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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

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have you ever been so completely fooled by a guy? so entirely PLAYED? the feelings of disappointment and anger are fired up inside me. i dont know weather i should cry or punch my pillow and scream. i feel so stupid. how could i have fallen for his bullshit?

encouraging words might be helpful?

This JUST happened to me. And I also didn't know what to do with myself. I wanted to punch him in the face. And i WOULD have if I didn't tell myslef that I'm better than him. He played you because he's an immature asshole who is so insecure that he has to hurt other people to help himself feel better. He doesn't deserve you, and he dosn't deserve the great person you are.
Write down how you feel. Listen to music. Find someone else to like and talk to. scream into your pillow or just scream outloud. Curse him out to your friends. Do ANYTHING to make yourself feel better because you shouldn't dwell on that bag of douche. One day he is going to end up with NOBODY and when that happens, maybe one day he'll relaize his douche-ness and change his ways. And maybe you'll be the one to teach him. Show him that he didn't hurt you. He wants you to be hurt. He wants your attention, but don't please him. yuh know?
and you didn't purposely fall for his bullshit, he TRICKED you into believeing his "beautiful" lies. [if that makes sense] this isn't your fault and you are SO much better off without him anyways. Trust me. You don't need him in your life, nobody needs him in any of their lives, and all you can do is laugh because players get PLAYED.
hope I helped and if you need to talk, or rant about this guy, you can inbox me, because I can totally relate right now girl. xxo good luck !
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WTF! why is my face so fat? When the rest of me is
fairly skinny??

Grrrr.... How can I fix this?

Peace;
xx

It's just the way you were born. Different face shapes cause different ways for you to look at yourself.
My friend is pretty skinny, and she has "chubby cheeks" [well that's what she says haha] and it's only because she has a really round face.
I'm completly positive that your face doesn't look bad and I'm sure that it's not fat. You could just have a flatter and wider face so it looks a bit "fatter" when really, it's completly normal. But if it is REALLY bothering you, you can create illusions with makeup to make your face look skinnier..
- you can use bronzer to highlight your cheeks and cheekbones and forehead, and some of your chin.
http://make-up.lifetips.com/faq/58542/0/how-can-i-make-my-face-appear-thinner/index.html
Or you can make your face LOOK skinnier by getting a certain haircut. Go to the salon and ask them what would be best to accoplish the look you are going for [which would be to make your face look thinner]
hope I helped :] good luck ! and you look great anyways, just the way you aree. trust me :] ! xxo

well there is this guy who is a year younger than me who is friends with my friends brother and i met him at her house back in december. weve been talking here and there on facebook and i saw him again at their house in january. after i saw him there we would talk and he told me how he really wants me badly and how he wanted to do all of these sexual things with me [i think he was just going to use me] also something else that is weird is that he likes this girl who lives an hour away who he only sees once a year and im pretty sure they are going out. but anyways i didnt think he cared if he had a gf so far away and talked to me like that too. one night we were talking and he pressured me into sending a picture, he said hed be mad if i didnt.. but it wasnt a bad one i had clothes on..but after i sent them i looked at his fb wall and that girl had wrote, I LOVE YOU TOO!!!! so i think they are going out. and it bugged me because he was talking to me like that WHILE he was saying "i love you" to that other girl? i dont understand. but anyways, about two weeks ago I IMed him because he hadnt IMed me since i sent those pics and i was confused. and basically our whole conversation was him begging me to give him a bj. i kept on saying no i dont think so sorry but he kept asking and making me feel bad..at the end of the conversation he just said i want a deep throat from u sexy ;] and then he said for me to text him. so i did. but his phone was off and he didnt get it until two days later but then never responded..

