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my friends ex
ok so i really like this girl. but there is a problem, she is my friends ex. everytime im with her it feels right. we kiss and hold hands. but somedays she acts all weird, like we dont have a "thing". does it sound like she is using me to you?
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She's probably just insecure. In my experience girls are more scared of commitment than boys! Thats not how the media presents it but i know we are terrified!
She could be "using" you, but what has she got to "use" you for?
It's probably just that she thinks its special too but she wont admit it.
All the advice i can give you is dont get too attached because you dont know to what extent she is scared of committment. Just move at her pace.
Hope this helped
xxx
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Talk to her about it. Ask her to tell you exactly how she feels about you and what she wants for the two of you. Ask her why she kissed you and held your hand if she says she doesn't have feelings for you.
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no i actually dont think shes using you,i think shes worried to be with you cuz your her ex's freind.anywayz ask her how she feels and why she sometimes acts like this.
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No sounds like she likes you. She may be scared by the fact that your her ex's friend. If shes acting wierd just ask her if everything is alrite.
Good luck
kim :)
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DUH shes using u!! DUMP HER RITE NOW!! :]
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Dear,stressing out It sounds as if the girl likes you...but maybe your ex has been talking to her and making her feel uncomfortable around you...try asking her about it next time she acts as if your not gf and bf. As for using you it could be a possibilty...i can't tell you much more than that.hope everything works out Your friend Violet
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nah. it deffinitly doesn't sound like she's using you.. it sounds like she's just scared. like she wants to do that stuff with you, but somedays she's a little nervous. on those days, compliment her, or YOU start a topic to talk about. if you need anything else..just ask.
-Sarah
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I think she likes you, but she's just not completely sure about it all yet. If she's acting weird one day, ask her about it, maybe she'll open up to you & help you realize whatever problem it is that is making her have these weird days. :]
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No, she is not using you.
She just gets nervous sometimes. That's what it sounds like to me.
If you still aren't sure, just ask her about it or you can get one of your friends who have seen you two hold hands ask her why she acts weird about it.
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You should ask her on the days shes being weird, if something is wrong? Or you could just tell her that sometimes you feel like she acts like you guys have nothing. Hope i helped.
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ok, girls are very hard to understand. Trust me, I am one! haha. But anyways, it looks to me like she likes you, but is un-sure about you all being together some days. I cant say that in stone or anything, but that may or maynot be the case. Just see what she does, see if she still flirts with your friend, if so then she is probably using you. If not then i would say it is just a little akward for her. Hope I have helped :]
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