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Well, i been thinking of playing basketball at school for the whole year, but I don't got time during the week to go to practice so that's why i haven't started yet, what do you think I should do?? (link)
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try to make a lil schedule...n make time for everything that u need in ur life ;) .organize everything n things will work out better...try to make time n practice a lot ;) good luck xoxo effy
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ok surfer hair is in style for the boys.. but wut kinda hair is in for the girls? answer asap! thanks (link)
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i think medium length...short lawyers...dunno i guessed xoxo effy
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How exactly do you french kiss?
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def. use some tounge :)
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hey..i got a problem with friends.they used to be my good friends..but now they hate me..i dun really know why, i just heard they hate me because they are jealous about me getting good results in examination last month and they say i'm proud. i want all of us to be friends as me used to.help me can my atitude (link)
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talk to them n see wuts wrong...dont listen to anyone else wut they say..just go and ask them y they been actin the way they are lately?!?! see wut they'll say talk things out ;) good luck xoxo effy
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hi..i got a bf but he got another gurl friend what should i do? i wana break up with him and hope he could accept it easily.what should i say to him? even i wana break up,but i still wana be friend with him forever (link)
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well tell him that u dont relly feel the same way bout him anymore...tell him to stick to his gurl if he likes her a lot n that u still wanna b friends...i dont think he gonna take it that hard since he got another gurl friend on the side...so ;) good luck xoxo effy
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wat happenz if u have sex when ur on ur period? do u bleed everywhere or what? (link)
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well i wouldnt recomand having sex when ur on ur period b/c the risk of gettin pregnant its higher....n yes prolly u bleed..xoxo effy
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what are someone's cherries and why can they pop? what if they are not? (link)
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hi, well that someone must be a female n guys usually use the phrase "i'll pop ur cherry" instead of saying "i'll pop ur hymen" when they say pop they mean they'll break it...that can b broken by havin sex...n by lots of ways..like for ex: usin tempons,riding bikes,exercising...etc. xoxo effy
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what is the kiss that guys like the most..? (link)
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well not all guys are the same...each n everyguy is diff...so you just have to get to know the guy n kiss him so u can know wut kind of kiss he likes!but usually they want to use some tounge ;) xoxo effy
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i have these 2 friends one of them (we'll call her trina) is VERRRRRRRY BOSSY the other (we'll call her haley) does every thing trina says it started bugging me so i told haley why do you let trina boss you around. she said i don't let her boss me around. so finally she told trina about what i had said so then trina was mad at me so i said (she started it cuz she was being mean to me) what happened to your lackey and she started saying stuff like she's not my lackey etc. the next day i won highest GPA in 5th grade (im only 11) and they got even more jealous so now i haven't called them and they haven't talked to me. but haley sent me an e-mail saying YOU ARE WEIRD(about seven times) and the bottom line said YOU ARE REALLY WEIRD. so i forwarded back to her. what do i do. and is you took the time to read this THANKS if you will please rate me too my name is coolgirl57 (you don't have to rate me) (link)
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hi, well i dont see anything wrong here...i mean u were tryin to help haley n haley goes n tells trina b/c prolly she's a fallower...n does wut other pppl do n wut ppl tells her 2 do...well if you still wanne b friends trust me its not a good idea b/c i've had a jelous friend n i ended up forgivin her all the time n she would do similar mistakes all the time...she never wanted my best so...i figured out ppl who hatin n are jelous never want ur best...so just ignore them dont go to their level...n make new friends n move on ;) good luck xoxo effy
