my friend is still inlove with her ex who now has a new girlfriend and we all in job corp so we see eachother all day. She follows them around tries like hell to get them in-trouble and everything. How do i get her to stop. I have talk to her so many times and it NEVER works. But i need her because she is my friend and i'm pergnant now and i just need her with me, but i think she's going nuts. i'm always there for her it's just she's never there for me anymore.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? rosebud_01 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 12:52 am: You should talk to her again and tell her that you really need her right now because you need her to be there for you like you have always been there for her. As for her obsession with her ex boyfriend you should also tell her that if she continues to do what she is doing her ex might find out then he will no longer be her friend and she probably doens't want that to happen. I hope that I help you. If things don't work out you can tell me what happened in my inbox and I will try to help you again. [ rosebud_01's advice column | Ask rosebud_01 A Question ]
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Sunday September 26 2004, 5:31 pm: Slap her and tell her that u really need her help! You cant chase around a guy who doesnt have feeling for her. So, make a deal with her telling her that as she helps you out cos your pregnant, you'll help her try to get over him. So you'll both help her. And i hope that your pregnancy goes well!!
TwistedThoughts answered Friday September 24 2004, 4:46 pm: Ok..well just go up and be like we need to talk! And just tell her that you need her right now. And that she needs to try and help you out a lil and quit being so head over heels for this guy that has a girlfreind. And if she doesnt listen then she isnt as great a friend as you thought. [ TwistedThoughts's advice column | Ask TwistedThoughts A Question ]
lorelei answered Friday September 24 2004, 12:21 pm: You should try telling her how you feel. That her ex has moved on and it's time for her to do the same.
She'll get over him in time, so in that sense, of course, you need to be there for her as well. But with friends, sometimes you need to be really verbal. Tell her straight out that you feel neglected.
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