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did i have sex?
i was really drunk with this guy i like and i sadly intitated sex
he didnt have a condom,and he went in me for 5 secodns but i made him stop becuz it was SOOO painful
he didnt even cum in me.
did i have sex?!?!?!
like im so confused and its just so debatable
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His penis entered your vagina.
That equals sex.
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Yes, you did have sex. Sex is not determined by the male's ejaculation, but by the mechanics of what happened: penis in vagina = sexual intercourse.
Think about it, if you were having sex for 7 minutes and he didn't ejaculate, does it not count? Of course it does.
You're not the first female to have an unsatisfying first time, but try not to let it set the tone for the rest of your life. This doesn't mean you're damaged goods. Not being a virgin isn't anything to beat yourself up over.
Look at it as a learning experience. Being with someone you don't care about and being drunk led to bad sex. Next time you can wait till you care about the guy and you can be sober. In this way you can get yourself better, more meaningful sex.
Again, try not to let this affect your self esteem or self worth.
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