about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

how do you get rid of dandruff with out like scratching it out or buying shampoos?

like home products if you can make something

the best advice on this i can give you is.. rise your hair out really good when takin a shower. that is the biggest risen to get dandriff because theshampo or condition drys up and turns flake . hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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if i wore baggy sweatpants(either black or gray) and like a band tee, or logo tee and really cute sneaks that are like torquise, would i look ghetto?

no not really. but possible.. way am i sayin that ebcause i go to a ghetto school and everyone dresses like that and i kind awell think it is normal to dress like that now and all but still it can be ghetto. and to top it off with your outfit put on a hat to the side. then your really ghetto and pimpin =]. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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My boyfriend is 20 years old and we been going out for a year (this months) and he always tells me that he is going to go to the dome(another word for a strip club) and i always tell him that if he goes i would be extremely mad. He hasn't gone to one yet, but he says he is going to. Do you think that it if stupid for me to get mad at him if he goes? I believe it stupid because he already has a girlfriend(me) that he can look at, am i not good enough for him to look at?
thanks

you got every right to get mad and sad about. but really you should feel like you dont look good enough for him. you got to remember that just ebcause you to are together doesnt mean he is in lock down.. if he wants to go let him dont hold him back. you trust him dont you? so let him. looking at soemthing wont kill btu if he starts touchin and messing around then you got a problem otherwise let him look at the menu it isnt like he wants to get wit them. those "strippers" are what i think hoes and sluts because they showing off there body to everyone and got no self respect for themself. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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who sings the song with the lyrics, i like big butts and cannot lie...?

sir mix a lot and it is called baby got back.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey im a freshman in highskool and ive just been asked out by a freshman and he like almost in all my classes! when he asked me out, i though i shouldnt b a heartless bi*ch so i just said yes. i mean hes cute but like a lil brother cute. i feel like an ass**le. i will not say no now n tomm. i go bak 2 skool wat will i say wats next i dunt like him! oH MY GODDD ive made a big mistake n i need help PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thnxx

well you need to tell this guy the truth. leavin along and going on witht his will hrut him a lot more then you want to hurt him. so you need to tell him. it might be hard for you to tell him but you got to.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm writing an essay on who inspires me and I'm doing my grandma when i said "grandma" in the essay would it be capital? For example My grandma...Captil or not?

nope it is a common noun..so it is lower case.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it bad to ask a guy out i mean does it hurt there self of steam?
thx candi

nope i think it shows that the girl is strong and can handle rejection if it occers(hopefully not) .
*~Stephanie~*

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is there anyway to improve my kissing?

truthfully no. you can Learn to kiss differentaly because everyone has a different kissing mythod but really i wouldnt advice you to change the way you kiss to improve it because your kiss is unique just like you. =]
*~Stephanie~*

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OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me.
plz answer
thanks

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Honestly NO it isnt. your dad only did that to you to teach you a lesson. that is how he raised you. what your dad did wasnt abusive. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you play the game 21 questions?

you ask 21 questions and someone answers them as honest as possible..
*~Stephanie~*

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does 3 way calling on a regular phone cost money? how much?

yes it cost 1.45 [per use]. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have a VERY personal question that i find embarrassing to ask friends. When a girl is giving you head, are you supposed to tell her when you're going to ( you know ) To me this is what you should do, but is it normal to do that. How do girls feel about this?

PLEASEE HELP

personally i think you should let a girl noe i am she isnt pysic to you exactaully when your going to do it... hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I recently met this guy and we're now dating. We aren't exactly what you would call the cutest couple because well, some people don't believe we belong each other. Those some people being my friends.

I'm what you could call the preppy high school cheerleader that hangs out with other preppy cheerleaders/jocks.

He is...well I'm not sure what he is. When you look at him you think oh, just another punkish looking emo druggy kid. Which is what my friends think. But, he really isn't. He did voluntarily dye his hair black and has an eye brow and lip piercing. Along with another one that is below the belt that I haven't seen yet ;P.

But anyway, back to the point. He's a sXe(straightedge). If you don't know what that is, it means that he doesn't drink, doesn't do drugs and doesn't believe in casual sex.

