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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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how do you put eyeliner on your top lid?
Before you begin applying the eyeliner, there are a few things you should do; firstly, apply any other eye makeup you want to use before adding eye liner and mascara. It may also be helpful if you remove dangly bracelets and watches as they can often get in the way or just become irritating distractions. Make sure you have a good mirror and lighting so that you can properly see what you are doing when using the eyeliner.
-- If you're using the pencil eye linner:
The eyeliner pencil should be able to draw a thin, unbroken line along your skin - test it on your hand or arm first. Either sharpen it until the line is thin enough, or if it is too thin, draw a line on a tissue, which will make the tip blunter.
You should hold the eyeliner pencil as you would hold a pencil or pen to write with, usually with your dominant hand. Use your other hand to stretch the eye you are going to line from the outer corner. You can rest your hand holding the pencil against the hand pulling your lid taut.
Don't try to focus on your whole eye lid at one time - just look at the part you are drawing on. The line should be just above your eye lashes on the top lid and just below on the bottom, and should extend just to the outer corner of your eye.
Be wary if your eyeliner pencil tip is quite dry, as this may pull at delicate eye tissue. Draw the line with care if this is the case.
-- If you're using the liquid eyeliner:
Liquid eyeliner comes in a bottle rather like ink, and you must use a separate brush to apply. The best result will come from a point liner brush.
It is natural to close your eye as you draw the line, but if you keep it open, it will actually make it easier to follow the curve of your lid and thus have a straighter line.
You do not need to try and paint a continuous line with liquid eyeliner. It is actually easier to pain a few small dashes onto the lash line, eg. Inner corner, middle and outer corner, then go back and connect them.
If you want a thicker line than this initial thin one, build it up gradually. Start at the middle of the lash line and draw towards the outer corner. You can extend the line slightly past the outer corner of your eyelid if you wish. ♥
well, first of all, im REALLY uncomfortable putting this up, but i need to know.
for some time now, my 'area' has had throbbing 'desires' i should say. it feels gross and wrong. is this just being a teenager with hormones or something else?
This is normal. It's just hormones and nothing to be ashamed about. Every teenager goes through this, so don't think you're the only one; you're not alone. ♥
My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him?
Just say 'NO!' If you don't want to do this, don't feel like you have to or you need to do this to make him happy. The picture could get into the wrong hands and could be put all over the place, even the internet. You never know, you and your boyfriend could break up and he could get mad. Then, he'll have that picture and he'll just post it up everywhere. The best thing would be to say 'NO' and hopefully he respects that. If not, he's not a good boyfriend in the first place. ♥
Well...this is kind of an odd question. I weigh a bit more than my boyfriend, and I'm afraid that if I sit on his lap or something that it would hurt him. I heard guys naturally are stronger, but I don't know much about this. Do you think it would hurt him?
Don't worry about this, hun. I'm 100% sure you will not hurt him if you sit on his knee. A lot of guys are stronger then they look. ♥
Okay,... I don't know if this is in the right category, but...
I just put in a tampon for the first time. Do you have to take out a tampon before you pee? I have to pee while it's in. Is this normal?
Its completely normal for you to pee while you have a tampon in, since the tampon doesn't go in the hole you pee out of. ♥
I was wondering how long it takes for marijuana to get out of your system. I didn't do it!, but someone I know did. And I am concerned about them. My school does random drug tests too by taking a little tiny piece of your hair. So does anyone know how long? Please actual facts not just guesses. Thanks!
A urine test takes anywhere from 1 day to 2 weeks to get out of your system and a blood test takes 28 days.
A standard hair screen detects cocaine, marijuana, opiates, methamphetamines, and phencyclidines. Every 0.5 inches of hair detects drug use for a period of 30 days. Usually, a standard hair drug screen uses a hair sample of 1.5 inches, which covers a period of about 90 days.
Though blood tests are also available, they are very expensive and require more laboratory equipment. Thus, serum drug tests are rarely administered. ♥
My boyfriend left my friend a picture comment on myspace that said "your so sexy shortii." I'm really jealous. Should I be jealous? I don't want to seem so clingy but I'm kinda jealous.
