i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...
i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..
i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me?
there is ntohing wrong with you. It just seems that your self esteem is low toward these situations. But everyone does these things everyday so you should just get up and be confident about doing whatever it is that you need to do and act like it doesnt bother you that you need to do it.
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Hey yawl i have a question,ok here it goes.im in the popular group (not to be conceited)but my friends are too and well they kindof get on my nerves sometimes.they brag alot,and they think they are all that and that they are the best things in the world.and they r really bossy.oh yeah we are all girls.and they are always always annoying me.should i tell them how i feel?or let them keep on? thanx Haley
I would tell them how it is. Tell them how you feel. Though they might get p*ss*d off and act even more like conceited b*tch*s but atleast they will know how they act. And if they are not willing to accpet it from a person they consider a friend, then they are really not worth your time! Good Luck! Hope you didnt get offended by this.
o-yea... just plug in the vowels on the *s. lol
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can a girl get them selves pregnate...cuz i heard some girl at our school did...she kept the condoms of her. bfs and ya..i dunno but i was wondering if it could happen...now shes got a kid...ha..ah weird..but ya could u help me out.
I have never heard of that happening before. i would say it is very unlikely but i guess if he ejaculated in the condoms and she kept it and she out it all up inside of her then i guess it could be possible. But i dunno. That is just my opinion on it. Sorry i couldnt help ya out anymore but i hope this helped out some.
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My question is I have know this guy for almost fifteen years. We have known each other since the third grade and the whole time I have known him I like more then just a friend. We used to be good friends but in eighth grade he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him and when he asked me I didn't say anything. But after that day we weren't good of friends like we were before because I didn't know how to act around him. But in high school I noticed that he still likes me because I use to catch him looking at me and smiling and sometimes we would smile when ever we looked at each other because we always had a class together through high school. When we graduated he wrote something really nice but the thing is I don't know if he is the type of guy to write the same thing in every girls yearbook or if he just did it in mine. But to this day I don't know if he wants to be more then friends or not. But I found out that he hoined the army and I am thinking of writing him a letter but I am not sure because we haven't keep in touch in almost four years so what should I do.
I think that you should write to him. Maybe you dont want to tell him everything you feel about him on the first letter but just let him know that you were thinkin about him. If he writes you back then write him again. And then when you are ready tell him how you really feel about him. And when time comes that he is going to be able to come home... make an arrangement so that you can get together and go out somewhere. Good Luck sweetie!
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Okay, im thirteen and i have a boyfriend who is the greatest thing in my life right now, hes so suportive towards me..and i really would like to spend the rest of my life with him and i know alot of people are gunna tell me that im 13 and alot of things are gunna go on in my life that might change and i dont even know what love is, but trust me i do i know exactly what it is thanks too him, but anyways...we both wanna go further..cause we both have the same feelings for eachother, and i wanna go further but i dont know how far..i mean we have made out alot...and like fingered..whats next? help me and ill rate you
The next thing would be oral sex. I dont wanna see you get hurt or anything, but if your gonna have sex with him just make sure you are really ready for it. And use protection. Always play it safe. So good luck and have fun!
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Me and my bf have been together since april but were close friends since june'03. My mum met him Sept'03. Everything was good. She liked him a lot. They would get on really well. Then in April I told her me and him were going out. Her attitude turned completely. She wont talk to him when he comes round. She says hes wrong for me and she says she can see straight thru him and tell that he has a bad character. They have argued. He wont come round anymore so Im usually not at home coz Im with him. She keeps saying 'I bet you're having sex.' Just like that, really spitefully. She keeps making comments. She says if I dont break it up she will. She says stuff about the country he is from even tho my dad is from that country. My dad gets on with him even tho my mum says it hurts him to see me with 'that boy'. My little brother doesnt like him coz my mum says that he makes me cry.
Anyway both my boyfriend and my mum say bad stuff about eachother. My boyfriend says he hates her and makes fun of her. All the stuff they are saying to me is hurting me inside because they are both ppl I care deeply for and are important to me. Its making me really unhappy. I havent really showed it to them. I have only metioned it to them once each. They both said stop feeling sorry for yourself. My mum says if youre so unhappy with him then break up with him. When I told my bf he said sort it out with her. I dont know what to do. Im really unhappy.
18/f/UK
well get them together one day and tell them that you are sick and tired of hearing them talk about each other to you. tell them to stop. let them know how it makes you feel. That is hurts inside because you care about the both of them alot. It sounds like both your mother and your boyfriend are being inscure and really disrespectful to you. And if the both of them care about you they should take what you tell them to heart. Tell them to atleast try and make an effort to get along. I hope this helps and Good Luck!
