about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

who sings the song:

i love it when you call me big papa..


and whats the name of the song?

notorious b.i.g sings it and it is called big papa. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm so depressed my girl left me and I didn't really make many friends when I moved here from NC what can I do to cheer up or meet new friends?

i think the person below me is right. you dont always have to have a GIRLFRIEND to be happy. you need to just go out and hang out with people and start talkin to them.. dont be shy just do it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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13/f
(sorry this is really long)

Yesterday I went to Cedar Point with one of my really good friends for her birthday. She introduced me to one of her guy friends, let's call him Fred. So at Cedar Point there was Me, my good friend named Emily, Fred, TK and two other people. Well..Emily said that Fred told her that he really likes me. There may have been some signs..but I'm not sure like exactly how guys flirt. So..Since it was Halloweekends at Cedar Point we went through lots of haunted houses. a.)Fred always let me hold on to his arm and he held onto mine when we went through them.
b.) As humiliating as it may seem, I tried running from this freaky guy and I tripped and fell (lmao) and people started laughing. Fred told everyone to stop laughing and like stood up for me.

c.) Fred rode on every single ride with me. (Until yesterday I had never gone on a rollercoaster and he kept insisting that I go on every ride with him.)

Are these signs?? Because when people ask if he likes me he doesn't deny it..and Emily said that he wanted to ask me to be his girlfriend. It's not that I don't trust Emily or anything it's just that..y'know..friends mess around with you like that!

Any help is greatly appriciated =]

i think he likes you. from everything you said he did yesterday and sure seems like he has a thing for. my advice get your mind striaght and think about it. think if you like him or not. yea i noe you guys just meet yesterday but you can still work it out by callin him up and talkin to him. dont go out with him if you really dont knwo if you like him. unless you are like 60% sure that you do and then you can get all the facts togeher and see if you like him or not. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay, so im currently in a long distance relationship and i think the guy is getting bored with the whole e-mailing/calling thing. do you think it would make things better if i take 2 months to answer his latest e-mail..so he can start missing me more, and then write him a really cute e-mail? Or should i just keep writing every week? and if i do, how can i spice things up, is there any rules for what you should/shouldn't do when writing an e.mail?

i dont think it will be a good idea to do that.. think about bsides the fact he will think your ignoring him... he might think your are drifttin away from him and found soemone else that lets you have no time for him.. maybe you should try to see him more.. or 2 talk about different things then usual. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey y'all..
im anorexic (if your just going to tell me how dangerous it is, don't bother ok?) and i have been for 2 years of and on. i have a wonderful boyfriend (we've been going out for 17 months) but hes always tickling me and poking me in the stomach, and im very self concious about it. he knows about my ed and how much i hate attension being drawn towards my figure..but he still does it anyway. i know he's just being playful and flirty but i dunno...it makes me uncomfortable, especially after we eat (which is usually because he always makes me eat something when we're together for obveous reasons)
is there any other way i can tell him that i don't like him poking my stomach without being rude?

what you can try to do is next time he pokes you grab his arms and put them around your stomach and kiss him to get him to stop poking you.. but in realitty you should tell him how you feel.
*~Stephanie~*

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Whether online degree courses offered by USA or UK Universities are valid in India ?

nope it doesnt matter.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay so my gynocologist put me on seasonale and it gives you 1 period every 3 months. Well this is my first time on this medicine and im only on the second month around the time my period would normally be. So I've had this "period" for about a week and 5 days and my cramps arent even like period cramps, they are sharp pains not like aches. Is it possible that I'm pregnant, the lining of my uterus is cleaning out, or i had a miscarrage? I want to go to the doctor cause it hurts and the blood is brown not red... what's wrong with me? Please be honest... can I still bleed and be pregnant?

my opinon is that the pill is causin this to happen because you are slowing down your hermones and it has side effects like this. if you are sexau;;y active it can be a possibiklty.. i think you might want to go back to the doctor and talk to them about.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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my homecoming dress is strapless and I am a size A in bra but I am going to wear a pretty good push up bra. My concern is my dress slipping while I'm dancing. I just want to know if anyone has been in this type of situation before and has some advice to keep the dress from slipping. thanks in advance

i actually have. i bought a 200 dollars beautiful strapless dress and i wore a strapless bra with ti and my dress always tryed slipping and since there was a camera guy it came out on video and it looked werid. my advice toy uo is one either it a good hold able bra that will hold in place and not move will your dancin or 2 get a bra that you can have a see through strap so it wotn fall. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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How do u get a real heart on your AIM pro..... not the ones like this

another way to do to is is make a capital Y and the go to Webdings and that will give you a real heart. hope this ehlps you out.*~Stephanie~*

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i started my period 14 days early,i never did anything sexually.does anybody know why this happened?

dont worry it is perfectally normal. since you ahvent ahdyour period for more then 2 years it will be irregualr like that. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have a digital camera and i have a memory card for it and on my computer i have a slot where you just put the memory card in and it goes on your computer well i put it in and now what do i do? nothing popped up when i put it in? does anyone know where i have to go to see my pictures?
thanks in advance

my best guess would be. if you go to start then my computer, then fidn the icon that says removable disk on it and all your pictures should be there. if that doesnt work plug your camera into the computer(by the USB cord) then go start and etc. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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How old do you think you should be for it to be okay for you to start dating? I need a lot of opionions !! all ages!! please in your answer put how old you are because i really need a lot of different point of views...
thanks soo much

xox

14/f
i think people should be able to start going out at the age of 14 because that is when most people start to understand what like is about and things of that nature. but my parents think you shoudl be able to have a boyfriend or girlfriend until your 16 which ever single day i break because i think it is wrong.
*~Stephanie~*

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What are some decent image-hosting sites (other than photobucket and freewebs)?

picture trials,
if you just want URL for thm you can go to http://www.tinypic.com/

hope thsi helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Who sings "Shake ya Tailfeather"?

