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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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advice

I hate basketball. well i don't hate it i just dont like it very much. Everyonr says I should play even our school's coach but i don't know. im 5'7 so they say ill be a good rebounder or defender??? but i cant shot! i miss everything! should i play?

if you're not that good and you dont think practice will make you better then maybe you shouldn't bother playing

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How do I know after I poop if I really get all of the poop from my butt? Please dont laugh but I continue to have poop in my panties every single day and Im embarrased. Any suggestions?

wet the tissue

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I am 17, and I have had my period for about 4 years now. It had been pretty regular for quite awhile, but recently it has been getting very irregular. For Example, I got my period on July 15th, and it only lasted for 3 days which is highly unusal for me. Then today, I got my period again, and its only the 2nd, and it is much more heavy than it usally is.
Is this possibly a sign that there is something wrong with me, and if so, does anyone have any idea of what it is? I was thinking of going to the gynocologist, but my mom said its normal, but I dont think it is, because I know what is normal for me. Also, What should I expect at my first gyno visit?

well if your sexually active... you may be pregnant. because you can get irregular periods at the beginning of your pregnancy. but if you're not then maybe you've been stressing out about something and its messing up your cycle. and at your 1st gyno visit, you should expect a pap-smear, which is when they scrape some mucus off of your cervix to test for cervical cancer. this can be painful. and you will probably get cultures, which is testing for stds. and you might get a blood test to test fro hiv. they will also probably examine your breast and show you how to give yourself a monthly breats examination to look for lumps.

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Tomorrow
is just another day

Tomorrow
isn't eternity

Tomorrow
is like a magic eight ball
holding its decisions in

Tomorrow
sad, yet, true

Tomorrow
will be wasted on you

Tomorrow
has a heart, feelings too
it is the exact opposite of you

Tomorrow
is cushioned, but firm

Tomorrow
is a dream gone
over the edge

Tomorrow
sad, yet, true

Tomorrow
is the day, i'm finally over
- you -

By: Rachel Knack


is that a good poem?
i am rachel and i wrote it, but
i'd like to give it to
my best guy friend cuz that is how i feel about
or relationship at this point. cuz we got in ANOTHER fight last night (7/29) and like, he is just being this big ass... he was talkin shit about me and i asked him about it and he was like, i don't want to do this anymore.. no! and i was like well... geez.. and he blocked my screen name.. and yah. He was sayin, no! don't tell her, you'll release the inner beast in her and all this shit!! and i dunno what to do....

Please HelP!!

go ahead and give him the poem. he will like it. i did.

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okay so our next door neighbors moved and the new ppl that moved in just had a baby. how can i let them knoe that when ever they are confortable leaving their child with a bby sitter that they can trust me? i mean i havent talked to them face to face since they've moved in and their never outside. please help me asap

just say it just like you did. give them a friendly hello. ask them there names. tell them what house you live in. welcome them to the neighborhood and let them know a little about yourself. and like you said if whenever they are comfortable and need a baby sitter you can be trusted.

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i need help.my vagina seems to be smellin what should i do?its gettin really bad.pleae any sugettions

if your sexually active, you may have an std. but if your not then it may be a yeast infection. either way you should go get yourself checked out.

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What is a dildo I have read soooooooooo many ? on here about them and I dont know what they are...

they are rubber dicks that losers who cant get real dick use. and i'm so tired of hearing about them.

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my best friend is going after my ex. i'm sure its ok but i really dont enjoy it. i still like him. and its hurting my feelings. but....... i really dont no how to tell her that.

tell her to stay away from him. friends dont do that to eachother. what does she want your left overs for?

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my mom and dad are getting a divorce...well its my cousins bday and she likes my toher cousins more (thats my age) so she chose her to sing at the wedding and made me not even be part of it i was really hurt..my mom got defensive..and like now my whole family hates her for divorving my dad and for bitching about it..and i feel like most of its my fault..i just feel like everything always is cuz my cousin thats gonna be in the wedding is perfect..and ive just always been a bad name to the family..i feel so guilty..i just need some advice..

you shouldnt feel guilty. you have nothing to do with the divorce. that is grown up stuff. stop feeling so sorry for yourself. you did nothing wrong. and fuck your cousin who thinks she is so perfect. you need to feel highly about yourself.

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Hii.. im 13 years old, and im kinda changin my style. i wanna get a punkiish style, i've been taken guitar lessons for over 2 years... and now im in a band, and havn't really picked up the style yet, still stuck in that gurly faze... so i need some really good advice on like where to shop, and what kinda stuff i would buy... s0o can you please help me!!!! ~*~ i rate ~*~ thankx, lots of love

try hot topic. and if you wanna stay a little girly still, buy a pink belt with studs and a pair of pink chucks. and a bunch of stuff that will go with it like pink tees or tees that have pink logos on them. pink is really easy to find now at days. and i think you will look cute.

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any1 know any good ways to combat boredem?! i'm sooooooooo freaking bored and pls dont say go out side and play i'm 15 and the oldest ppl round here are 13 year old boys that are annoying as hell


thanks

BB

go in a chat room and write I LOVE ORANGE SODA in caps and orage letters over and over and see what they say to you. thats what i do when i am bored sometimes, its kinda fun and it kills time lol

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Ok.. ill tell you a little about myself .. I need a really cute sn but see what you can come up with.

I like the caribbean, i love surf, i love PacSun and i love roxy and all the lovely brands that exist there, I can be realllly girly, i love switchfoot... hmmm... idk anything original.. anything that some1 wont have....

and you can leave some things that have nothing to do with what i mentioned.. lol.. just be original...


XoXO
muCh LoVe..

bluecrushbabe00... just put whatever number you want there

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i wanna know how to make my b/f really turned on when he comes over tomorrow and maybe evn make him get a b*ner, any ideas?

why would you want to give your bf a boner, if you werent gonna have sex with him or give a him a bj or anything? thats being a tease. i dont think he would like that.

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I am going into 7th grade and i am not allowed to have a boyfriend.I really like this guy and I know that he likes me.he asked me out and i told him i would think about it...what should I do.I really like him and i am afraid that if i say no that he will forget about me and...well just move on.I think that she is about to let me have a bf anyway.
Please give me advice.
~Thanx~

if he asks you out just say yes

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does anyone know how to loose a couple pounds in like a week?

-thanks

go running

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okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her?

he is most likely just using her

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my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!

-signed help my friend out!-

I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

there isnt reslly much you can do to help your friend. maybe you can talk to her parents about her. but she can only help herself.

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i have a boyfirned but we never see each other but meanwhile we love each other is this ok

yeah its okay

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I'm always getting really horny, how do i stop myself? like...I've been horny for like 20 minutes, how can I stop? is there A food i should eat? or think about something?

stop thining about sex. think about old people doin it or something, that should turn you off.

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Hi im 14 yrs. old and well.. sum1 please help me. i have a boyfriend and we've been goin out for awhile. I tried so hard to get him. I finally have him..well this summer i met this boy steven. his step-brother Erik goes to where i live but Steven lives 2hrs. away and comes to where i live every weekend. Well Steven likes me a lot and i like him a lot too. He's my type..but i really like kyle ( my boyfriend)..and i dont no if i should give steven a chance? or not dump kyle? Im so confused and strssed and dont no what to di!Some one please help..thankyou

stay with the guy you tried so hard to get. the other one is probably a lost cause.

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