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hi ok i have a bf i like him alot we dont get to see eachother alot i am pretty sure he is losing interest. like for ex. idk if its his pc or if he doesnt like me but whenever i am on AIM ill im him and he wont say anything it sucks. i dont want to call him just in case he just doesnt want to talk to me or becuz idk we dont talk on the phone a ton. and he used to say bye i love u no he signs off randomly without sayen anything. i dont no for sure why but i am very confused i hate it i just really want to mak him and me last long. (link)
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hi, well gurly call him up n talk to him...tell him how u feel...ask him wuts wrong...n why he acts the way he does...may b afterwords things will get better and if not at least you'll know wussup n u wont b confused...good luck wishin u da best...xoxo effy
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hey...this may be somewhat of an awkward question but I just started shaving"down there" after receiving advice to go ahead and do so since I am starting swim season this summer. The only problem is that for some reason it's hard to shave it and when I do it really hurts. Any tips or helpful hints? Thanks (link)
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hi,well while you shave put some soothing cream with aloe, n do not shave more then once a day...xoxo effy
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rap or rock (link)
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rap :)
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I have a friend who is going to a different college than me,about 350 miles away,and his girlfriend is a year younger and staying here. I recently broke up with a girl whose best friend is the most annoying person I've ever met. She never shuts up either. Anyway when I finally couldnt take anymore of her crap,about her relationship was gunna last even when her bf went to a far away college(long distance never works),I spouted off that my friend's relationship also wouldn't work, to her. The blabbermouth told my friend to intenionally get me in trouble. I didn't mean it is a cheapshot,but that's the way he took it. How do i patch it up with my friend and how do i kill(not really)this annoying,talking,girl? (link)
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hahah sorry but the way u seted up ur story its kinda cute n funny...lol well, try to ignore dis "blabbermouth" and dont tell her anything...dont trust her wit anything...tell ur friend that thats ur opinion n that dont mean that its gonna happen!!! i'm sure ur friend will understand ;) good luck xoxo effy
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I am 14 and i am a female. I like this guy and he likes this grl that everyone likes bc she has a butt, a tan, and she is pretty. She is a ditze and sometimes has no clue about anything. She has a boyfriend but is having trouble relizing that he treats her like crap and there r tons of guys who will take her any day. me and this guy r friends and when we were in school, we flirted alot. now that we r out of school we talk online, but dont flirty as much. the most he ever say to me is "OK?'. I wonder what has happened and what i cna do 4 him to pay more attention to me and get things back to normal. pleez help!!! (link)
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try to talk to him more...everytime try to make a conversation...but then again dont try to hard cuz u dont wanna look stupid or annoying...whenever u get the chance to see him wear light make up (usually guys dont like gurls who wears tons of make up...just b simple n cute) n wear something sexy! if dis dont work...then just forget him n try to move on ;) i bet theres planty of guys who would want to b wit u ;)...good luck xoxo effy
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ok well, me (a guy, 16) and one of my best friends (a girl, 16)have been friends for over 10 years, since elementary school. Recently we have gotten really close and we really like eachother. we talk all night on the phone and we fall asleep on the phone together and we talk like half the day everday. today at 7 she left to california from florida and she'll be there for a week or so. we really care about eachother but i dont know how to proceed with the relationship. we both know just about everything you can imagine about eachother and we talk about anything that comes to mind. we havent gotten a change to see eachother since the 12th and ill probaly see her the day after she gets back from cali. we havent kissed or anything yet. im not sure how to proceed with the relationship becuase i dont want to mess up our relationship and friendship. she means the world to me and thats the last thing i would want to happen. If you could help me out id greatly appreciate it.
