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i am trying to change the color of my font in my AIM profile to a color besides the colors they offer. i found a webpage that gives you the color codes, but it doesn't give you the code to insert it into. does anyone know how to change your profile/font text to a new color? thank you

http://www.bigblueball.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=344


download that it works great

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8x-9=8x and 1/4x + 12= -1/4x Those two you can't solve for x right?

no it would come out -9=0 but the other one would equal 12= -1/2x then you multiply by 2 on both sides to get 24= -x

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what would be an equation that has no solution?

2x + 3 = 2x + 7
-2x -2x

3=7

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I am not fat one bit. I am actually really skinny. My hair isn't the prettiest but it's ok. I look pretty hott. But there are shorter skinnier girls in my grade that just get in my way and take all the boys. I'm not a big flirt at all. But the girl in my grade that all the boys love is such a BIGG FLIRT! I think that shes not that pretty but shes a nice girl and shes my friend. I really want the boys to notice me and like me. What should I do???

Well if you haven't noticed, your friend gets the boys by flirting. But, since you say you aren't the flirt type then just talk to them and be nice. Try to flirt with them. You don't need boys to notice you and like you to be happy.

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i am really lonely right now. i have one best friend and like 2 people think im their best friends but i dont like that that much. i do have people who i consider friends though. ANYWAY, i really want a boyfriend right now. that may seem slutty but im really lonely. i really want a boyfriend. what can i do? thank you so much. ill rate for good answers, not smartass ones. that = 0. k thanx bye

Wanting a boyfriend doesn't make you slutty unless you just want one for one reason. Talk to guys. You can't just get a boyfriend just because you want one. Things happen for a reason.

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i'm a male, over 20, alone as hell.
i've never been able to get a girlfriend, i've tried and tried.
it seems like some crule cycle with me, meet a girl, ask her out a couple of times, start to like her and suspect she likes me too, try to be there for her and everything, try to move things up a notch, get the "you're such a good/nice/fabulous guy, i just wanna be friends" routine. Then i'll let go of how i feel as much as posible and try being "just friends", then she picks up the biggest jerk known to mankind and i get to sit across the table watching them make out (TORTURE, for those who care). then the arshole will proceed to cheat on her, she's crushed, i have to listen to all the bullshit and cheer her up, only to find her back with the butthead a week later, then a month later he'll cheat on her AGAIN...
by the third time this happens i simply fuck off, cause she's still won't go out with me and she keeps on going back to the total jerk and every month i have to be there for her.
WHAT THE FUCK, girls always tell me what a "NICE GUY" i am and the friendship crap, but why won't they go out with me.
I'm starting to accept that i'll die alone and bitter, and am starting to avoid woman totally.
I just don't know what to do, i'm really starting to lose it with woman.
I'm over 20 and i haven't even kissed a girl yet. WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!
should i just kill myself now instead of becoming a full blown alcoholic?
should i try to like guy's more, and simply go gay?
at least i get alot of attention from gay guys trying to chat me up at bars, though im not gay. but women.......FUCK
i need advice please.

One day you'll find the right girl for you. Don't be too soft with girls, then they think you are wimp, that's why they say "oh you are such a nice guy blah blah blah". I am sorry for your troubles. Good luck!

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where do you people download music for free and that doesnt cause viruses and is for zen micros..... thanks

Limewire is really good with downloading music all except for I had to pay 250 dollars to get my computer fixed because it gave it alot of viruses. Anything with .exe after it can give you a virus.

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ok well how much is your cell phone bill every month and what kind of cell do you got.ok i want to get a cell phone with very little bills. ok well i want aim and a phone but also i was wondering if theres sumthinkg like as small as a cell phone but it is like a lap top if there is can you give me a site of where its at. when i had my cell phone before i was getting charged even when i dont even really use the phone what would be best tp have a share plan. is there a phone that i just can buy it and theres no bills at all and if so can you tell me the site where i can find it. PLZ HELP I RATE 5

I have a cingular family plan and i have a Samsung X427M and I only pay 34 dollars a month. I have 1000 minutes, 1000 text messages, and AIM on my phone. It's a really good deal and the phone is super cute. For more information go to www.cingular.com

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ok so my friend says how much i flirt and all and i really dont, she just thinks flirting is talking to the guy she likes, but any way so she tells guys that i flirt with everything that has a penis and that really hurts my feelings when she says it to me but when she says it to me, but to guys and all thats really embassesing(sp) and hurtfull. and today i was talking to a guy and he was like flirting with me and i kinda like him so i flirted back a little, and she pulled me by the hair and got me away from him and was like "stop flirting i just saved you from embasesment" and i wanted to scream "no you didnt you embarassed me even more" but i just kinda walked away from her and didnt say anything...what should say to her that wont piss her off cause she gets pissed off pretty eailsy..o by the way were both 13...thanks for any advice in advance!!

