theres this guy that i talk to & i like him and he knows that. He talks to other girls & goes out with them..and once he gets it leaves them. I kinda feel down because he doesnt seem to want a relationship with me & im not ugly..like i get alot of attention from guys...but idk maybe he doesnt want to hurt me. i need someones persective on this.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? itdependsonyoux3 answered Tuesday February 10 2009, 3:00 pm: Since he knows he always gets it, from other girls, he knows that that's the kind with no strings attatched. He probably knows that you want to be in a relationship with him, and he might not want that right now, or he might not want to hurt you because he knows he'll break your heart, or he just wants to get around right now .. experience things without being tied down to just one girl for a while. Give it some time, I suggest talking to him about how you feel, necause this might change his ways. but i'm 99.9% certain that this is why he hasn't asked to be in a relationship with you.
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karenR answered Saturday February 7 2009, 11:04 am: It could be he isn't ready for a serious relationship. In this case it may actually
a good thing he isn't asking you out.
Maybe he respects you enough not to want
to use you.
es answered Saturday February 7 2009, 10:12 am: it seems like this boy just likes the chase. when he knows somebody likes him, there's no "fun" in chasing them around. personally I know many guys that act this way and they entertain themselves by playing this game. once they have what they want they let it go, because they know they already got it and they move on to something else that they haven't gotten. doesn't make any sense to me but then again this is the immature male population lol
try showing less interest in him, and see what happens, if he starts to chase you around like every other girl you'll know that it's all a game to him
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