HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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im not sure weather or not to shave below .. i know ill be doing something soon becuase im kidna getting close to this boy and everytime we see each other we make out but it never got any further. but i think hes going to be going down or something and i wanna be ready .. and i dont know if i should shave all of it off.. help please ... rating (link)
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ofcourse you have to shave down there.waxing hurts but works best,if you use a razor or shaving cream itll make it thicker and wont work good.you can buy this product called "FAST N EASY" it consists of wax and wax strips and will remove your hair down there
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dear person,
i have a crush on a boy and ive never had the guts 2 tell him
from lover girl (link)
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ok well before you even think about telling him,you need to know if he has a crush on you too or likes you.Find out by asking a freind that knows him to ask.if he DOES get to know him more,go out,then tell him. But if it turns out he DOESNT like you or have a crush on you then dont bother telling him because itll only lead you to heartbreak and you will be flushing down your dignity this way,and he might even use you.How?hell say that he likes you too although he doesnt then take advantage of you and go brag to his freinds.Theres 2 ways to find out if he likes you ,one....through a freind.....2 through the way he acts(but i prefer knowing if he likes you through the first way) and in my experience here are some clues to tell if he likes you
1)He might start talking loudly in your presence
2)He might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you.
3)If he is acting more flirtatious toward you than toward other people at the same event
4)If his friends are paying attention to you when he isn't around (often a clue that this guy talked to his or her friends about you).
5)If he is smiling while listening to you
6)If your in an argument with someone hes ALWAYS backing you up.
theses are some signs....just make sure you find out one way or another if he likes you
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I used to be best friends with this guy, Mike, who is two years older than me. He had a HUGE crush on me, but I never felt the same way about him... so we never actually went out. Now, he has a girlfriend who is 15, while he is 18, and she hates me. She talks a lot of crap about me and calls me names. I have tried talking to both of them about it. Mike said he would talk to her, but it hasnt helped. Its now getting to the point where she is harassing me and saying really mean, hurtful, embarassing stuff. I dont know what else to do, and Im not sure why she is saying all this about me. I have never talked to the girl, and i have never talked about her... but for some reason she thinks i have. I told both her and Mike that I didnt. What else can I do? (link)
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since you already told mike and her both about how you feel and nothing happened then i think this girl is sooo jealous of you,why eles would she talk about you?she probaly found out that mike used to like you.theres nothing you can really do cuz EVERYONE talks about EVERYONE but iif it gets to harrasment and she calls you offensive names just smile and pass by her itll burn her UP man!!and if it gets even farther then i would say walk up to her and SLAP HER...seriously even if she slaps you back then jump her...you know ive tried this before and it made the girl i hit be too SCARED to even look at me.itll make her respect you.thats IF the smiling thing didnt annoy her into stopping(lol)
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Ok, I have always wondered if I were attracted to women more than men; I am a 22 year old woman and I met a really great man and of course got married. But I'm running into a problem; I started work with a new company and I am finding myself very attracted to the girl I work with. She is a lesbian and she also has a girlfriend. My husband has no idea that I have these feelings for this woman and this woman has no idea that I have these feelings for her. What should I do? Do I tell her that I have feelings for her? Do I tell my husband that I'm feeling these feelings too? I'm still very attracted and in love with my husband too, what do I do? (link)
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no trust me youll regret it if you go for this girl.dont ruin your relationship with your husband cuz hes a great guy and you never know if you can find like him again.And you said it yourself she HAS a girlfreind and this way you will be ruining 2 relationships yours with your husbads and your co-workers with her "girlfreind" and besides even if you DO tell her that you like her its not going to get you anywhere...what are you going to marry her or have children with her??whatll you explain to your adopted kids then??and your poor husband,how would you like it if you one day found out that he was crushing on someone and a GUY at that!just.....sort out your feelings and think about what your about to do and the consenquences.
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so, i have dark brown eyes, i was wondering what color eyeliner would look good with them? thanks (link)
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black to make them "appear" more and dark purple or plum to make them more dramatic
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I'm 14, female.
I've never drank, smoked, or done drugs.
