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hi; i'm haleigh and an eighteen year old college student at keiser university with a major in crime scene technology. i'm naturally blonde, i'm not super skinny, and i'm way too pale. i almost always screw things up and i'm nowhere near perfect. i've begun to accept myself for who i am and i'm not going to change for anyone. i was born in ohio and there are times that i miss it there. i love animals, i have four cats and two dogs. i hate spelling errors and chances are i'll correct you if you spell something wrong. my favorite television show is ncis and my favorite movies are rent, twilight, and jawbreaker. i don't read very often, but my favorite series is the twilight saga. i love the internet and i'm probably online more than i should be. i've been single for almost two years, and i hate it. my major celebrity crush at the moment is michael weatherly. i've been through more than anyone my age should have to go through, and there are very few people that i will tell about it. i can come off as a bitch, but if you get to know me and don't lie to me, i can be an amazing person. trust doesn't come naturally for me and it's hard for me to let people in completely. i'm just an average teenage girl trying to get by. if you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

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okay . i liek this kidd steve . . and he likes me and all but today like a hole bunch of people from my town went to this fair thing . . see the most poular gurl in my shcool likes him to and he only wants to go out with her is becvuz she hadd bigs boobs he hates her personality . . and stuff . . me and him were chillin and holding hands and i was sittin on his lap and we were makin out and stuff .. and she is one of my friends . . but she also like this other kidd jason . . and she got madd at me and then steve went up to her . . and said sry and he kissed her ryte in frount of me then he came back to me and he kissed me and i was like wtf i made this big scence and everything . . the gurl . . like that kdd jason a lot more then steve but if jason doent go out with her she going to go out with steve even though he will cheat on her with me and i always sneek out of my house to do shit with him and stuff . . i dont kno what to do becuz i really like him . . and i think he likes me or is he a playa hellpp mee pleaseee

I think he is just doing that to break you and your friend up from being friends. He sounds like a player to me sorry.
XOXO
(*)Charmed-Cherry21(*)

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heyy this isn't exactly a question it's more of a compliment...You have the greatest column I have seen so far. I was wondering if you could add me to your favorite columnists? thanx
Kelzey

Sure, but umm whats your site? Thanx I am really glad you like it.
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(*)Charmed-Cherry21(*)
*~*~*Haleigh Ann*~*~*

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hey, i just got my period in the beginning of September. today i got a lot of discharge does that mean my periods coming back like really soon? I already know cause of my cycle it will be back soon but idk if the discharge meant ne thing....

thanks
Please let me know asap!! i rate 5`s

Yes, it does have something to do with it. Go to www.beinggirl.com for more information.
(*)Charmed-Cherry21(*)

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i asked my mom to go over my bf's (im the girl that was spazzin about the whole she doesnt trust me thing) and i followed ur advice. THANK YOU! anyway, she said she'd havta talk to his dad first. so i need her to call..right now its 10am and if i went hed pick me up w. his dad around 2. dont u think itll be awkward getting in his car? and what if my mom comes out to talk to his? last few times i went over...my sister drove me. now its gonna be weird.what time do u think my mom shud call? do u think ill go? lots of q's but if u cud answer it wud help. thanks a lot.

I would say have her call at 11 am. It won't be all that awkward, I thought it was going to be awkward getting in my boyfriend's dad's car when he picked us up from the movies but it wasn't. There isn't anything to worry about. Trust me once you actually do it you will be like "what was I worrying about?".
(*)Charmed-Cherry21(*)

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I don't like Jordan S. but no one will belive me(thanks to Haleigh W.)... What do i do ????????

Komal,
Actually its thanx to Jordan M. Lets see..ASK HIM OUT and if you want us to believe you then stop talking about him 24/7.
(*)Haleigh Ann W.(*)

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how do u add someone to ur favorite columnists? thanx

You go to where it says "add as friend" or where it says "make favorite columnist"
(*)Charmed-Cherry21(*)

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on your advice column whats the picture of like who are they

The Charmed Ones! The one in silver is Piper ((holly marie combs)). The one in the reddish orange but u can only see the straps is Phoebe ((alyssa millano)). The one in pink with red hair is Paige ((rose mcgowan)). Charmed Rules
(*)Charmed-Cherry21(*)

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k well my friend is involved on a sports team so obviously they r going 2 get close and be good friends but b4 that we were bff and now i feel like i am being excluded, she will mention things 2 me but not invite me and if she does i always feel excluded because i wasnt really invited im juts a tag along. its really starting to bother me and im sick of feeling liek an outcast with her new friends and i dont no what 2 do bcause this is really botherin me

Try to become friends with her new friends, or join the sports team. If neither of those work then make some new friends of your own, but still try to hang out with your one friend.
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~*Charmed-Cherry21*~
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

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my shoulder came out during my football game yesterday ( we still won cause were beast like that ) but anyway how long do u think it will talk for me to be able to play again it will talke atleast a week ( league rules u go off tot he hospital u gotta miss a game )i also gotta concusion form it

Well in the show I watch "One Tree Hill" Lucas ((chad michael murray)) has to have his spline removed because of a car accident and it took him about a month to be able to play basketball again so I think that it should take at least a week or two before you can play football again. Depending on coaches, parents, and doctors.
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~*Charmed-Cherry21*~
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

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ok i went out with this one kid last year and i still like him very much! well yesterday my friend went up to him and asked him out for me and he said he has to think about it. so today we were talking and making jokes and shes like ur should do this... and it was dumb so i was like yeah the day _____ likes me is the day ill do that. sp she went up to him again ( against what i said ) and asked him if he liked me. he said yeah kind of. so i dont know i was going to ask him out today but after that i just dont know! is that good that he admits to liking me somewhat or bad and i should forget about asking him out!?!? maybe its stupid that im asking a guy out but its hard to do so dont think im dumb! lol thanx!

