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Blamed for stuff I didn't do
God. You really have no idea how many times I have been blamed for something I didn't do. Like 2 weeks ago someone (not me) cut the seatbelts on the bus and threw out the airfreshener. And there comes the vice principal looking for me and he told me that I did it. Which I obviously didn't. I have done things that made me get in trouble. I did that like 5 times. And yes I did bad stuff then. But that was in 6th grade. I'm now in 8th.
So, he was talking to me and telling me how I shouldn't of done that. And hes blaming me for everything. He doesn't care about my side of the story. I've tried talking to him but he wouldn't lissten. I told him he was a liar, because it's true. He didn't care.
How should I show him i've changed from being a bad @$$ to a good person?? I'm thinking about going to my councelor and telling her about it.
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i think you should go to your councelor because that is wronge that you get blamed for that when you did not do it.
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First of all, he isn't allowed to just accuse you without proof. Tell your parents what he's saying to you and that you really didn't do it. I would go to the counselor if I were you.
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You definately need to talk to your counciler. You didn't do it, you said that. It's bull that he just automatically comes to you. What proof does he have?
As for telling your parents, tell them the truth, they will stick by you on that and help defend you from what your vice-principle is spreading around. Stick to your story, because the truth will ALWAYS outweigh and outcome the lies, no matter what they are, remember that.
I hope this helps and everything gets sorted out.
-Ryan
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Absolutely tell this councelor person if that'll mean an adult on your side. If your principal isn't listening to you when you talk to him, I think a letter is in order. A very calm, mature letter, apologising for your behaviour in the past but explaining that you want to and have turned it around and asking him v.politely not to jump to conclusions about you without any proof. Photocopy the letter and keepa copy just to prove what you said and how if it comes to it.
Tell your parents exactly what is going on and that you are being blamed for something you didn't do. Hopefully they have seent he change in you and so should believe you. Having them know makes things a lot less complicated and makes you look far less guilty.
Good luck
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Well, first I think that you're doing the right thing when you say that you're going to your school counselor, and I know that you may disagree with me but I do think that you need to tell your parents before he tells them. If you don't tell your parents, your parents will find out and they'll more likely listen to him because you didn't confront them first about his false accusations. Just tell them the truth and that you really didn't do it. He probably believes that you did it because of your past actions and some people have a really hard time believing in the best of people when they have changed. You really must understand that people just have a hard time adjusting to change and yes it's stupid. Also, what you must understand and it's also what you know too, is that the councelors have absolutely no authority over the principal at your schoo. You could explain your case then you could ask her to try and persuade the principle of your innocence with her opinion of what you said to her. Keep trying no matter how many times he doesn't listen. Keep trying.
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god your vice principle is an ass!! Well,if you HAVE to tell your parents,say you didnt do it and you would never do something thing like that,and they know it.Maybe do some communtiy service and stuff..i think you should talk to your councelor about it..and your vice principle doesnt have anything on you that you DID do it..does he? Do you remember where you were on that day? If you were out with someone,or home with family?you should tell him "i couldnt have even done it becuase i was with ___" if you were! but if you were home alone,or alone in any place,tell him you were finishing homework and watching t.v,and you werent allowed out of the house. He shouldnt blame it on you if he doesnt have any evidence or your side.I'd say definatly tell your councelor your side.
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Ummm it seems like the vice is holding grudges of what happened in 6th grade! x_X.
You could try talking to him again and again, like coming everyday till he gives in... He's just not giving you any chances.
Good luck and maybe you should get some advice from your councelor!
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definitely tell you counselor. she can help you get your side of the story out there.
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