I feel like a loser, ALL my friends do stuff like this, cause in my town, everyone just does. I don't want to risk getting in trouble so I don't. I don't cuss, do sexual things other then making out, and I'm afraid to do crazy things with my friends. I won't sneak out with them, or like steal road signs. I just feel retarded and immature around all of them, everyone treats me like a baby, I've even been threatened a few times for being too "good." What should I do? I'm friends with almost everybody in my small town, so theres no one to go to. (link)
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how can you feel amature,your the most mature person on this website in my opinion.look if they jumped off a bridge would you do that too?!?!ok,lets put it this way theyre killing themselves slowly or in other words doing DRUGS do YOU want to kill yourself too and with your OWN hands?!?!do you know the consenquences of taking drugs?you get addicted and it becomes imposible to stop it!!like you first try it and you want it once a day,then once an hour till its takin control of you and you want it every SECOND till you DIE of how much you took it!!it causes brain damage and a risk of heart stroke!your freinds will regret this big time later on and envy YOU for being smart enough to have keeped off it.you need to build yourself and have a future and your building your future from NOW by taking care of your health and education.smoking causes lung cancer,i hope you know that...why the hell take this when you KNOW itll kill you...what to look cool infront of a couple of losers that will have health problems sooner or later?!and sexual stuff now they will ALSO regret when they find themselves young and pregnent and unable to take care of their children....they will be a child WITH a child and obviously both need mothers.and even worse they will have STD's by the time they got older!!stand your ground and dont let anyone forcing you into doing anything retarted.
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Tomorrow I'm dying my hair for the first time. I am soooo nervous because everybody knows me as the girl who has the pretty, long, hair. I felt I had to do a major change in my life so this is what I chose. I'm cutting my hair way shorter and then going to like a local drug store, and buying dye and then I'm coming home and dying it! I want to know if this is a good decision or not. Like half my friends are like go for it! and then the other half are like... please don't do it! I personally felt I needed to do this for myself. I want to go for a natural look and stick to the similar color but I want people to be able to notice I dyed it and it's a BIG change. Is this right, or should I not do it? By the way I'm 14/f. (link)
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everyone likes a change,why not dye it?your natural hair color IS going to grow back again anywayz.even if it turns out to look weird at least you got a change.anywayz do whatever you want and dont mind what other ppl say
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i have a friend named mandy and ive known her for about 3 weeks and she is lesbian. well in the past three weeks, ive gotten to know alot about her and before that i was trying to figure out if im straight or bisexual or lesbian. and now, im pretty sure im bi, cuz i really like my friend mandy. we have alot in common we talk for hours. the other night me and my sister were talking about bisexual and stuff like that and she thinks she is attracted to girls and guys too. i wanted to talk to her soo much about it but i didnt want her to hate me or anything. so yeah, im still somewhat confused about me being bi or not. (link)
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i definetly dont think your bi,just cuz your freind is doesnt mean YOU are,you seem to be getting influenced by her though.mabey you like her a lot but as a freind and you just dont know in which way you like her.i think you like her as a freind only and that you arent bi.if you were bi you would go around calling other girls hot and check them out
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alright. here's the sitch.
i have this boyfriend, who i've been dating for
2 days. and i love him very much.
now that probabbly sounds rediculous,
but me and him dated once before, for about
7 months. he treated me like gold. i loved it.
but after a while he seemed to lose interest.
he broke up with me. and he said upfront that he
started to like another girl. i was very hurt, but
i appreciated his honesty.
after like a week of us being broken up. he called
me at 2am. crying. saying he made a big mistake,
and he cared about me yada yada. and i believed
him, and took him back.
then literally 2 days later, he told me he thought
he was making the right decision by asking me back.
but he just realised he doesnt feel the same.
and i felt stupid for taking him back.
now, weve been good friends for about 4
months now.and the other day i went to his
house andhe told me he liked me again, he
claims he never stopped. he ended things
with this girl for me. which must mean something.
he asked me back out when i went to his house.
and we didnt do anything sexual, he just held me
tight and said how much he missed holding me.
and he would kiss my forhead and such.
now,weve been pretty good these past days.