so JUST NOW i decided to IM him..only because we havent talked in two weeks and i dont understand why..i thought maybe its because he hadnt seen i was online at the same time or something. so i IM him and all i get from him is, hi
then i go, whatsup
and he never answered. what the hell did i do. i mean i know that he has friends that go to my school and i feel like MAYBE his friends said something about me to him or something? i dont think so..i think im just paranoid. but i mean he didnt treat me nice at all or anything but i just dont see why he doesnt want me anymore, why so sudden. what did i do to make him not wanna talk to me anymore, i mean, two weeks ago he was like drooling over me and now its like he wants nothing to do with me. im so confused and i feel so bad about myself and ugly. please tell me what it was that i did.

well, the last time we actually talked was

Wow. Obviously, since his girlfriend isn't here, he's going to try to get you to do the things he wants so he can get pleasure. Like, that's so immature and not cool, considering that he is also a year younger than you too. He sounds like a little perv., to be quite honest. Why get yourself involved in that ? Unless he changes his ways, don't try to pursue anything with him. I mean, he pressured you into taking a picture ... although, I think you wanted to send him a picture so he'd keep talking to you because lets be real here, you didn't have to do anything you didn't want to. But seriously, you didn't do anything. This guy is obviously a bag of douche.
And your confused because he is toying with your emotions and how you feel towards him. And if he's so desperate for you to give him a bj, then he's probably asking other girls the same thing he is asking you. [I know that sucks, and I know it hurts, but that's the cold hard truth, hun]
And he's not talking to you anymore because you didn't give him what he wanted, so he's moving on to some girl who will. It's good that you stuck to your morals and didn't give in.
But if you REALLY want to know what's going on, then you COULD ask him bluntly about it. Just be like, "hey, I don't really know why you're ignoring me, but did I do something wrong?" and if he makes you feel guilty about the bj thing, make him feel guilty about his gf who lives an hour away thing.
Don't worry, you'll get through this :] if you have any other questions, or just want to talk, feel free to inbox me ! xxo good luck, hope I helped.

my parents dont listen to what i have to say. If it is important they say " Whatever it is, the answer is no" or " I DONT CARE WHAT IT IS!" i hate it! how do i talk to my parents without them interrupting me all the timeor end up arguing?

There are a couple things you can try..
1. Try sitting them both down and calmly explain to them how you feel. Tell them that you would really appreciate it if they just listen to you and not interrupt you until your done and then they can say whatever they want.
2. Write them a letter about how you feel and that you are getting older and that you just want them to listen to you. Give the letter to them face to face, or leave it in their bedroom, somewhere they are bound to find it.
If this doesn't work, than you're going to have to keep trying. They are going to listen you sooner or later, ou just have to be persietent.
Hope I helped ! good luck ! xxo :] if you need anything else, don't hesitate to inbox me :]

theres this guy who likes me a lot...i kno he does bcos he tells me like evry day but im not sure if i like him in a boyfriend kinda way?? anyone else felt like this before? and idk what to do bcos i dont wanna hurt him.

I know how you feel, and it sucks to be in this position because you don't want to hurt him and make things awkward, but at the same time you know that you don't like him and you WANT to like him, for his sake, but really, you don't.
Been there, done that.
Okay, what you need to do is analyze the situation. When you think of him, do you have a smile on your face? When you're around him, do you get nervous and have butterflies in your stomach? Is he always on your mind? Do you always want to be with him? Can you picture yourself as his girlfriend, like telling people that you are both in a relationship with eachother?
Maybe you should give it some time, and try to think about what you really want. Be honest with yourself and you can be honest with him. If you don't like him, then you need to tell him that you like him only in a friends way, but that he will find a great girl who will love him just in a different way than how you like him. If you enter a relaionship with him; one that you don't want to be in, than you are just hurting him more by making yourself miserable and lying to him. You can save him a lot of hurt by just being truthful with him, guys are easily discouraged and easily encouraged. If you are sending him mixed signals or kind of implying that you like him, he's going to be hooked on you. Don't let that happen if you truthfully don't feel the same way.
Put yourself in his shoes, if you kept telling a guy that you like him, and he went along with it but really didn't know if he liked you or that he didn't like you at all and went into a relationship with you knowing this, and then you both broke up. wouldn't that be much worse than the guy telling you [before being in a relationship with you] that he just didn't feel the same and thinks of you as a great friend?
Think about it :]
Hope I helped, and don't hesitate to ask me any other questions you may have :] xxo good luck girl !

