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okay so christmas is coming fast and i need some money so i can get my boyfriend a present but the thing i want get him is like 80$~90$ and i have 30 bucks already i just need a fast way to get the rest. thanks!

You didn't say how old you are. Are you old enough to get a part time job?
If not, your best bet is to do jobs around the house/garden for your family/friends/neighbours. You could also offer to walk their dogs, wash their cars, babysit, etc.
You could even sell things you no longer need.
It's not even December yet, so if you offer to help people, you'll probably get the money you need in time!
Good luck.

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hi, i am a virgen , and my boyfriend wants to have anal sex, if he cums in my ass can i get pregnant?

If you don't know the answer, you shouldn't be doing it.

For future reference - no, you can't get pregnant. BUT, it's easy for it to get into your vagina, since they're close to each other.

Risky..

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can the new iphone shoot video? i cant find anything on the phone about it

Actually, you CAN record on your iphone. I have one and so does my friend - and he got something which allows him to record.
It doesn't come with this feature though - you have to do it yourself.

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When you get fingered does the guy put his finger in the same hole aswhen you have sex?
This is really confusing me. :(

Yeah. Or he can feel around the outside. Whichever you both prefer.

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Well here's the story. I'm really too young to be even thinking about this stuff I think. My boyfriend is two years older than me. We have had sex once (I don't think he's popped my cherry yet though) and we want to do it again. We would but there is something stopping us. Pregnancy. I can't have a baby! There is no way I could get pills without my parents knowing and there is no way I'm telling them. I need help. We have condoms but I heard they aren't that great. Do they work good or not? I really need help.

Use them right and they should be effective.
You must realize that even with birth control pills... there's ALWAYS a chance of you becoming pregnant.
It's the risk of sex.
So if you don't want a baby.. refrain from doing it.

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Alright guys I really want to know what to do when in a relationship. I'm talking about a teen relationship. I'm exactly 13 years old and I want to know what should a 13 year old be doing when in a relationship? Ex: WEEK 1: MAKE OUT
MONTH 1: FEEL UP
like that
I really want someone my own age to anaswer this this and not someone older saying I'm too young for this stuff. Like I think after 9 months is good to start having sex but wat do u think? And I mean actual sex not like bg's or hj's and please include those in their! thanks!

If you were mature enough to be doing these things, you would know there is NO SET TIME FOR ANY OF THOSE THINGS. You do them in your OWN time and when you are READY.

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(17/F)

I've been having sex a few times now with my Bf, don't worry we allwas use protection. and today I tryed moaning a bit and well i was actually able to come for the first time, anyway my Bf says that its the girl that makes sex great, is that true?

Well, he would say that because he's a boy..
I'm sure girls would say it's the boy that makes it. but to be honest, it's both people engaging in the act. It takes 2, right? :)

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ok umm what should you do if the boy you like goes and asks your friend out?

Move on.

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Theres this kid. I had a feeling he liked me about 1.5 years ago. I hadn't seen him much since then, until the start of this schoolyear. Lately whenever I look at him he's staring at me with, not an open mouth exactly, but his jaw is definitely kinda dropped. And its not like in the gross way haha.

I turn around a lot to talk to my friend who sits diagonally behind me & he sits beside her (but not behind me) & whenever I do, he's staring.

He's kinda quiet so he's never really made conversation with me, but he butts into me and my friend's conversations sometimes.

Do you think he likes me?

Probably.
Unless he just does that with everyone.

Only way you will know is to find out from him.
We don't know what he is thinking.

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i know this may sound stupid, but me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year and tried to have sex for the first time and it was both of ours first time ever last week. it was kind of hard to like get it in ya know so we didn't have like full on sex, but his penis did go in me a few times..so was that sex? i mean i know it probably was but i don't think he cummed from it so i was just wondering

It's still sex when his penis enters your vagina. It doesn't matter if he didn't cum or for however long you did it for.

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Is it true that you never forget your first love? i am in a serious relationship and have been for quite a few years, but i do not think i could ever let go of my first boyfriend. i find that i cant fully give myself to my current boyfriend as i always wonder what if! i am happy im really happy, but i do always wonder what if things had been different... should i try to forget my first love? is it healthy to forget? i think he will always hold a place in my heart that no one could ever fill. i havnt seen my ex for years, snce the day we broke up. do you think it would help me move on if i did see him?

