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hi; i'm haleigh and an eighteen year old college student at keiser university with a major in crime scene technology. i'm naturally blonde, i'm not super skinny, and i'm way too pale. i almost always screw things up and i'm nowhere near perfect. i've begun to accept myself for who i am and i'm not going to change for anyone. i was born in ohio and there are times that i miss it there. i love animals, i have four cats and two dogs. i hate spelling errors and chances are i'll correct you if you spell something wrong. my favorite television show is ncis and my favorite movies are rent, twilight, and jawbreaker. i don't read very often, but my favorite series is the twilight saga. i love the internet and i'm probably online more than i should be. i've been single for almost two years, and i hate it. my major celebrity crush at the moment is michael weatherly. i've been through more than anyone my age should have to go through, and there are very few people that i will tell about it. i can come off as a bitch, but if you get to know me and don't lie to me, i can be an amazing person. trust doesn't come naturally for me and it's hard for me to let people in completely. i'm just an average teenage girl trying to get by. if you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

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Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him?

It is possible, lots of married people met online.

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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do you close your eyes when you give your boyfriend a lil' peck on the lips?! or even on the cheek?

It is entirely up to you.

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so is it okay 4 your boyfriend to call you baby but you wanna call him something other than "babe" but not like hunny, hunnybun, or other corney names?! like call him baby too or would that just be weird??

Thats what me and my ex did.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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i have a friend name leon and he is gay he ueses guy for there money and i want him to stop doing it, its not him i know he will not do that, what can i do to stop him.

Just talk to him and tell him how you feel about what he is doing. If he is your friend he should understand.

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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There's this boy that I've known for a few years. We talk on email every single day, and we see each other at school.
It feels like we're just friends, but the other day my best friend pointed out that it seems like we are "more than just friends".
I don't believe that, he's just my friend. He's weird, funny, nice, creative, and lots of other things, but I don't know if I really "like like" him or not.
Can someone help me out in trying to figure out my real feelings?

Just look inside your heart. Talk to him and figure out his real feelings too.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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Theres this guy, that I like love and ummm he only likes girls with hot bod's why is this?

W/B SOON

~I go to TEWMS and this guy is like so FINE~

Because guys are Jerks. They are too busy looking at girls body's that they don't pay to whats the most important, your personality.
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Charmed-Cherry21
p.s. what team r u on

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When you get your first period is it normal if it just lasts for 2 days?

yes

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Well. Everyday I seem to like somebody new, And I don't know what's wrong with me, Say one day I like Jason, but then I wake up the next day and think okay I don't like Jason now i like Charles. And Everyday it changes. I seem to like anybody whos nice to me. Is this normal? How can I stop it. Please Help! I rate very high, even if u respond --thanks

Nothings wrong with you, you just are some one who can't seem to make up your mind. There isn't really anything you can do..
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Charmed-Cherry21

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i used tO like this bOy and now i dont like him anymore but NOW he like me,and iam goin Out wiith him but i dont feel nOthiing for him,and i told him but he said to lets try to see what happend but i dont want tO fall in love wiith him again cuz he hurt me... iam confused..!!what should i do

You have to be true to him, just tell him again how you feel and tell him that you don't think it is going to work out.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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I am looking to buy some fun socks, with simple patterns and stipes, mostly black and grey. So far I have found that 1 pair cost 3-7 dollars, even at Target. Does anyone know where I can find really cheap socks?

Try Wal-Mart or Target..

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My cat has a bad habbit of tearing up the toilet paper rolls. I have tried putting the rolls on backwards so the paper won't roll off when she plays with it, but she is still tearing it up good. I end up thowing away 1/4 of the roll when I go into the bathroom. What can I do to prevent my cat from doing this?

Since her litter box is in there, move her litter box to another room and keep the bathroom door shut.
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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!?