i just feel kindof paranoid ya know.
like when hes gone and i dont know where he is
i'll be all nervous and such. i hate this feeling.
i dont think he would do anything, but its still
a weight on my shoulders. i'd like to learn some
advice on how to not be so paranoid, and learn
to trust him. so our relationship will be stronger.
anyone know any REAL advice on how to do that?
thank you so much.
xxxoxoxo (link)
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this guys not ready for a relationship yet,seriously he brakes up with you goes to a different girl because he said he likes her and then goes back to you which obviously means hes using you and he likes changes a lot,hes controlling the way you feel and your beiliving his lies,who knows mabey he went to that girl cuz he wanted to get intimate(because you didnt give him that)then he goes back to you .....he just wants to feel liked by someone so he can brag to his freinds about it,and in my opinion whoever lies to you or betrays your trust once will definetly do it again.
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do u get addickted to pot the first time u smoke it
my friend says shes done it 4 times and she gets tired after it or somethin and her eyes are all red
what are the indications that someones been on drugs. any drugs notj ust pot thanksss (link)
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its possible to get addicetd to it on the first try...its like chocolate..can you take a bite and leave the rest for later that easy??NO...you eat more and more!ok the negative signs of pot are concentration is impaired,mouth is dry and eyes are red and the indications that someone has been on drugs is....hes got bags under his eyes....more than usual,she stops hanging out with her old freinds and moves on to a group of freinds that have done pot or still take it,she used to be smart and now dropped out from her studies,she stutters aLOT when she talks....she ditches you guys off when youre suppoesd to be going out and says shes "sick",her attitude changes and becomes mean and cruel to you guys....advice your freind to quit cuz this is going to affect her present and future
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wat are some fun things to do to surprise people on their bdays? (link)
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you let the birthday girl come over to your house on her birthday(a day before it pretend you dont even KNOW its her birthday)then when she comes over have all your freinds there with the presents and decorate the house and make her a cake too and when she comes in shell be surpriesd then take her out to the movies or something and PAY for her ticket and dinner....dont let her pay for anything
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Ok so im trying to work things out with my bf. we have been together almost 2 years and i am now pregnant even though i was told i couldnt have kids. We have set a date for marriage but there is a problem. He will not save any money and we are stuck renting a basement apartment at a friends house and im not bringing a baby into a basement. So, i suggested that we move down south with family where we could afford the cost of living. He refuses because all of his friends are here. So since he doesnt want to come with me, should i just leave him and go by myself??? I have no family or friends here and both of our families are down south. I think he is being selfish to want me and our baby to stay in a basement just because of his friends. (link)
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omg this guys selfish!! ofCOURSE leave him who cares about love now...are you going to stay in a place thats crapped up and raise your kid here while you no noone here?your kids not gonna grow up happy u know.i think you should talk to this guy about getting a job and moving to a better place and if he dont agree then goodbye to him,your kids more important
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my lips are so small and so is my mouth and kinda my teeth! lol and well im 16/f and i hate my smile because my lips are small and my mouth which makes my smile really ugly and like really unopen if you know what i mean?! is there anything i can do to make my lips look any bigger without having to put like loads of lisptick or lipliner on because i dont wear any of that just lipgloss! (link)
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well i dont know what you can do to your lips without having to use lip liner BUT for your eyes use eye liner but NOT on the top of your bottom lashes(thatll just make your eyes smaller) use eyeliner on the bottom of your bottom lashes and that will help make your eyes bigger
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ok so i really like this girl. but there is a problem, she is my friends ex. everytime im with her it feels right. we kiss and hold hands. but somedays she acts all weird, like we dont have a "thing". does it sound like she is using me to you? (link)
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no i actually dont think shes using you,i think shes worried to be with you cuz your her ex's freind.anywayz ask her how she feels and why she sometimes acts like this.
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UNHYGENIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I have a freak in my schooll who plays like every sport known to man and she never takes a shower! She is verery manly and to add to it she reiks!!!!She is in most of my classes so cant get rid of the stench,to make matters worse he thinks i am her best friend!Sometimes the smell sinks into my clothes and hair and i cant get it out so people think I smell!
