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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate!
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make the first move! and always remember that if there is anything that worries you or anything about your relationship, COMUNICATION IS THE KEY!
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ha ! sounds like my boyfriend. I believe some guys are just like that. They show affection when they want. It may not be as much as you want or when you want it. That's just how they are. Maybe there's even something wrong, he feels uncomfortable doing it ? If you two talk it out you might find out more, as to why he won't show affection as much. Make sure you let him know what affection you like. If he doesn't know then he can't do it. If he does something you like. Mention that you love when he does that or that he should do it more. If he's not the type to show that much affection theres really nothing you can do but complain and that will just get on his nerves.
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Tell him what's on your mind babe, Communication is the key, keep it subtle. Tell your friends to tell him. Write it in your journal and then leave it out for him to see. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!
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Make the move first sister!! I know what you mean, the little touch or bush can totally turn you on and it makes you crave more. If it was me, I'd maybe brush up against him and maybe kiss his neck, trying to hint it to him. If that doesn't work, find a Cosmo and circle the "Read her Mind" part and add a post-it note saying something sexy that would involve touching you.
Good luck! =)
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Why don't you make the first move? He might think that your not ready for it, so he hasn't tired...Or maybe he's the one thats not ready? Give him time if thats the case.
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If you want him to be more affectionate to you, then be more affectionate to him, and tell him how much you like him, and that you want to take it a bit further
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Just be more touching to him....
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