Hi, this question relates to a friend of mine not me. If have this friend who is infatuated with this girl. The girl doesn't want a relationship with him but likes the attention. I also found out that she gets jealous when he doesn't call and mad when he flirts with other girls. What should I do as his best friend, and how should he respond to this girl.

I agree with Hitoast, but if he asks you for your input on the situation, tell him how you feel. Be honest and genuine with your best friend, and if this is really starting to hurt or make you feel like you are lying/hiding something from your friend, then tell him what's going on with the girl. I mean, being a good friend sometimes means that you need to let them make their own mistakes, but it wouldn't hurt to tip him off about her, and if she drags you into it, you're already in it and i'm sure that your friend will trust you more than he would trust the girl.
He should do what he wants. If he likes her, let him like her. But if he knows that she is just an attention starved girl, then he shouldn't give in to her. He needs to not let her win and know that she can't always have what she wants. If he does this, she'll try even harder for his attention, and he's going to have to be strong, because girls liek this are HARD to deny and hard to get rid of.
[us girls are complicated, but some of us can be VERY persuasive and knieving.]
He could also tell her that if she doesn't want a relationship with him, than he's not going to wait around for her. :] just support him and be there for him if he needs you to be :]
hope I helped ! good luck ! xxo

Okay, so a lot of my friends like this guy that I live by and I have a little crush on him too. Last week, one of my friends was texting him and he asked her what my number was. We started texting and it really seemed like he liked me. But then one day, we texted for two hours straight and he started giving short answers and replying slow. I asked him if he liked me and he told me kinda and I said I kinda liked him too. Things have been awkward since then and I really don't want to like him, but I can't help it.

So I guess my question is, does he still like me and if not, how do I get over him?

Alright, so guys are VERY complicated people at times. And when he says "kinda" it could mean a variety of different things ...
It could mean ...
1. You accidentally put him on the spot and he didn't want to say no, so as to not hurt your feelings.
2. He never thought about it before, but wanted to keep thinking about it, so without saying no or yes, he sad kinda.
3. He may not want to be tied down right now, but doesn't want you to stop liking him, so he said kinda.
4. He may still want to get to know you more, because right now, just texting eachother isn't doing it for him. He probably wants to hang out with you so he can get to know you on a more personal level, so his response was kinda.
It's really hard to tell what guys are thinking over text, but I'm betting that if he ASKED your friend for your number, he's defiently intrested but still confused. If things are awkward, it's because he doesn't know how to deal with the situation, and you just need to talk to him about it. You could do this over text, but it'd be better in person. Meet up somehwere and casually bring it up. That's the only way you'll sort this out :]
Hope I helped ! good luck ! xxo

So I've asked you questions before...obviously :P but anyways, I saw him at church and we didn't talk at all. But now his friends keep talking to me and asking, "are you okay? why are you upset? ect." I'm telling them nothing is wrong and keep asking why. But now they are telling me that my friend is gonna go out with him. He likes her now. Then his friend asked me, "Are you upset about that?" I said no. Then he asked, "so you'd still be friends with her even if she went out with him?" I said yeah. But I didn't know if she was or not. She wasn't there, so when she did get there I asked her about it and she said, "he did ask me out but I said no" I asked what else happened and she said, "I wouldn't go out with someone my friend has gone out with and that's just gross" Before I went out with him she liked him but he didn't like her. He liked me so like later she was over him I went out with him. My other friend kept encouraging me to. Now that friend that encouraged me is now telling her she should go out with him telling her that I'm ok with it even though I didn't say anything to her and she never asked. I mean I am, it would be awkward but I still don't care. So now my friend is kinda going behind my back telling different things to him and her. I told my friend that I'm ok with and that she could if she wanted to. She said she told him that he already missed his chance and blew it big time. She said she would consider it and wanted to know what I had to say. But now he is saying, "Its not like we were really going out, we were just friends" I tried talking to my other friend about whats going on and why she is bringing me into this when I shouldn't be. I don't want to be in this right now. I mean this doesn't really have anything to do with me anymore and yet they are still bringing me into this. I like someone else now and apparently to them I still have a boyfriend and I'm just not gonna deal with that cause I wasn't the one who even started that, my friend did. Now I don't know what I should do. Sorry for how long this was and thanks so much!