Wearing tampons is nothing like that, it is completely different. I myself think that wearing a tampon is more comfortable than wearing a pad, but some people don't know and they think it is gross ((like you friends)) and some people also have something called an unstretched hymen ((something like that)) and so they are unable to wear tampons. But if you want to wear tampons, then wear 'em 'cause it doesn't make you a hoe. Plus you have to wear diapers when you are a baby, do you really want to feel like that for another what 20-30 years? LOL!
XOXO
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Ok well i went to some advicenators advice column and when i exit a star appears i've seen that star on about 8 columns. How can i get the star to appear when i exit or some one exit's my column. What i mean is what's the HTML or where can i get it.

It's on my column...go to http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#star
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Ok i have this friend, her name is Lindsay. And the other day i was talking to lindsay on line and shes like hey whats up, and then yesterday she called me and shes like wanna hang out and im like sure and i went over to her house and we had fun then i came home cuz she had to go out of town for the day. when were in school she always says hi to me in the hall. does she still want to be friends?? i dont want to lose her as a friend

If she says hi to you that means she still wants to be your friend...
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i have a Sony Psyche walkman. it's about a year old and it worked great. well just recently the music only started coming out of the left ear. i thought the batteries could be going, so i put new ones in and it's still the same. so whats wrong or how do i fix it? im pissed off cause it was a $50 walkman.

It's not the batteries or the walkman. It is most likely the headphones, this happened to me before and I got new head phones and it worked great!
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Alright my best friend and i used to fight a lot last year but we haven't fought in awhile. A few days ago, we went to a carnival and me and my other friend couldnt find her anywhere but finally we found the people she was with.I was all confused and asked them where she was and they started yelling at me for no reason telling me not to be mad! I wasn't mad at all and nothing was wrong but they were yelling at me for no reason and i tried to explain that to them but they just told me to shut up and kept yelling. I told my best friend what happened and she doesn't believe me! She says she doesnt trust me and shes positive that her other friends would never do that. I told her i would never ever lie to her, and i wouldn't, but she just said that i was making it up. I really really really dont wanna fight with her but we already are and if her other friends lie about what happened im afraid we'll never be friends again. I have a lot of other friends but she's my best friend and when shit like this happens it really really hurts. I have no idea what to do and please don't tell me to just wait till everything's forgotten, because i know thats not gonna work. Please help me..thank you so much and sorry it's so long.

Talk to the people that were yelling at me and take a tape recorder and so that way if they admit it you can play the tape for her..
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okay. so i like this kid and hes not the hottest kid ever k? but hes so so so nice! and he has like the best personality. I also kinda like this other kid who is my friends cousin and hes fricken hot and he has a good personality too...except sometimes hes mean to some people and like yea...but his personality is okay. SO i have NO clue who to choose. Its SO hard and they are both awesome...the hot one asked me out yesterday and i said i'd think about it and the great personality one asked me out this morning...so what do i do? plz help!!!

I would choose the one with the great personality. Like my Mom says "the cute ones turn out to be terrible boyfriends/husbands and become uglier, but the not so cute ones turn out to be great boyfriends/husbands and become cuter!" My boyfriend isn't the hottest kid either ((well to me he is)) and he has a great personality and he is perfect.
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I'm painting my room next weekend. A few years ago when I put up pictures and stuff like that I used glue and nail polish to hold them up. (don't ask) so how will I get the stuff off I tried like dish soap and water but it doesn't work

Try using finger nail polish remover, or bleach.
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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old?

Because most people think that sixteen-year-olds are only interested in makeing out and having sex.
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There is this guy i like and were really good friends but my other friend broke his heart about a year ago. But last night we had a school danced and we danced but i dn if it was as friends or what! I just like dont wanna do nething that ill be embarrassed about bcuz r moms r good friends. I have a ton of confidence around guys but this is alil different. What shud I do?

Well some how you are going to have to ask him if he feels the same way about you as you do about him. Try saying to him, "I had a really good time last night maybe we could do it again sometime?" If he says no then you were just dancing as friends and if he says yes then he most likely likes you the same way that you like him. Then if you do go out ask him if he does like you.
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