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Okay, im 13 years old and me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for past a year now, and hes the best things thats ever happend too me...i am in love with him, i know it...and we have only gone as far as making out, and i wanna go further..so does he..but i dont wanna go to far.i mean im 13..what should we do together? ill rate you, if you help
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You are only 13. Instead of going further I think you should slow down. It's easy to go a few steps foward, but before you know it, you will have crossed your line.
Don't worry so much about the physical part of your relationship, those feelings come and go. It's the mental part of the relationship that really matters. Go on a date and enjoy eachothers company, rather than your bodies.
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your a bit to young to be doing much more than making out, me being 17, i think i am too young to be doing that kinda stuff. but, you juss have to set rules and boundaries, and you have to tell him when too much is too much. i personally think that you shoudl not go past maybe oral sex, buti think that is pushing it, well, speaking as a 17 yr old virgin, just make sureyou love him, i have had friends who have gone too far with a guy too soon and tehn regreted it. the desicion in the end is yours, but i hope my input helped you some.
Juelz
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You're only 13. Think about that. You should not need to go any further than kissing. You call yourself in love, but you have so much to learn about love yet. You are in the most turbulent years of your life, and you will constantly find out the things you thought you knew for sure were all wrong. Don't make a stupid mistake because you have convinced yourself of something, only to realize after the fact that you were wrong.
EDIT: I'll be blunt - mysticpixiewhatever's advice is total shit.
All you did was to list the PHYSICAL and SEXUAL aspects of a bad relationship.
There is a hell of a lot more to it than that. To do any of those further things, it requires a connection, both mental, emotional, and spiritual. It encompasses a level of trust and understanding. And in all honesty, most never achieve those things and sit stunned when their fleeting relationships fall apart and they feel like they've been taken advanatage of or done something they've regretted.
People need to think with their heads, not with what's in their pants.
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here are the four bases, it may help you in what you want to do.
1st is to kiss/makeout
2nd is touching... you giving him a handjob or you getting fingered
3rd is oral sex... you giving him head(a bj) or him eating you out
4th is sex. to go all the way.
These are the options you have. It is up to you. If you dont want to go all the way, like you said, but you want to do more then just making out... you can choose from either 2nd or 3rd base. Hope this helps. Good Luck and Have Fun!
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