Hi :] okay, to start off, this drama should not be involving you. Just because he is your ex, does not mean that you have to be involved with his problems and what he does with whoever he does it with, even if it is your friend. The reason that his friends are asking you if you're upset is because your ex wants to know, and doesn't want to ask you himself. He's obviously trying to get a reaction out of you, but don't waste your time, your eyes are set on a better guy anyways :]
When you questioned your friend who is rumored to be thinking about going out with your ex, she was obviously lying to you for fear that you'd be mad at her if she said she liked him. I mean, he was your ex, that's always a touchy subject for some people, yuh know? So you should confront her yourself and tell her to do what she wants, because it doesn't matter to you, because you honestly like someone else who is NOT your ex. and that she can have him, at her own risk ;].
For the friend that's going behind your back and twisting your words, don't let that go. You need to also confront her, face to face. set the record staright, with all of them around. You can't let other people do this for you, if you want people to know how you feel, then the only way to do that is to tell them yourself. They need to hear it from you, not your friend who is just creating more problems.
Seriously, the only way to resolve this is to sit them ALL down together. your ex, your friend who likes your ex, and your "encouraging friend" and tell them all that you are completly okay with what's happening, and that you don't mind at all. Tell them that and everything will be okay. You can do this in person, via phone, or e-mail. whatever you do, just be nice about it and it'll be smooth sailing from there. :]
Hope I helped ! if you need anything else, you can always send me an inbox :] xxo good luck

Ok so i was born with a raised mole on my inner thigh. Its really only visible when I'm wearing a bathing suit. Its not like hairy or anything lol, i was wondering if someone saw it when I was in a bathing suit would they be grossed out???

-i want to get it removed but probably won't for a least another year

So I have this brithmark on my leg, and its dark and big, not really mole-ish, but kind of. I got it frozen off, it just faded though, not gone fully. It didn't gross out anybody. And I'm truthfully telling you that your mole isn't going to be a turn-off at all. It's part of who you are, and it makes you unique. Trust me though, it's fine, and when you get it removed, it'll be gone and you'll still look great ! :] haha.
hope I helped, good luckk and dont worry about itt :] !

im 17/f best friend is 16.

3 years ago she smoked pot, not everyday but a lot. And last year she drank with me like lots of teenagers out there. Her parents(dad,step mom, birth mom already knew) found out around new years and she's been grounded since. they also called my parents and told them but my mom has done worse and said she'd feel guilty if she punished me.
So now her step mom tells her that it makes her sick to look at her, her dad says shes the biggest disappointment of his life, and her mother says shes an ungreatful spoiled B****.
Shes not a bad kid at all, she gets all A's and B's in school. She quit smoking because she hated it, she probably has one drink twice a year, she doesnt stay out late, she doesnt even go out on weekends. She doesn't deserve this. She used to be a really strong person and for the most part she is but lately she's been calling me sobbing because of the things her parents say to her and nobody really believes her because her parents are really dedicated members of their catholic church but at home they scream and curse in her face and i know its true because i've been on the phone with her when its happened. Her father has told her to stop F***ing up her life! and this is about something that happened YEARS AGO!
she was having a good week and then last wednesday she got in a fight with her dad (verbal), then thursday her mom called to tell her how worthless she is, friday she got blackmailed by some Freshmen girls at school and then Sunday her grandfather died. I don't even know how to help her anymore and i love her so much, shes always been there for me. i'm an only child but if people ask if i have siblings i automatically think of her because she's as close to a sister as i'm ever going to get.

i know shes going to be going through this grieving period and its hard to even have a conversation because i dont know what to say but shes just so happy that im there for her. i'm trying so desperately to make her happy even for 5 minutes, just to know that she smiled and i dont know how. Our phone conversations recently have been us sitting there basically listening to each other breathe. (She lives an hour away so i don't see her often)

has anyone been in this situation? help?