What are some rap artists?

nelly, p.diddy, murphy lee

ludacris,
lil john,
ying yang twins,
david banner,
50 cent
eminem
dr dre
llyod banks,
young buck,
ja rule,
terror squad,
trina,
missy elloet,
bow wow
cassidy,
lil kim,
d12,
ebony eyez,
fabolous,
fat joe,
g-unit,
jay-z
kanye west,
nelly,
pettey pablo,
pretty ricky,
sean paul,
snoop dog,
the game,
tony yayo,
trick daddy,
twista,
akon,
trey songz,
webbie,

hope this helps you out. if you need more drop it in my inbox and i will give you more.
*~Stephanie~*


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i always hear people say that you can't/dont/shouldn't wear white after labor day. why is thattt?????

i have heard that to but you know what you live in American and honestly you can wear what ever the hell you want and NOBODY can tell you anything.i have woren whiote after labor and nothin happened. hope this helsp.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay so I have a digital camera and for some odd reason I cant get it to work with my computer..it came with software so you could put it on your computer but the installation doesnt go right. The camera is a FinePix A330 its made by that fuji film thing. um my computer is a Windows XP made by Compaq and it has all the system requirements..umm on the software cd it says "FujiFilm Sowtware for FinePix AX Version 4.2b for Windows and Macintosh" I'm not sure what is wrong but if anyone can help or tell me where to go to have it looked at or something i'd appreciate it. Thanks!

one think you can do which is what i do since for some reason my camrea doesnt usually let me upload pictures like that is you plug in the camera.. then you go to start then my computer. then on my computer go to were it says removable disk. and it shoudl have all your pictures on it then what i do is go to photobucket.com and upload the pictures there. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay so I need yalls help! My Grandma got a phone call monday night at like 10:45 and it was a prank call...(Of course they blocked their number so we cant find out who is it) so heres how the convo went (the letters represent the peoples names):

Granny: hello?
Them: Hello, is H there?
Granny: Who is calling?
Them: B
Granny: Who?
Them: B, You might want to take H to the hospital, he gave me aids last night.
Them: (Someone laughing histerically in the background)

Keep in mind "H" is my grandfather and the "B" represents me. Now i'm sorry but that isnt even a cute prank call...my grandmother lives alone most of the time so she was scared to go to bed. But anyways...we have an idea of who it is...me, my mom, and grandmother think it was my brother's friend..lets call him N. and also my brother's other friend...we'll call him J. Now the only reason with think it's N & J is because N is the only friend of my bro who knows my grandpa's name. And I'm sure J was the one who told him to use my name. Now hopefully your still with me LOL. We were trying to think of some clever ways to get them to confess...I think we should do some of these:
1) Sit them down and frankly ask if they did it
2) Ask them if they know how to block your number when you call sumone
3) Ask if they know anything about a prank phone call my grandmom recieved

I'm open to opinions on this so please feel free to come up with some ideas of your own (that was the whole point of this lol) and let me know. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll rate high (5) and please, NO SMART-ASSES! Thnkx a mil

i dont think it is a good idea right of the bat to tell them if they did it.. maybe you should act all causal like nothin happened and meet up with them and your brother one day and be stupud like them.. like go do whatever they do and then brign up a time you prank called someone or eevn suggest to them to prank call someone and see if they block there number and what they do when they prank call someone...you get me?? hope this helsp you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok, i just made out with my boyfriend for about an hour and now i have a little bump on my lower lip...its not red, but it hurts a little because my teeth are right by it... is because of us kissing for so long...(he was sucking, biting softly etc.) or something else maybe? hes a virgin still, hes only fingered a girl once...will rate 5's thnx!

i have learned(from payin attention in class surprisingly) that almost every single person has hepies and some just have a worse kind of them then others.. it could be that he might have bit it and it left a mark like that. o0r it can be that he has the cold and passed it to you. i dont think you should worry about it too much.. unless it gets worse in a couple f days then i would suggest you go see a a doctor..
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so i was just looking at the advicenators merch does anyone accually buy that stuff?

i dont know. some poeple might to show there support for this site and soem may not. i personally wouldnt.
*~Stephanie~*

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How far can you drive a car after the empty light comes on? I have a rental car that I am not suppose to refule. I have 1/8 of a tank and have 40+ miles to go today.

to be on the safe side i think you should refurle only 5-10 dollars i mean you dont want the car to stop while your driving do you??
*~Stephanie~*

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