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dont like him bak
there is this guy thats been my friend since like, kindergarten. he keeps asking me out but i dont like him like that and i dont wanna hurt his feelings!! i have told him this a million times that i dont want to hurt his feelings and taht i dont like him like that but he just wants to kno why!! and its making me mad!! what do i do? --Chels
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tell him why. its simple. He just wants a reasonable answer so just tell him the truth. He should understand
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tell him that u dont see him like that b/c you guys grew up together n u see him like a brother...thats it! xoxo effy ;)
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tell him hes not ur type and u just wanna be friends
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Sit him down, tell him you think of him more as a friend than as a significant other. Tell him you still want to be friends and that you dont want to jepordize your bond together.
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I've had this happen! (Except I knew him only since 1st grade...*sigh*) I told him that I didn't want to go out with him because we're too good of friends. If I had gone out with him...well...we wouldn't last the rest of our lives together! And after we had broken up, our friendship would be so weird! I bet if I had gone out with him and broken up, we wouldn't be MERELY as close as we are now, (now that we didn't go out.) Tell him that, and how being friends is such a priority to you, and that messing that up would just kill you. But also say how he needs to stop asking after you have said that! Hopefully he'll REALIZE that you're simply something he can't have. :) Hope I helped! Please rate me!
Sincerely, Cammie
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