I know exactly what you're talking about, and it is not easy being the one person your friend can count on. It takes a lot of effort and commitment to beign her faithful friend through the good times and the bad. Right now, you sticking with her through the bad is going to make this so much easier for your friend, most likely not easier for you, but your friend will be better off with you than without you. I know, from past experiences, that when in this situation, things can get HEAVY and at times, you don't know what to say. You don't have to say anything. Sometimes, just listening to her vent, or "breathe" [hahaa, I've done that numerous times] is helping her become the strong person she was before. You might not realize this now, but what you're doing is HUGE for her. Just talk her through it. Re-assure her and tell her that everything is going to be alright, because it WILL be. Sometimes, you'll need to take her mind off of it. Like, bring up something else. Say something funny like, "oh so you know that teacher that you bsolutley hate, well he tripped and fell in the middle of class yeaterday..." just something that will make her happy for even 2 seconds.
Tell her that you consider her your sister, and that you'd go to great lengths to make sure that she's ot sad anymore, even if that means baking her somehting. haha if you say somehting like that, it's guarenteed to put a smile on her face. Maybe frame a oicture of you 2 with like, a best friends saying on the top. So she can look at it and remember that she has someone there who cares about her, even in her darkest hours when her parents are emotionally abusing her. oh and try to relate to her problems with something that has happened to you in the past. that always helps.
She needs you right now, and by just being her friend and letting her vent to you and talk to you and just sitting in silence on the phone with you is helping her trmendously already. You're doing great, keep it up and she'll be stronger than ever [with your help] in no time :]
hope I helped ! good luck :] xxo it'll get better, I promise :]

i want a tattoo meaning survivor...
survivor of depression, rape, molestation, abuse.
basically a survivor of my life...i grew up horrible...but i still survived and i am a survivor

http://www.selfhealings.com.au/images/home/Chakra_1.jpg
what it symbolizes ...
Base Chakra. 1st
Sanskrit. Muladhara means root or support.
Location. Base of spine.
Function. Survival.
Purpose. Survival or the will to live.
Energy State. Solid.
Body parts associated. Spinal column, kidneys, bones, feet and legs.
Endocrine gland. Adrenals.
Colour. Red.
Symbol. Square.
Element. Earth.
Emotion. Stillness.
Planet influence. Saturn.

http://www.elderlawmarketing.com/images/language.jpg
-very cool

http://www.tropechopf.ch/Indian_Style1/Bindis/Fingernagel_Tattoo/Chinese_Symbols.JPG
- these are chineese charatcters you can see. one of them is "strong" and it looks really cool. and plus, you are so strong for surviving :] !
hope I helped spark some ideas ! xxo

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year. I'm 15 he's 18. I was wondering if this was cute for a Vday gift?:
Bake him a chocolate cheesecake or regular cheesecke because he does like cheesecake haha(:
And then fill a glass jar with pieces of paper telling him what I love about him and cute quotes.
I don't know if the second one is good or not? I'm not sure if guys would like it haha. He's a really sweet guy with a sensitive side but then he is also like a rock at times. So if you have input I would love to hear it! Thanksss(:

That is soo cute. and I totally agree with Myrrha. Her advice is very clever. But you should also make him a card with a list that are the 14 things you love about him [because you know, valentines day is feb. 14] haha. It's such a cute idea that you have. very original. I say go for it :] and do chocolate cheescake, guys love sweets :]
Have funn, good luck, and hope I helped ! xxo :]