Well first of all, what kind of friend is she if she gets mad over you talking to guys. She seems very jealous. It makes you look bad if she says in front of them you flirt with anything that has a penis. Tell her that it hurts your feelings and you would like her to stop.

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13/F
I'm not allowed to hang out with my Best friend 'Michelle' because we had a little fight and she left a baad message on my answering machine; not my cell my house and my mom heard it. This was like June of last year I mean all summer I snuck over her house and met her places and now we're partners for a Social Studies project and I can't tell my mom I'm going to her house. Without her I have no friends and she asked me to sleepover her house. I said no but if I keep avoiding that situation she might no be my friend anymore. What can I do I really want to chill with her and how can I explain that to my mom?
I will rate 5's.

Tell your mom that everyone makes mistakes and you forgave each other.

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i have a bf (well close friend) long story .. he is in the navy he is almost 21 i will be 16 in a couple weeks .. i want to know if this is okay that we are like in love with eachother when our ages are kinda far apart? also think about the future too when im like 24 he would be 29. he means everything to me. -Nikky-

I think it's perfectly fine. I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19.

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i have really unmanageable hair. it's wavey, poofy, and frizzy. i have to spend and hour straightening it at night and about 45 minutes in the morning.. just to put it up in a pony tail. it won't stay straight so i can't leave it down. is there anything i could do so it will stay straight for more than 10 minutes?

Get calming stuff for you hair. John Freida makes good products. Buy defrizzer and straightening stuff.

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this has been a question of mine for the longest time...
what is cyber?
how do you do it?
will rate!

Cyber sex is when you talk dirty with someone online and say things like *takes of your clothes*. You say the things that you would do and say if you were actually with the person having sex.

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First off i'm 14 f, and there is this guy in my IPC class(15m), and i think that i like him, and lately he has been talking to me and flirting with me ALOT. Like today for instance he was talking to his friends and i was talking to my friends, and he goes man i wish the beautiful little lady in the abercrombie shirt would turn around and join our conversation... and his friend snapped him with a rubberband and he was like owww... and looked at me and started talking to me about it like i was his best friend... He is really nice to me and stuff, and i want to know if theese are signs of him flirting with me or something?!?!
Please Help
xo

You and I both know that he likes you. It is so obvious and if you can't tell then you have a problem lol.

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My boyfriend is FAR too calm. I hate it. I mean i love it at times but sometimes a realationship needs some tension. Like and I wanna fight with him than kiss and mkae up. He never gets mad. Like last week this guy completly tried to get in my pants right in front of him and he just laughed it off. PISSED ME OFF!
Today one of my best friends whos like obsessed with me and he put his arm around me and was like kissing my cheek and my bf wasnt even like mad at all.

How should I make him madder like cuz this calmness with be the downful of our realtionship.

Okay, tell him that you don't like that he is way to laid back in your relationship. Fighting isn't always good, but you guys need to fight sometimes in order to keep a healthy relationship. Most of the time, fighting brings you closer together. It doesn't seem like he's that much into you if he doesn't even care when a guy is kissing you and he is right there.