thanks for any help, brandon
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hi,awww i think u 2 have something really special..well listen take ur chances...tell her how u feel ask her to be yr gurl...trust me ITS BETTER TO REGREAT SOMETHING U DO THEN SOMETHING U DONT DO!!!! good luck xoxo effy
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there is this guy thats been my friend since like, kindergarten. he keeps asking me out but i dont like him like that and i dont wanna hurt his feelings!! i have told him this a million times that i dont want to hurt his feelings and taht i dont like him like that but he just wants to kno why!! and its making me mad!! what do i do? --Chels (link)
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tell him that u dont see him like that b/c you guys grew up together n u see him like a brother...thats it! xoxo effy ;)
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OK theres a cute girl from work, we started outflirting till i knew she had a bf. We still flirted and started hanging out more than she was with her bf. i found out he's a complete dick to her and shes tried breaking up with him 5 times but he's manipulative. In the duration of our friendship she fooled me into thinking she broke up with him when they were really just breaks. One night after work we just hang out at a park talkign, she kisses me, and i hesitate so she thinks i didnt want to. Next morning i take her home and she apologizes later that day, when i really wanted the kiss. Month or two later i take her home late and tired and we talk, wrestle a little bit, the before i know it i initiate a make out session. She stops a couple times to say you do realize this is cheating right KNowing her bf i didnt care so we continued. next morning she says its a mistake and soon she claims she loves her bf. Anyway i tell like 2 people at work i trusted and word got round to her so she doesnt really talkto me anymore. OH yeah two days later she broke up with her bf for real. I truly like her i think what do i do? (link)
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i think you should give her sometime to think b/c she prolly very confused rite now n doesnt know wut she feels...but that dont mean u have to wait for her without chillin wit other gurls...or hookin up wit other gurls...try to meet new gurls...hook up have fun so it wont b hard on u 2...n may b who knows u'll find someone else who u like more...n its not confused bout wut she feels for u ;) good luck xoxo effy
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I work with mostly guys, and they're all really nice, but I'm a girl so I'm not sure how much they want to know about all my issues. Like today, one of them said I looked kind of down. I lied and told him I was fine, even though really I'm on my period and had cramps and my boobs were hurting and I had one tampon left that I had to hope lasted the rest of the day. Is that the sort of stuff that I should always just keep to myself, or you think I could just let it out and see what happens? (link)
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i think this stuff wit guys better keep it to ur self...i bet they'll think its discusting..u can tell them that u dont feel well or w/e but not that u've ur period n w/e...i think those stuff u should b open only wit ur closests friends ;) xoxo effy
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Ok...this might take awhile. I'll try to make it as unbiased as possible.
I know this girl from school named Bry*. I am not a close friend of hers, I just occasionally talked to her in the mornings. I knew she talked about this guy, Blake*, that she liked. I didn't know his age, what he looked like, or anything.
But some friends and I saw Bry at the movies and she introduced us to Blake. I didn't remember any of this--until I met Blake.
We got along really well and all, and he asked me out. We only knew each other on the net and had met each other once beforehand. We really liked each other so we're a couple now.
News spreads fast, apparently, because the day we started going out, Bry found out. I didn't know it was 'her' Blake at first, but when I found out I had fallen for him and there was really nothing she could do. (I know that sounds mean.) But Bry has a BOYFRIEND (for two months now) and she has sent all her little friends to bother Blake, and to bother me as well.
It's really irritating...she sobs about how her friends get everything she wants, and how jealous she is and 'I thought we were friends?' All her little minions are trying to convince Blake not to go out with me. I've been called 'nasty', 'tomboy', etc. etc. and I feel some of my friends may have less respect for me now...always asking if me and Blake have 'done' anything (kissed, etc. etc.) and I have not kissed him yet, just an FYI.
What should I do? I don't want to be known as a crush-stealer or whatever, and Bry had a boyfriend in the first place! I am just angry that this should happen. I mean I still want to be her friend...but without all the shit inbetween.
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hi, well i think that you should call Bry n talk to her bout this whole thing...tell her that u understand how she feels n that u'll prolly feel the same way bout this whole thing (which u prolly would) but then mention to her that she has a b/f n that u really like blake n u relly want to b wit him...i relly think she'll understand so give it a try ;) good luck ;) xoxo effy
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Ok I know this is wrong but Ive gotta ask!!!
My friend hes like a brow to me!! But my bestfriend goes out w/ him!! NOw shes being all weird and like if shes cheating! She doesnt deserve him but I really really like him like you have no clue!! He is so my type but I have the worst fear of regection! Plus I told mybest friend Id never go w/ him after they broke up. which seems like its coming soon. I cant get him out of my head and hes driving me crazy!!!!!! what do I do????
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hi,well i understand how u feel and everything...n i think that going out wit da ex of ur bestfriend would b kinda messed up but if u talk to her n tell her how u feel....and she doesnt mind...then you should tell the kid how u feel dont b scared u never know u might b surprised ;) he might feel the same way....remember its better regreating something u do then regreating something u dont do!! ;) good luck xoxo effy
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