It's normal to be jealous, I would be jealous if my boyfriend did this too, especially if it was said to one of my friends. I think you should just talk to him about this. Ask him why he left the comment and then go from there. But, remember. He is your boyfriend, not hers. So, obviously he adores you way more, or he wouldn't be with you. ♥
Does putting eyeliner on your top lid, bottom lid, or both make your eyes look bigger and bolder?
If you put eyeliner on the top lid, your eyes become alittle smaller. If you put the eyeliner on the bottom lid, that makes your eyes pop. Also, apply some mascara on your top and bottom lashes. This will also pop your eyes out more. ♥
HELL0. What are some good baby names? Boy, or Girl. First, and Middle would be appreciated! Thanks! =]
Here are some of my favorites:
Girls:
-- Jayden Marie.
-- Emma Elizabeth.
-- Hannah.
-- Oliva.
-- Madison.
-- Ami Lee.
-- Jenna Jayden.
-- Abby.
-- Brooke.
-- Kimberly.
Boys:
-- Ethan.
-- Andrew Anthony.
-- Justin.
-- Christopher Joseph.
-- Ryan.
-- Bradley.
-- Joshua Jacob.
-- Aaron.
-- Erik.
-- Daniel.
Hopefully you find something you like. ♥
hi i'm a 16 years old girl and have never had sex, a boyfriend, or kissed a guy. people tell me all the time that i am pretty and must have a ton of guy friends. i get ridiculously nervous around guys i really like and act like a total dork. what can i do to get guys to like me or to handle my nerves?
here's pics of me lol
http://i8.tinypic.com/24fa8o1.jpg
http://i7.tinypic.com/24fadcy.jpg
First of all, you're really gorgeous and I love your shirt!
Lots of girls your age haven't had their first ANYTHING yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get it when they're 12, others when they're 16 and some even only have their first time when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss/loose your virginity and such, yet. You're only 16, hun. You have tons of time! When your first kiss comes/first time you have sex with someone, it should be with someone special that you care about and you want to do this with. You always remember your first time. So, don't get pressured into it. Make sure you're 100% comfortable with the person you're with. Give it time, though. It will come and it'll be that much more special when it does, because you waited until you were ready. ♥
okay . well my best friend is going out with this kid that i really like and i am going out with his friend & i dont really like his friend at all . and i just started going out with him yesterday , i like him like as a little brother not a boyfriend but idk. i dont want anyone mad at me if i break up with him . what should i do
Honestly, I think you should break up with the guy you're going out with. If you don't like him and you just like him as a little brother, just break up with him now. You're only leading him on and as you get into the relationship, you're only hurting him more by being with him and not liking him in the way he likes you. So, I think you should definitely break up with him, in this case. Just explain to him that you think of him as more as a little brother, then as a boyfriend. Tell him he's a great guy, but you guys just don't go well together.
Now, if your friends get mad at you because you're breaking up with him, that is their problem. It's not THEM that are with this guy, so it shouldn't even matter. It doesn't even concern or effect them in anyway. So, if they do get mad. Let them be mad at you for awhile. Because that is really immature. ♥
i'm a 16 year old girl who has never done it or had even had a REAL boyfriend.
is this abnormal?
cause my friends are all off doing it and they think im such a nerd.
Lots of girls your age haven't had their first ANYTHING yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get it when they're 12, others when they're 16 and some even only have their first time when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss/loose your virginity and such, yet. You're only 16, hun. You have tons of time! When your first kiss comes/first time you have sex with someone, it should be with someone special that you care about and you want to do this with. You always remember your first time. So, don't get pressured into it. Make sure you're 100% comfortable with the person you're with. Give it time, though. It will come and it'll be that much more special when it does, because you waited until you were ready. ♥
hi, i weigh 101 and i'm 5'4 and im a 16 yr old girl. im a ice skater and my coaches think im fat. i am very insecure with my weight and afraid to gain. i have decided that i am going to hardxcore diet but not become anorexic, what would be too skinny for someone my height and age.