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Here goes:
I'm 17 now but when I was in the 8th Grade (last year of Junior High) I was considered a "geek". I was bookworm. Overweight and quiet. There was this pretty popular boy in my class who used to make fun of me all the time. He really made my life hell. After about two months, he started acting different around me. Sometimes he'd be really mean and then sometimes he'd be super nice (like random acts of kindness) and the one day after school, him and his female friend were talking in an almost empty classroom while I was trying to finish up some math. She asked him a question with my name in it and my ears perked up and then she called me and she said "--- likes you" and I made a face at him because I thought he was an ass at the time. Anyway, I think I hurt him a bit. He told me he hated me a few weeks after that incident.
A few months passed and we entered high school and I started liking him (he was still pretty popular but I was still a geek) but I figured I only liked him because he used to like me and I thought I'd get over it.
That year he told my friend that I was a geek.
During high school I’ve grown to love him more. I'm not a geek and I've lost a lot of weight (although I'm still a few pounds up). People who used to know me consider me considerably ‘cooler’. I'm sort of what you would call semi-popular but I'm not sure if I still measure up.
I don't know if he likes me too. My friends aren’t sure either. They say that over the span of the past three years, he stares at me sometimes when I'm not looking and –I- catch him looking too (except I'm not sure if he was looking first or just kept looking at me because –I- look at him). He does stuff sometimes like get really fidgety if he's walking in front of me or put the volume up in his car if he's near me. Just basic stuff.
I'm wondering is there an indication that he likes me at all and this could work or is he still mad at me and just looks because he's trying to prove something to himself and/or me?

Well it sounds like you like him. Tell him when you made the face at him a few years ago, that you didn't mean it and you thought he was an asshole to you. Tell him that you like him now and see what he says.

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I'm 27 yrs, newly married. my problem is I'dont wan to get pregnant now. I'm totally not ready to be mother now coz i'm still pursuing my studies. I'm very scad to inform this to my husband coz i scad he will upset about that coz he loves children and he is a very loving person. I alrdy tempted to sex once but i'm scad i'm pregnant now, eventhough i take early precautions. please let me know how to avoid this pregnancy? and any symtoms?

Take birth control and use a condom. Well I guess you don't have to use a condom if you use birthcontrol if you are married and know that your husband doesn't have any STD's. Morning sickness is a sign of pregnancy. Get a few tests from a convenient store or something. Tell your husband that you aren't ready to have kids and explain your reasoning.

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In my science homework, a question states " How would you classify hydrogen? Give at least one reasoN." Im not really sure how to answer this question. Anybody know? I dont need an answer, just some help. Thanks! PS. Im in 8th grade.

Hydrogen is a gas. It is highly explosive and when you mix it with oxygen, well you know, you get water. You can't live without hydrogen, it's one of the most important elements.

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God. You really have no idea how many times I have been blamed for something I didn't do. Like 2 weeks ago someone (not me) cut the seatbelts on the bus and threw out the airfreshener. And there comes the vice principal looking for me and he told me that I did it. Which I obviously didn't. I have done things that made me get in trouble. I did that like 5 times. And yes I did bad stuff then. But that was in 6th grade. I'm now in 8th.
So, he was talking to me and telling me how I shouldn't of done that. And hes blaming me for everything. He doesn't care about my side of the story. I've tried talking to him but he wouldn't lissten. I told him he was a liar, because it's true. He didn't care.
How should I show him i've changed from being a bad @$$ to a good person?? I'm thinking about going to my councelor and telling her about it.

First of all, he isn't allowed to just accuse you without proof. Tell your parents what he's saying to you and that you really didn't do it. I would go to the counselor if I were you.

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my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago..due to..extreme differences we'll say. we hadn't really talked in person since..a few words at a party..a couple words at school. yesterday, he was holding the door open for my class who was going outside. i said thank you and he started talking to me. he told me that one of my favorite cds was on my teachers desk. i was like "really?" and he said "yeah, i'll show it to you later." that never happened..but that's besides the point..he was the one trying to talk to me. when we were outside i was in the front row on the bleachers and i turned around and he was looking it me. we made eye contact for a second and then he looked up to the sky. haha. then last night i go on myspace..and he commenting saying that we haven't hung out in a while and we should make some time to...we talked about still being friends after we broke up...but i wasnt sure that that was going to happen since we hadnt talked in a while. i convinced myself that i didnt care if i ws ever friends with him..but now i'm thinking..maybe it wouldnt be so bad. i like his friends so i would get to see them more out of the deal too. hahaha. but do you think there alterior motives underneath the friendship thing..like you don't think this means he misses me and would want to get back together, right?

It could go both ways. He could still like you, or he just wants to be friends with you. See how things go with him wanting to be friends. Give him another chance.

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