Okay...If ______ admits to liking you thats a good thing because that means that he isn't afraid to admit what he feels. I think that if you wanted to ask him out at one point than you still should because the only stupid questions are the ones that are unasked and I would think that in a way this fits with this.
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~*Charmed-Cherry21*~
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

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Hey Haleigh,
okay i have been talking to this boy named hector i met him through my best friend they used to date and now he said that he likes me and wanted to go out some time i said let m think about it he said that is fine so i asked my friend she said she did not mind so the next day we went to bush gardens i invited him to come so his brother dropped him off we met up he met my mom and then after the day was over he came to my house to stay the night because ya now i would only get to see him on the weekends and he lives in Tampa so the next day my friends called and i was busy so he answered the phone she was like i must have the wrong number he said no i stayed the night here she got mad and wanted to talk to me i as busy doing the dishes so he held the phone to my ear i heard i dial tone i called back no answer 3 weeks later she got online and said i have bad news she said i cant be friends with you anymore i said why she said cause you and hector and what yall do i was like why she said that her mom said i was a slut and we could not be friends well school started and hector still came over every weekend well she went and told all my friends that i was pregnant and that i was a slut and that she wanted to fight me now who was in the wrong
plz help thatd be great see ya at school
-Crystal H.

Hey Crystal,
Well I would say that she was and in a way you and Hector are, but mostly her. See Hector shouldn't have told her that he spent the night at your house because she is going to think that ya'll had sex even if you didn't thats just how the teenage mind works. I know you well enough to know that you wouldn't do that and I think she was wrong to tell everyone that you were pregnant unless she knew for sure and even if she did know for sure and you told her she has no right to go around telling people that because you trusted her with a secret and you thought that you could trust her. But I think that you should talk to her and have your mom talk to her mom so that you guys can straighten everything up and you won't have to worry about it anymore.
Good luck with it all.
LYLAS,
Haleigh
p.s. see ya at school

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omg u have the koolest page i have ever seen. lol. how do u make the box pop up when u first come to the page ect. and also how do u get the message to scroll or whatever across the screen... sooo kool. lol
plz tell me!
thanx

Send me an Instant Message on AIM and I will tell you because if I put it on here it will not show up. ((smartblonde213)).
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i have homecoming in a while do any of you know any good sites for good/not so expensive CUTE dresses shoes accesories thanks.

Try going to www.jcpenney.com or a mall website or something like that.
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~*Charmed-Cherry21*~
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

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ok my friends thought that i cut myself which I DONT! i didnt no it but they were all talking about me and saying that i did.. i no that they were worried but they didnt even come to me about it and they were like spreading rumors about it (only our group and a few other ppl heard tho). also some friends were talking and saying that i couldnt express myself bcuz i copied my bestfriend in 4th grade... hmm im in 9th now.. and i express myself ALOT. im really hurt that they were talking this shit behind my back and not coming to me and sayin i cant express myself
should i b mad??
thanx

Yes and no. You have a right to be mad but why don't you try talking to them about it and if that doesn't work and they don't stop then they obviously aren't your friends.
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~*Charmed-Cherry21*~
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

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I REALLY like this guy and he flirted with me all the time and we had so much in common..I definatly thought he was the one..but I was wrong..I found out he likes this girl...and this girl likes him too..they've tried going out but it never worked...ahh and we were getting so close too!! I cried when I found out..and I've never felt this way before about any guy..what do I do??

I'd say screw this other girl and ask this guy out.
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**Charmed-Cherry21**
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

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duz n e one know any music websites that has codez fer yer profile?? thanx!

here i decided to change my answer www.starlightmks.com

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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ok well there is this guy i like and he likes me. but we are not going out. but he really likes me. and he found out that i sat on this other guys lap and got really mad. and he gets jealous and stuff when i hang out with just this one guy and everything. my one friend said that he is to protective of me..but idk..what do you think i should do. i mean i cant help but flirt with him. but i dont want to lose the guy i like....:(

Ask the guy you like out

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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate!

Just be more touching to him....

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i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...

i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..

i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me?

I wouldn't exactly say that there was something wrong with you. I think that you are a little shy and self consious(sp?) but that doesnt mean that you aren't a great person just try to over come your fear.
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**Charmed-Cherry21**
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

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ok i like kind of jst started wearing tampons...n the 1st couples time that i have changed it didn't hert...but know it's starting to her...i don't know wat but it is...i wear lights so it want hert so bad when i pull em out but it does....is the a reason y it herts

Probably because you just started wearing them.
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*Charmed-Cherry21*
(*)Haleigh Ann(*)

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