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okay so my boyfriend is coming over next weekend
and were gonna be in my room.. alone
any fun stuff we can do.. like not sex though
because im not ready to go that far yet
were gonna like watch a movie and stuff
but whats some stuff that guys like you to do?
like were probably gonna end up like on my bed or something

you could make out almost naked.
inbox me if you want more ideas...

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this boy well boyz want me to give them head but im scared im going to get herpes or something..what usally happends if u suck a guy off

you could get herpes from it and if you give it to more than one guy, you'll get called a slut.

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I want to buy the new Motorola Krazr (idk if thats how it is spelled) but im a bit confused about how this vCast music thing or whatevr goes. my friend uses that and pays 2 dollars per song she purchases, but she has the Chocolate. I have limewire and over 1000 songs on there (i know the krazr only holds like 500) but is tehre any way i can just download the music from my computer onto the phone? Like with a cable? BEcause i cannot afford 2 dollars per song and i already have music on my computer. so thank you for anyone who knows what im talkin about!

I have a chocolate & i don't buy music. you go back to the verizon store and buy software and the special usb cable for $30 (if you don't have one already) and you can sync your songs from your computer on to your phone. it might not hold 500 on it tho... you'd need extra memory for that. (chocolate holds about 15 without memory) lemme know if you need anything else.

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I'm just looking for some opinions here. Do you think giving head is a bad idea? I've always thought that blowjobs were gross and should be left to the sluts, but some of my friends are trying to convince me differently. I just don't want to be labeled as a whore amongst the guys.

Any opinions would be helpful. Thanks.

I think it's a bad idea if its
*out of a relationship
*to fit in/give in to pressure
*to gain popularity
*try to win a guy
otherwise, I don't think its a terrible thing. if you think you'll feel like a whore after, don't do it.

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I would like to know the spanish spelling
but to me when its pronounced it sound like a-tea but i doubt thats the spelling but its just how it sounds to my ears..if that makes sense.

sorry, I haven't heard of a name like that. wish i could help!

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what does PMS mean?

P re M enstrual S yndrome.

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what does getting baked mean?

is it doing drugs or something?

It's when you get high from smoking weed.

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I'm looking for some quotes from characters on shows. What are the funniest shows?

family guy, that 70s show, south park.

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ok this may sound like an odd off the wall question but do you know what the spelling would be for a name that sounds like a-tea its a guys name if that makes a diffrence if you have no clue thats ok..

a-tea? in english or spanish pronounciation?

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I was giving my opinion on abortion, which she asked for. Is there something wrong with that?
I am a Christian, and saying that I'm not because I have the Christain view on abortion is just uneducated. Please don't attack me for my opinion, because I'm not attacking you for your opinion.

I didn't? I didn't read the other answers, I just gave mine. I have a religion teacher that thinks its wrong no matter what and that statement got her to shut up one time... she never brought it up again. I don't think it's Christian-like to say that an 11 year old has to go through something like that.(I have personal issues with it) I'm an educated, practicing Catholic. I did not have any intentions of making you feel like I was attacking your opnion, just stating mine, as a follower of God, not as someone dissing christianity.

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I will not say what I believe in for abortion because that may influence your answer..but someone brought this to my attention...
do you consider this an exception for abortion..if an 11 year old girl got pregnant(raped) and her hips couldn't support the baby. Do you believe that when a girl has her period she is ready to give child birth even though her age may not be? Any insight would be greatly appreciated! Thank you.

I'm against abortion with the exception of rape. I think that if a woman is raped, regardless of age, should be allowed the choice of an abortion. She shouldn't have to pay the price because some psycho horny man forced her to have sex with him. That's awful & anyone that calls themselves a "Christian" & thinks that this girl should have this baby when she could put her on health at risk -- is not a christian at all.
***EDIT***
Sorry to anyone who is offended by the christian statement. I am Catholic myself but it KILLS me to hear people preach that a person that is raped has to keep the baby. That's just me tho..

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Okay so i need osme input for an essay i'm writing and it would be great if you could answer this ASAP

well i'm writing it on how Holden can be easily be related to teens today.

some thoughts i had was that many teens today are depressed or lonely and just need someone to relate to and basically holdens personality is outgoing and he's interesting to read about

i also had that he can easily be related to by his thoughts, personality, and his basic life. if anyone could just help me go in the right direction and maybe add any more input would be awesome!

UGH i just finished that book!
how he's like teens today:
doesn't value many things
drinks
smokes
rebellious
has a soft side for youngsters

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Could some one who knows hispanic names real well (not just someone whos taken spanish or is hispanic)and posibbly from over there say i do and i will e-mail my question to your column.

I think I can help you...

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how do you quit smoking pot?

Just don't buy anymore & don't smoke it anymore. it's a mental thing and easier to quit than any other drug.

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well, im 15 and a girl. So there is this guy, let's call him joe. He's like perfect. He gets good grades and has a car and a job. The other guy let's call him mike is kind of like the bad boy in school. He does drugs and flirts with like every girl. I like them both alot. Is that bad? Should I go for the perfect boy or the bad boy? My heart is playing emotional ping pong right now. Thanks in advance. :)

Oh man i had this happen to me before...i liked a "mike" guy foreverrr & after i started hanging out with "joe" more, i realized how much of an asshole "mike" could be. go for the guy that treats you right. bad boys are hard to get over, i know it but good guys make better bfs usually. hang out with both... you don't have to make up your mind now, give it time.

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what's an hj? i kno it's sexual somehow (from what i've heard) but what exactly is it? thanks

A handjob is when a girl (or guy) rubs/strokes/touches a guys penis to please him.

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Love at 16...?
What do you guys think? Is it possible? Or is it just a bunch of teen emotions?

I think it's often looked down upon as just teen emotions but i think it's possible. some people just say that and happen to "love their bf/gf" 3 days after they start going out so that makes teenage love look bad. Buttt, yes, it's possible.

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do you think that giving a hj as a freshman is slutty? because some of my friends have.. not my close ones but i know that a lot have. and i have a boyfriend that i really love and like i want to but like a lot of my close friends would consider that to be slutty. like i really dont think its that big of a deal.

I don't think there is anything wrong with them... as long as you don't tell anyone... not even your friends. Keep it between you and the guy and you're not slutty.

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has anybody used any of th v.s's hair care or makeup products...if so how satisfied were you.

i use victoria's secret lip gloss, blush, mascara and eyeliner and i think they are great... especially the blush - the color is really awesome.

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when giving a guy a hand job or head, how do you know when to stop? and please dont tell me if i dont know, then i shouldnt be doing it, because im not. im just curious. if your just going to say that, then dont even bother wasting your time, or mine for that matter.


thanks!=]

you stop either when you don't want to do it anymore of when he finishes/cums.

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