In my school they do this thing on Valentine's Day (well, Friday they'll do it since Valentine's Day is a Saturday this year) where you can send a singing telegram to someone. For example, a guy will order it for a girl he likes, and four guys from chorus or whoever runs it will come into your classroom at a certain time and sing for you. Girls can do it for guys to but that's besides the point. I think one of my friends from school likes me, not 100% sure but it's possible, and I want to kindof get him to do that for me. Tomorrow in the class that me him and my other friend (whos a girl) talk all period I want to hint to him that I'd want someone to do that to me. For example I'd say to my other friend "What would you do if someone sent you a singing telegram?" and after she answers I'd say something like "I'd completely die if someone did that for me, but I'd be totally happy" and/or "I'd actually be happy if someone did anything for me on v-day" (considering 1. I've never had a boyfriend 2. my past two valentine's days were total nightmares). Should I go through with this or would it be a bad idea? If you say I should go through with it, should I say it differently?

That's actually really cool and original tat your school does that .. [and so cute haha] But I think that it is a great idea to say that. But if you say number 1, say something like [after your friend answers], "I'd love it if a guy did that for me, it's so cute and I'd be so happy :]" maybe even turn around to him and bring him into the conversation and ask him if he'd ever send that to anyone because it's so cute, then you can see what he sayss :]
Good luck ! Have fun ! xxo :]

ok heres the deal..

theres this guy that i talk to & i like him and he knows that. He talks to other girls & goes out with them..and once he gets it leaves them. I kinda feel down because he doesnt seem to want a relationship with me & im not ugly..like i get alot of attention from guys...but idk maybe he doesnt want to hurt me. i need someones persective on this.

Since he knows he always gets it, from other girls, he knows that that's the kind with no strings attatched. He probably knows that you want to be in a relationship with him, and he might not want that right now, or he might not want to hurt you because he knows he'll break your heart, or he just wants to get around right now .. experience things without being tied down to just one girl for a while. Give it some time, I suggest talking to him about how you feel, necause this might change his ways. but i'm 99.9% certain that this is why he hasn't asked to be in a relationship with you.
good luck ! hope I helped, xxo :]

(17/f) i wanted to make my boyfriend a cd for valentines day with cute relationship songs but nothing too lovey dovey. any suggestions would be appreciated!

Britney Spears: unusual you
We the Kings: Secret Valentine
We the Kings: Check yes Juliet
Yellowcard: only one
Yellowcard: ocean avenue
A cursive Memory: Everything
Backseat Goodbye: Hey
Backseat Goodbye: Technicolor eyes
Motion City Soundtrack: It had to be you
Mayday Parade: Jersey
Mayday Parade: Miserable at best
A rocket to the moon: Dakota
The Spill Canvas: Staplegunned
Fall Out Boy: Sugar, we're going down
Every Avenue: Think of you later (empty room)
The Veronicas: All I have
Escape the Fate: Asley
The Red Hot Chilli Peppers: I could die for you
Rhiana: Unbrella
Rhiana: rehab

Hope I helped, if you need any more, don't hesitate to ask ! have fun :] xxo

me and my boyfriend have been dating a year and four months. it's our second valentines day together and we're sixteen. i'm not really sure what to get him. i was thinking like getting all of his favortie types of candy and a card with something really heart felt written in it (he like loves candy haha). i'm not sure if thats good though. any suggestions?
he loves guitar, plays it very well, he loves candy (obviously), the bright eyes band, and yeah he likes lots of things so maybe if someone has any cute ideas with those things or just any cute ideas in general would be great!

p.s. nothing involving pictures please because we don't have a lot together which is weird i guess but yeah okay ha thanks

thats a cute idea, but since you guys have been together for a while, you can add to it by maybe getting a really cool guitar bick [punch a whole in on the top, string it on a manlyyy silver chain and write your initials [or names] on the back of it, and give it to him. It's such a cute idea. You could also make him a mixed CD that has songs he likes and songs that explain how he makes you feel or your relationship in general, and then put a gift card to a candy store [or just a store] inside the cover.
I think on valentines day, you guys should take a picture together, really cute, and then that can be your one picture of him you two can both have hanigng in your lcokers or something :]
hope i helped ! have fun and good luck :] xxo

I'm 16/f and I'd like to talk to this guy I've been crushing on for a few years but it always turns out that my mouth gets dry, I can't think of what day it is, the whole eight yards. Is there any trick to push the butterflies away? I really like this guy, but it's not going anywhere if I can't say "Hi."