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me and my boyfriend have been togeather for like 4months almost. and we have sex like EVERYDAY and i love it and all but i mean he thinks thats all i want..and sometimes i think it is to but i do love him a whole lot...but the thing is hes gota KID yes a KID. and my bf is only 17(IM 16) the girl it was wtih lives in a diff. town adn shes a hoe. but neways...im just scared..i dont wanan get pregante and the fact that he can get girls pregnate scares me...and u know hwat if the condom breaks or somthing cuz im not on BIRTH contorl yet..i will soon hopefully..but ya...i dunno..im just scared..what should i do!?!?! i love him tho!.
For one, just because he can get a girl pregnant doesnt mean you will. It can happen, dont get me wrong. Most guys can get a girl pregnant, not just your boyfriend. If you are that scared them maybe youu should just stop haveing sex until you get on birth control. Talk to him and let him know that it is bothering you since he thinks that is all you want to do all the time. And still use a condom. Good Luck! Have fun!
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What are the requirements for being a Level 1 Moderator. I can't find them. I was one, once. But then my computer didn't work for a like 2 weeks so I wasn't one anymore. So..can you give me a link to the page? Thanks ;)
you have to be rated 5 times. your average rating is atleast a 4. You have been a member for atleast one month. And you have updated your column in the last week.
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okayy i usually wearr likee a shirrtt with my boobs hanging out and my stomach showing.. or a shorrt skirt with a shirt that pretty much coverrs my stomach with my boobs poping out .. is that wrong should i lett guyss havee to wonderr and like wunt to find out whats under it all .. or is it better to keep dressing like ido
its ok to dress like that occasionally but you really shouldnt do it all the time. People might get the wrong impression of you and you dont want that to happen.
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i cant find any eyeliner that will stay on after 3rd period!! can anyone tell me any brands or how to make what ive got stay on?
try some liquid eyeliners. They work really good. Revlon make a good one. Umm... Avon is really good to and not that expensive. I use either one of them and i have no problems with it.
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For four years I have lived in my house thats like seculded. No neighbors, and Its really private. Well now were moving into this well rich community. Its kindof stepford wive-ish. Where all the people that live there get together and have fashion shows, partys etc. It sounds pretty fun but kinda stupid too. I mean there is a Hoedown coming up in October, and since were new my older siter wants to go. I know it would be a good place to meet people, but a hoedown? Like I think old people are gonna go haha. I'm just wondering, should I go? Also since this is a rich community, I think that the people living there are kinda snotty stuck up rich people. And my family is soo not like that. So what I'm asking is, should I get involved in the stuff? I dont know..My family doesn't like to get involved much..Thanks
i think you should go and check it out. it wouldnt hurt anything if you like it stay and have funa dn if you dont then leave. But go, you might enjoy yourself. Good Luck and Have fun!
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I have really bad split ends but my mom doesnt have time to take me to get my hair cut and she wont have time till like October or November. I scrunch my hair now so you cant tell I have splint ends...is there anything I can do to make it less visible until I cut it? Thanks!!
P.S. I'll rate ya!
use shamppo and conditioner that helps with split ends, or pull it up in a pony tail and curl it. Everyone has split ends, but no one really notices them on other poeple unless they are concentrating really hrad or examining your hair. It is not something that most people look for.
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Hello .. Its just some simple questions .. they say Its easier to give out great advice than to actually follow it urself.... now I like my ex i was the one who broke things off (2 times).. i do know for sure he still has feelings for me but what i don't know is whether he would like to "go back" and try to see if it works (again).. i'm not going to tell u guys my whole story but when i say its complicated TRUST ME... so here are my questions.. pls be COMPLETELY HONEST.. answer them as if u were the one following the advice..ask urself "would I do it? REALLY?" ..
1.
Would tell ur ex u still have feeling for him? (even though he is still mad at u cus u broke things off (2 times) )
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would u give up and try to forget about him? REALLY?
3.would you tell him u still have feelings for him even though u r not sure if u want to go back until u fix some "issues" u have?
this is really imp for me cus i feel like i´m running away from something real..so pls if u canjust advice me with this ..or if u can leave a little note i´ll write into ur personal column.. thanks so much .
