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LONELY !!!!
i am really lonely right now. i have one best friend and like 2 people think im their best friends but i dont like that that much. i do have people who i consider friends though. ANYWAY, i really want a boyfriend right now. that may seem slutty but im really lonely. i really want a boyfriend. what can i do? thank you so much. ill rate for good answers, not smartass ones. that = 0. k thanx bye
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Ok, if you want a Dr. Phil answer, I should tell you that you shouldn't need a bf to feel supported, and that basing a relationship on loneliness will probably not end well. But I know that may sound smartassed, and you would probably like some real advice. I think what you need is a change of scenery. Try to kind of get in with a new click. Maybe get together through your one best friend, and start hanging with a new crowd. You'll make lots of new friends, create some good memories, help you feel less alone and more comfortable with yourself. (Plus, once you're feeling a little more grounded, you just may notice a new guy with lots of boyfriend potential!)
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i know how you feel...youll get over it eventually...what i suggest you to do is go crazy for one week...what that meens is go up to random guys who you think is cute or is wearing a really good shirt or something and just compliment them...ask them what classes they have at skool...just start a short convo...then ask for their name and tell them yours...do this for one week to as many guys possible...you may feel like your like freaking them out but if a guy walked up to you and gave you a compliment even if their butt ugly (which i doubt you are) you would at least appreciate it and remember their face in the hall. by doing this for one week it gives you just friends and hopefully a future boyfriend! i hope i helped some...but if you are really shy or just not like that then you will be able to live on with the friends you have...just dont go all desperate...guys really arnt everything...believe me ive had much expierinnce...hope i helped...
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That's kind of how I feel right now...I read somewhere that you're not ready for a boyfriend until you don't feel like you need one. Lots of people I know can relate though. Everybody wants to feel loved, and you deserve a hot boyfriend who's really nice and cares about you. Start exploring your options. Look carefully at the boys around you, at your school, at your after-school activites, even at the mall. Pick a few guys that you want to get to know better, and start hanging out with them. Maybe drop a few hints, dress a little more attractively. Don't make any major changes or become a huge slut, because guys don't like that. Be who you really are, but show guys that you're interested. When they see how cool you are, and your great personality, they'll definitely be interested! You just need to push them in the right direction. ;)
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omg me too. but i dont like all the guys that like me. Get to know some new guys on your bus or something, some hott guys that go to your school. After a while if you think they will actually care about you, ask them out. hope i helped.
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Okay, first of all I have yet to meet any teenager who knows what the words slutty or slut mean. You have to be someone who sleeps around with just about everyone to be a slut and slutty is the acting like a slut around others. Wanting a boyfriend is not slutty at all.
Most girls your age want a boyfriend. Some might not want them for the right reason. A boyfriend cannot solve nor take away what makes you lonely. Lonliness is a feeling and to deal with it takes time and one person cannot erase it. Why are you feeling lonely? Being lonely is your problem not the lack of the boyfriend.
Ask yourself why am I lonely when all these people like me and want to know me? If you cannot find a suitable answer maybe you should see someone you might be depressed.
You really have to feel love not lust for a guy and hang out with him and develop a relationship before even getting a date. Relationships just happen and not all the time do we get one when looking. Let things unfold, stop being upset and LIVE A LITTLE. Just be you, have fun, be outgoing (not false) and things will just happen for you.
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♥ Hey!
K well that is not slutty one bit! If you really want a boyfriend then you can make it happen. Socialize & flirt! Go to the movies with a bunch of your friend & you might meet a guy there. Parties. You could have you friends set you up. Just be open minded & have fun. Also be confident & act yourself. Also now that your okay on your own! I am sure the perfect guy will turn up soon. ♥ good luck!
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I know exactly how you feel! I am going through the same exact thing! Don't stress about it too much! Try and get out there and talk to people, and maybe ask if they want to go out somewhere with you. Or you can go out by yourself. Personally, I have this decent amount of money in my bank account that I plan on using for mental health shopping. I know it's selfish and doesn't last long, but material items can make you feel good, y'know? For boys...try and flirt! Just keep going at it and eventually it should pay off. But don't date any random loser just because you want a boyfriend! Oh, no. That's what I did and boy do I regret it! But just try to relax and hang in there. I know I'll be cheering for you. I can't do those fancy jumps where you do a split in the air, though. I could when I was like eleven, but...ugh, y'know? I guess I could just wave a nifty flag and say "YEAH!" =)
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Wanting a boyfriend doesn't make you slutty unless you just want one for one reason. Talk to guys. You can't just get a boyfriend just because you want one. Things happen for a reason.
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Try to find a guy your interested in. Then become their friend by talking to him or hanging out. Your not slutty just lonely. If you really cant get a boyfriend just make new friends boy or girls. I hope i helped!
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