I don't think anyone truly forgets their first love, because it's the first time they've ever felt something so special.
It doesn't mean you can't be in love again, though..
Anyway;
He is your ex for a reason.
What's the point in seeing him again if you are happy. I don't think it will help you - infact, it may do the opposite. Don't ruin a good thing.

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My costume for Halloween is white... (just a head's up: picking a different costume or not wearing one isn't an option). The thing is, I'm gonna be on my period. I'm not a tampon kinda girl. ANYTHING I can do to protect my costue (not to mention my dignity!), or any kind of fast solution, JUST IN CASE?

Use a night time pad with wings so it stays in place.
Bring spares with you and change when you feel you need to.
Seriously, don't worry about it. Don't let something as stupid as a period ruin your fun.

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okay.. well it's above the "lips" obviously.. i'm not sure what it is.. but there's like a purplish or brownish bump on my pelvis.. but it's above the 'lips' if you know what i mean.. and when i press it down it hurts, i don't know where it came from. i'm not sure if it's a bruise, does anybody know what it is? and how to get rid of it?

Without physically seeing it, noone will be able to give you a proper diagnosis.
Yes, it could be a bruise. I get bruises all the time and don't remember how I did it. If you shave that area, it could be a little irritated, too.
My advise to you is to give it a few days and obviously stop pushing it to cause the pain.
If it settles and hurts less, you know it's getting better and probably nothing to worry about.
If it starts to get worse or keeps reappearing, it's time to mention it to your doc.

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17/m.
i applied for a christmas temp job by filling in an application, and they got back to be and left a message telling me that they waould like me to come into the store for an assessment. whats one of them? is it a job interview? or what?:S

Pretty much.
You know, just to see if you'd be good for the job.
You should prepare in advance, because every time I've been to a job interview, they ask me about the history of their place. During my first interview, I was quite shocked they asked and I didn't know because I didn't research, but I was lucky cos it was a clothes shop and I rambled on about fashion and they seemed to like it, 'cause it worked!
They will obviously ask about what skills you have and depending on the store you applied to, if you're a good team player, understand customer service etc etc. Pretty straight forward, right?
But yeah, don't worry about it.
It can either be a one on one interview or a group one. Which ever one it is, they'll both be fine and won't be as scary as you think.
and dress to impress :)!

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i was really drunk with this guy i like and i sadly intitated sex

he didnt have a condom,and he went in me for 5 secodns but i made him stop becuz it was SOOO painful


he didnt even cum in me.

did i have sex?!?!?!

like im so confused and its just so debatable

His penis entered your vagina.
That equals sex.

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ok so one my friend count was 737 (low i know, cuz i reset it)
anyways the next day it exceedely went up like everytime i refreshed the paged i saw it go from numbe to number like 737,738,739,740,741,742,743,744,745,746,747.
then today when i logged on it wsa back to 737.
wtf??
i didn't lose anyfriends or anything. what do u think happened?

It's just a glitch.
Don't worry about it, it happens sometimes.
I remember it said I had 0 friends at one point. :)

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I was fingered with 2 fingers and it didnt hurt and i didnt break my hymen, so is there something wrong? or do i just not have one, or what?

It's probably already been broken.
It doesn't have to be a sexual encounter that breaks it.
Playing sports can, even.

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I want to be soooo naughty for HALLOWEEN this year, I have a black and white short skirt and i want to wear black fish nets with some black pumps. how can i make it more naughty?

Ditch the pumps for heels. Instantly changes the look.

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How do you delete a bulletin from myspace?

if you view your bulletin, there's a delete button.
Or if you view the bulletins you've posted (go on any bulletin to do this - there will be an option at the top), you can delete it like that.

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im 13/f And i used to be overweight and now im skinny i worked it out really hard and i pushed myself so hard and lost SO UMCH weight. and im proud of myself for it, but i havnt gotton my period for a month and a half and its almost 2 months, i hear that its cuz i dropped weight so my body is just changing and i have to wait for it to come back but its normal if it doesnt come this month right, i guess its just cause my body changed and it went from overweight to skinny, thanks :) :)

You're absolutely right - it can be a cause for your periods to stop for a while.
BUT, you're only 13.. How long have you had your period for? Periods can take years to regulate.
If it doesn't come back within the next few months, mention it to your doc and see what he/she says. It's most probably nothing at all to worry about and either one of the problems stated above - which are totally normal.
You should enjoy not having them while you can! ;)

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