I am going to answer this in my perspective veiw and use "I" but it is "you"
1. Yes
2. If I still liked him alot. And it would also depend on why we had broken up in the first place.
3. Yes.
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Alright, this is gunna be long...
ive been with this boy for a year, and im in 7th grade..everythings great i love him...im pretty sure, then theres another guy in 8th grade who really likes me and hes so sweet and im starting to like him too..i dont want this to happen because i REALLY love my boyfriend, and id do anything too stay with him and im scared to let go of him cause i cant live without him...what do i do
well for one your still young. you need to explore your options. if you are really really likeing the guy in 8th grade and you know you can have a chance with him then explaint o your boyfriend that you care alot about him but you just need to get with someone else to know if your feeling about him are really true and are really all that strong about him. i hope this helps you. and good luck with everything
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Okay, im 13 years old and me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for past a year now, and hes the best things thats ever happend too me...i am in love with him, i know it...and we have only gone as far as making out, and i wanna go further..so does he..but i dont wanna go to far.i mean im 13..what should we do together? ill rate you, if you help
here are the four bases, it may help you in what you want to do.
1st is to kiss/makeout
2nd is touching... you giving him a handjob or you getting fingered
3rd is oral sex... you giving him head(a bj) or him eating you out
4th is sex. to go all the way.
These are the options you have. It is up to you. If you dont want to go all the way, like you said, but you want to do more then just making out... you can choose from either 2nd or 3rd base. Hope this helps. Good Luck and Have Fun!
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Look i really appreciate this advice so thanks..i know how annoying this can be so.. hehe .. now here it is .. we have been going on and off since jan..its was really complicated.. on august we were datin again offically (i mean i had dinner with his family) ..but it was great at 1st but after a while we werent on the same page.. my parents were going through a divorce, we were going to move out of the country, etc (lots of more imp things) and he was going through some other things himself so just before i went for vacation (out of the country) i broke things off.. now i have 2 months back home and i love him .. i think ...god ... i think he is still mad at me cus i broke up with him AGAIN.. but i really do care a lot about him .. whta should i do? what would u do ?? thanks u have no idea how much this mean to me...
just try talking to him. explain to him how you feel. tell him what you were going through and why you did it. tell him how you felt then about it nd how you fell now about it and about him. Tell him basically the same thing you told us. Good Luck sweetie.
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i have a really bad cold and i really need to get over it. Can you guys give me some helpful tips on getting rid of colds?
drink alot of fluids, rest and take some medicine like tylenol cold and sinus or something like that.
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Sorry if this question has been asked before!!
You see, i wash my hair everyday, and it always smells soo good like my shampoo! I let it airdry, + it naturally goes curly.
The thing is, i straighten my hair; a lot, with the CHI [ceramic hairstyling iron.. it's my saviour!! :D hehe] my hair isn't dead, but it always smells kind of.. well, burnt i guess. So my question is, how can i get it to not smell like that? lol. It's kind of embarassing because people are always playing with my hair, and if i can smell it, i'm pretty sure they can too. Is there any kind of product you can put in afterwards to give it a nice smelling scent? Some sprays i've tried have only made it frizzy :S
thank you in advance guys!!
All the straight iron will do is fry your hair. In time your hair will be dead. If you want it straight, go to a salon and tell them you want to get a relaxer. It will straighten your hair. Your if you dont want to do that try using Biolage, its a setting spray. It smells good and it will keep your hair straight for a longer period of time. You can get it at a beauty supply store.
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Ok..My family isn't the best in the entire world.. but their there for me.. Well the one person that has been there for me for like ever is my cousin.. lets call him george.. He's getting sent away.. and I don't know what to do! I'm loosing a family memeber.. but it feels like I'm loosing my best friend.. What do I do?
just get his number or his address. it wont be the same, yeah i know, but you will still be able to talk to him and have him. I know how you feel about losing someone that close to you. But it will all work out for the best in the end. Good Luck hun.
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ok...im 17/m senior and ive never been n a relationship...ive been on dates with 2 ppl in my life and the last one i went out w/ 3 times...but thats done...i been told a lot recently how good ilook and how hott i am, but this is way new for me....i dont think ive ever even gotten a look from a gurl till now...im a popular guy, not the most, but every1 knows me...im a funny guy...but wats wrong w/ me...i mean i just got my first kiss! wtf...help plz. ha
There is nothing wrong with you. Everybody is different. Like you said people are telling you how good you are looking and how funny and nice you are... maybe girls think that becuase your popular and hot and funny that you are too good for them. Or that they dont deserve someone like you or vise versa. Maybe they are afraid of you rejecting them. But you have got nothing to worry about hun, you will get a girlfriend in time.
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