You're already really skinny, hun. I don't know why your coaches want you to loose weight in the first place. Since you're 5'4, the weight you SHOULD be at is 120 pounds. So, see! You're very skinny. I seriously wouldn't listen to your coaches advice. If you do loose more weight, you might become unhealthy and you won't be able to do everything you've done before, because you'll become too weak. So if you're happy with your weight, don't loose anymore. Just stick to eating healthy and you should be good. ♥
i need some new music, i like rock, alternative, indie, the stuff like that. Please give me new bands or non common ones. Becuase i already know of a lot of bands so i need new ones.
Jess
Atreyu.
My Chemical Romance.
The Used.
Taking Back Sunday.
The Ataris.
Brand New.
The Postal Service.
From Autumn to Ashes.
Saosin.
Death Cab For Cutie.
Underoath.
Silverstein.
Daphne Loves Derby.
Armor for Sleep.
The Cure.
Hawthorne Heights.
Scary Kids Scaring Kids.
Eighteen Visions.
Dashboard Confessional.
The Killers.
As I Lay Dying.
Throwdown.
It Dies Today.
Armor for Sleep.
Winter Solstice.
The Postal Service.
Rilo Kiley.
The Juliana Theory.
Matchbook Romance
Senses Fail.
The Faint.
Spitalfield.
RECOVER.
The Western Front.
The Appleseed Cast.
The Hurt Process.
I Killed The Prom Queen.
Bedlight For Blue Eyes.
Brown Eyed Deception.
Fordirelifesake.
Straylight Run.
Here are a few bands; hope you like them. ♥
OK, this isn't a "random weirdo" question, it just doesn't really fall under any other category. Any way, on with the question:
Is it normal, for a girl, to shave around the crotch? I don't mean shaving all of it, obviously. Just enough so that hair doesn't stick out when I wear a bathing suit?
Yes, it's completely normal, hun. ♥
Hi myself and partner are not married and im trying to decide which surname suits him better mine or my partners
Jack Harte
Or
Jack Stapleton
Im Stuck with the name jack as it really suits him.
Id be grateful for your opinions
Thank you
Personally, I like Jack Stapleton better. ♥
okay i've tried shaving "down there" many many times but i always end up bleeding and still having A LOT of stubble. is it possible to get smooth like you do when you shave your legs? how can you shave down there without bleeding? i have a venus razor and then i put lots of shaving cream down there and then i shave across, because if i shave against the hair like you do on your legs then i bleed really bably. are there any special techniques?
and don't tell me to wax because i can't.
When you're shaving 'down there', make sure everytime you do shave, you use a new razor. Make sure you shave with a lot of soap and water and/or shaving jell. You should always shave towards your hairs, (or the way they're growing.)
Once you're done shaving, be sure to put on some cream. (It'll help out with any redness you may have.) ♥
Is there really a difficult rope awaiting inside every high school gym? i am horrified of "the rope" I COULD NEVER CLIMB THAT THING!!!
I wouldn't be able to climb that thing, either. It looks way hard and I'm way too weak ;]. There wasn't a rope in my highschool gym. I think that's mostly just in movies. I don't think there will be a rope at your gym, so don't worry about it. ♥
I saw this bulletin posted on Myspace titled "do you like polos???" and it said, "Hey! I have a friend who works at Lacoste and she just told me about a new promotion they're having!!! They're trying to gain popularity with the MySpace audience so they're giving away two free polos to MySpace users at their site! Just fill out some quick stuff... and enjoy their famous polos!" Is this REAL or do you have to actually buy the polos? Is there a catch and is it safe to do?
Most of them crazy bulletins people post are scams. Don't give them any e-mails or personal information. It can give you viruses and loads of junk/scam mail. It's even possible for the person to take all the information you sent out and use it to hack into your MySpace account. ♥
Why do like 96% of the people on this site spell the word "lose" as "loose"?
Maybe they just made a silly spelling mistake. Or, they could be living in a different country. Sometimes, other countries spell words differently then the way you're used to spelling them. ♥