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ok so my friend says how much i flirt and all and i really dont, she just thinks flirting is talking to the guy she likes, but any way so she tells guys that i flirt with everything that has a penis and that really hurts my feelings when she says it to me but when she says it to me, but to guys and all thats really embassesing(sp) and hurtfull. and today i was talking to a guy and he was like flirting with me and i kinda like him so i flirted back a little, and she pulled me by the hair and got me away from him and was like "stop flirting i just saved you from embasesment" and i wanted to scream "no you didnt you embarassed me even more" but i just kinda walked away from her and didnt say anything...what should say to her that wont piss her off cause she gets pissed off pretty eailsy..o by the way were both 13...thanks for any advice in advance!!
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Your friend is trying to protect you from getting a reputation as a slut or a flirt or a ho, which is good. It means that she cares about you, and that you are so close. My friends think I'm a major slut, which is a little true but it's not as big a deal as they tell guys it is. Take your friend aside one day and say: "When you tell guys that I'm a flirt, it really hurts me and damages my rep. I know you're just trying to be a good friend, but please lay off." Try to stop flirting when you're around her, and hopefully she'll stop being so embarrassing.
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tell your friend that just because you talk to a guy you like doesnt mean your flirting with them and if she continues, tell her to fuck off. hope i helped!
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tell her you dont think you flirt a lot and if she thinks you do then thats just how you are. if you are a flirtaous gurl you cant help it. dont let her pull you away from guys. she might just be jealous that you talk to a lot of guys and then again u might be talkin to someone she likes. dont let her embarras u in front o f people.
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honestly, your friend is most probably showing signs of insecurity, so you gotta ask her WHY she's acting like that in the first place. if she totally gets mad at you, then why let her boss you around and not let you talk and flirt with guys? that's obviously not what friends would do. so, give her some sense!
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Well first of all, what kind of friend is she if she gets mad over you talking to guys. She seems very jealous. It makes you look bad if she says in front of them you flirt with anything that has a penis. Tell her that it hurts your feelings and you would like her to stop.
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Tell your friend not to say things like that,that she makes you look bad,that it really hurts your feelings,and that friends should be able to get along,and respect as well if not then what does she call that?If she won't listen,keeps the negative attitude then she isn't worth it as a friend to you or to no one.Embrassing you like that was just wrong!Or if you want to keep the friendship then just don't hang out with her in public especially in front of the guys!But if I were you I won't let someone treat me like that put her in her shoes she needs someone to teach her some manners!
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