I was recently involved in an accident. The accident should have never happened because we'll the driver and I were drinking. Fortunately, I'm still alive. And because of the accident I've decided not to drink anymore. (I met my bf after my accident).

My friends think that my bf is BS and that he's just kidding himself. And obviously, do not like him. His friends and I get along fine and he doesn't mind my friends, except for the fact that they don't like him. What should I do?

your in the same situation as me except for i am not the preepy girl but my friend DISS approve of my boyfriend.. my advice is to fallow your heart and do whatever you think is right. you know your the opne goin out wit the guy not them so they shouldnt worry about. dont listen to your friend if you really like this guy and you feel like you got something goin for it. i mean yea you should listen to them and they are there to suport you when times get hard but you got to know your limits and your friends cant always run your life for you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I was just browsing around on the internet at school, and happened to come across your advice column! Oh yes, by the way this is Violet. Ok, here's my question:
There is this gentleman that I have liked since the beginning of the school year (8th grade). Yes, you probably know who he is- he is definatly a "popular" person. I think he likes me because he runs away from me when I call for him in the hallway. I believe it's his way of, I guess you could call it "flirting". His name begins with a J and his last name begins with an F. I was wondering if you could possibly talk to him about "going steady". I would enjoy dating him. If you do this favor for me- I'll just want to give you a great big hug! Thank you very much.

huh?

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where can i download it from???

http://www.1001freefonts.com/

http://www.fonts.com/

if those dont work you can go to google and type in fonts and it will give you a whole bunck of sites.
*~Stephanie~*

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How do you get the font Ternaimal on AIM??? I don't have it in my font list! I really like! So please help. Automatic 5

when you download it and unzip it and add it to the rest of your font list it should already go onto aim if not you might have done soemthing wrong. hope this helps you out.
*~Stepahnei~*

if you need soemthin else drop it in my inbox.

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i just got my period today (not my first) but anyways i have a 5-8 hour surgery on monday and ill be sleeping for like 2 days and i wont be able to walk right away. so what should i do?

best thing to do is tell the nurse or doctor about and they should already have it covered. good luck with the surgey and i hope everything goes well.
*~Stephanie~*

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Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 4 weeks. And started off as friends and then we became bf and gf. He goes to a different school then i do..I use to go that school but i left like 2 years ago..I am still really good friends with everybody there and sometimes we go to the movies alot..But lately we havent been doing anything...And me and my bf are really close and talk all the time but dont get to see eachother. And we are both 14 soo its like nothing serious...Well here the problem i want to go my school last home football game and i want my bf to go with me. But he doesnt know anyone at the school i go to. soo i dont think he would go. And all my friends want to me him and everything. Well also my bf wants go to a movie on that day but i want to go the football game.. LIke last night i was suppose to do something with him but he had to go to his dad's soo i went to the football game instead..And i really missed him...Then week i think we are doing something but i want to go the game but i want to see him cuz i probally wont for while..So should i tell my bf to go the football game or go the movies with him??
Sry its soo long
I'll rate 5's for good answer
THANKS

i m almost in the same situation as you except i want my boyfriend to go to homecoming with me and idk if he will since he doesnt know anyone there. but i figured it all out. if i were you i would ask him to go to the football game with you and since you are going he knows someone there and he can also meet new people there and have some friends at your school. and then maybe after the football game go to the movies or even the next day if you guys dotn have plans you can go to the movies. hope everythin works out for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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yes i know its a stupid ?...who sings laffy taffy?

D4L sings that song.
*~Stephanie~*

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I was talking to my friend the other day. He was talking about how he was in a band in highschool. I asked him what year he graduated and it turned out to be the same year I was born. I started to laugh and when I told him his face went beet red and he couldnt look me in the eye.
I thought that because we are just friends that this was a strange reaction.
Do you think that maybe he has feelings for me as more than a friend? That would explain why he was embarressed.

he might be just shocked that he is soooo old and you are a lot younger then him. he might have had feelings for you because of his reaction and the fact that you guys cant be more then frends. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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