Muffled

Actually, there are ways to get over the butterflies. haha that sounds so wierd in a sentence :] but you know what I mean.. okay, so anyways, this happens to me ALL THE TIME. I get so nervous and tongue tied around this one boy. I always stutter and it takes me a while to think around him haha. So annoying, I know :] But you have to become more comfortable with hi,. Try to talk to him more on the computer, so you can tease him about it when you see him in person. It also gets you to know him more without stuttering in public. After you've done that and you still have some butterflies that haven't been pushed aside yet, just try to think of somehting else when you're around him. Don't think about how nervous you are, or how you really like him and want to impress him, this will only make it worse. [trust me, haha, i would know.] You just have to take your mind off of it and pretend like this is totally normal and that you guys always talk .. all of the time. As you keep doing this, it gets easier, and the butterflies are hardly there anymore. Trust me. If you give this a try, i guarentee it will work, oh and p.s, some guys think it's really cute when you get all nervous around them and don't know what to say, most don't mind it at all. trust me, they're probably trying to impress you just as much as you are trying to get them to notice you. :] just take a deep breath and stay cool, calm, and collected :]
xxo good luck ! hope it gets better for you !

I met this guy about 2 weeks ago and I am really starting to like him. I want to call him tonight and ask to hang out. Last time we hung out was at it house and all we did was watch a movie and make out/cuddle a little. What else can we do? I want to call him, but I'm so nervous of rejection. And I need THINGS TO DO other than watch movies and go to eat.

aww that's cute :] you guys can ..
-go bowling
-go out to eat somewhere nice or somewhere quick and easy
-go ice skting, rock climbing, snow tubing, swimming, rollerblading. [anything fun and kinda sportsy- guys like because it gives you a little flirty competition] :]
-you can hang out at your house and you guys can just chill like you did at his house, boys like that.
-you can go out to see a movie ... like go out to eat first and then go to the movie theatre.
-you can go to school game with him [basketball, hockey, anythingg.]
-go to the mall
-walk around town
there are so many options, anything is good. just get creative :] have fun ! hope I helped, xxo good luck and if you need anymore ideas just inbox me, I have plenty :]

Hi i am trying to decide what dress to get for prom i have 4 dresses that i like i am going to put the links for them in this question and i would love your opinions on which one is best and which one i should pick
thanks
http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-PD415883

http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-PD402923

http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-PD397699

http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-PD295582

I don't really like the thrid one .. it looks kind of tacky.
My 2 favorites are the first and second. so so so so pretty ! really gorgeous.
and the last one is cute, but not as lovelyy as the first two.
If I were you, I'd go with the first one. It's so orignal and the colors are pretty, and the detail is really cute ! :]
good luck, hope I helped ! xxo have funn

ok i have found a few hairstyles that i like for prom so in this question i will leave the links and i would love for you guys to leave your opinions and tell me which ones you like best
thanks
http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/prom/images/half-updo-a844.jpg

http://www.women-hairstyles.com/images/half-updo.jpg

http://www.mainlinetoday.com/Media/PublicationsArticle/hair-laurens02.jpg

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_-paYuwZ9umc/R7TTJmuaFzI/AAAAAAAAAIs/FrpN0W3UKq8/s320/Half-down%2BProm%2BHairstyle%2B7.jpg

http://www.short-hair-style.com/images/prom_hair_style_01.jpg

I absolutley LOVE the third and fourth links. Those are so pretty, and even though I'm sure you'd look gorgeous with any of those hair-do's, I'd go with three or four :]
good luck ! xxo

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