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Dont know wat to do!
I'm 27 yrs, newly married. my problem is I'dont wan to get pregnant now. I'm totally not ready to be mother now coz i'm still pursuing my studies. I'm very scad to inform this to my husband coz i scad he will upset about that coz he loves children and he is a very loving person. I alrdy tempted to sex once but i'm scad i'm pregnant now, eventhough i take early precautions. please let me know how to avoid this pregnancy? and any symtoms?
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Take birth control and use a condom. Well I guess you don't have to use a condom if you use birthcontrol if you are married and know that your husband doesn't have any STD's. Morning sickness is a sign of pregnancy. Get a few tests from a convenient store or something. Tell your husband that you aren't ready to have kids and explain your reasoning.
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dont have sex when you no your period is coming
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You should speak to your husband and explain that you want to continue with your studies. It's not like you're saying you never want to have children so he's sure to understand if this is what you want. He's your husband- he wants to make you happy! If you are pregnant now obvious signs will be a missed period, nausea, sore breasts. However if you have taken precautions it is unlikely that you are pregnant. Good luck
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Firstly I must say to you if you are not ready to start a family this is OK, it is your decission. You need to sit down with your husband and discuss your concerns with him, he loves and cares about you and would want you to be happy. Explain that you would like to finish your studies before starting a family. You are not saying "NO" to children, just "Not right now". If you have worries that you are pregnant you need to go to your GP, he may be able to give you the "morning after pill" but this is usually given within 72 hours of intercourse. He may have more advice for you. As for pregnancy symptoms, each woman is different really you could experience:- swollen/tender breasts, nausea, a sudden dislike to usually liked foods, smells and obvioulsy the lack of a period etc. You must go to your GP really. Hope this helps and good luck.
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First, you need to be absolutely sure that you are not pregnant. Go to your doctor I recommend for actual results or go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test. You could also ask your doctor to prescribe birth control pills although they aren't 100% safe you know. I really think that you would be better off safe if you told your husband about what you're feeling. You know , it's not a good thing to start a new marriage off without expressing your feelings about something. Especially something that has a hot topic such as this. You really should talk to him and explain the reasons why he feels this way. Maybe he won't overreact the way that you think he will. Oh and honey you'll have to get over the initial fear of being afraid that your husband will be upset.When you're married, you and your husband are going to be upset with each other plenty of times b/c you're going to argue. That is marriage as you know and this is a issue worth arguing over. So it's really up to you to decide what you're going to do, but I think that you should tell him. Have a nice day.
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What kind of precautions are you taking? If you are on the pill you are probably pretty safe from pregnancy.
The symptoms of pregnancy can be found here(it says teens but symptoms are same for every woman)
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Here is a link about birth control in case the info is needed.
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