Question Posted Thursday September 30 2004, 8:04 pm
I REALLY like this guy and he flirted with me all the time and we had so much in common..I definatly thought he was the one..but I was wrong..I found out he likes this girl...and this girl likes him too..they've tried going out but it never worked...ahh and we were getting so close too!! I cried when I found out..and I've never felt this way before about any guy..what do I do??
Mandee answered Thursday September 30 2004, 9:25 pm: Sorry babe, but that happens. And it really, really sucks. If he likes this girl and she likes him back, they are happy. And if he is your friend you should try to respect his decisions and be with him all of the way. He will recognize it someday and thank you for it later. There is nothing that I can say to help you get over this guy. It takes a lot of time. Girls tend to take more time getting over someone than guys do. You should try and relax though. Drinking tea, exercising, and taking baths to calm you help. Sometimes you don't feel that good about yourself and think you did something wrong when you try to get over someone. But just know that you didn't do anything wrong. Be strong and keep your self confidence up. Pretty much everyoen goes through this, you are not alone. A lot of people out there feel the same away about someone. Just take time and find the right guy for yourself and you will feel so much better. Sorry you had to go through that hun!
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