-In need of a shower! (link)
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well since she thinks YOURE her best freind i think you should advice her in a nice way that she should shower more and take care of her appearance more.if she has armpit hair advice her to shave it,you know stuff like that.if you dont tell her since your her friend then NOONE WILL and the class will reamain to smell like crap
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14 female. when ever i like a guy i tend to give or loan them money. most of the guys i liek are not trust worthy o i usuially never get my money back. everyone knwos that i ALWAY have cash on me i cant lie to them and say "sorry i dont have any money on me." I am afraid to ask them for the money back after i stop liking them, one because i am embarrasses and two:: because it has been so long that they have forgotten. during the last school year this one boy i was crushing on would ask me for a dollar every day for 3 or 4 months. i would say yes everyday and as a resuly gave him around 40 dollars and he never even liked me as more than a frined. i know the boys are jsut using me but i cant help my self. if anyone has any advice on how to stop or anthign to say to the boys who ask and try to use me i woudl greatly appreciate it!. thanks a million andone =)
haiely (link)
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well i honestly dont think you can get the money back from ALL of the guys youve ever liked dont EVER give ANYONE money again cuz this way they are not liking you for your personality they are liking you for your money!and one day when you really DONT have any money NOONE will be hanging out with you.next time a guy asks you for money say you dont have or you have but you need it for something!and start from the beginning of the new school year say no to ppl that ask you for money
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hey i think i wanna try the peanut butter thing before bed, but i have few questions about it first:
*How long before i sleep do i eat the peanut butter?
*does it matter if the peanut butter is creamy or crunchy?
* i want this question answered by someone who's really tried this: Does the peanut butter thing work??
Thanks...and i will rate your advice. (link)
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first of all penut butter totally does NOT make you lose weight....it makes you GAIN weight it has like so much calories and before you sleep is even WORSE cuz youll eat and sleep for like 8 hours and you wont burn the calories you ate therefor you will gain weight.
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my boyfriend wants to fight with a relative of mine who has a crush on me....REAL CRUSH ON ME..they said that they will have a "till death" fight and i dont know how to stop them...my boyfriend and that guy are really stubbonrn...they may REALLY get one another KILLED...i just need a way to stop them...i am almost 15 and my realtive is 15 and half and my boyfriend is turning 17,thank you (link)
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ok one question...who DO you like exactly....your relative or your boyfreind?if its your boyfreind that you like explain to your relative that you are just freinds,if you like your relative more than your boyfreind then brake up with your boyfreind and stay with your relative and dont worry about hurting anyones feelings cuz this is all about you here.talk to them and tell them if they DO fight that you never want to see them again and that will scare them into NOT fighting.And tell your boyfreind that this guy(your relative) is part of your family and it is disrespectful of him to hit your family members.sit down and sort out your feelings for them both and go to the guy you really like.hope this helps :)
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if i dont have sex for like a week and a half it hurts really bad!! like it feels like my hymen is being ripped all over again and it hurts and sometimes bleeds.is this normal? what can i do to prevent it? do i need to get this checked out?does anyone else have this problem? (link)
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in my opinion i think you should go to a doctor and get this checked out cuz nobody is going to know more about this then the doctor himself.you never know mabey its STD's so you shouldnt hesitate to go cuz if theres a problem now it needs to be solved.
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ok. there is this guy that i have liek a HUGE crush on. lets just say his name is Bob. my best friend met him at this summer camp for music and they became friends. there like brother and sister kid of friends. but whenever i talk about bob or like i see him or if she sees me stare into a blank space (she knows what im thinking about) like she will burst out laughing. since they are like brother and sister kind of friend people she just cant seem to think anyone would like him. but i t gets really annoying because i mean she wont be there for me. she wont help me get to know him better and all she does is laugh. i have told her this that its annoying but she wont stop. what else can i do? (link)
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tell her that she needs to stop laughing and respect what you have to say cuz she wouldnt like it if YOU did that and that you will no longer trust her with anything again.tell her then that you like this guy and want her to introduce him to you and if she laughs then dont talk to her for a while and walk away and shell get the point that she needs to stop.
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