you may look "chunkier" or whatever. If your tall, being 150 lbs is totally normal. You'll have to drop your height in my inbox or else I can't really give advice. And if you don't, the only way yo lose weight is just eat healthier (all the time-even after you have your weight lost) and exercise. Diets are just for a period time and sometimes can be dangerous. Try this website:
http://weightloss.about.com/cs/tips/a/aa041603a.htm
then drop anything in my inbox.
Jessica ♥
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Q: I was wondering how you a burn a CD i dont believe i got any sort of program but can you burn it if yuo got windows mdeia player?
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Yes you can. But you do have to have the songs you want burned.
Jessica ♥
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Q: i shaved "down there" once before and i got red bumps were i shaved, does anyone know how i can prevent these bumps or any other advice to do it? i would greatly apreciate any answers, ill rate high, thanks
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Really, you can't do anything to avoid the red bumps because those are pretty much just natural for your skin to do. I'm not really sure if there's any cream or anything you could put on it..because I don't know of any. But I don't know if there's really much you can do, unless you choose to not shave down there anymore. That's my advice, is not to shave down there anymore, but I don't know what you'd rather do.
Jessica ♥
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Q: i just got my you know what and i want to know is always a good pad? does anyone here use them
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No, I don't like Always that much. I'd prefer Kotex, but its totally up to you b/c your the one wearing them. Is this like your first period? And like I said, I prefer Kotex, but its up to you.
♥♥♥Jessica♥♥♥
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Q: what are STDS? how do u get them? can you get rid of them? what happens if you have STDs?
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Sexually Transmitted Disease
You can get them if you have sex and your partner has a disease and he/she passes it on to you. It may be possible to get rid of them but most times you can't. It depends on the disease you get. If you have it you need to go your doctor and if your not sure if you have an STD or not, go to your doctor to get tested, or try a clinic.
Hope I helped
Jessica ♥
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bio
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:
I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Info
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45565
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