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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

advice

my boyfriend has been a real jerk lately. we planned to go see the grudge last friday and he backed out because he had no money. i found out why he had no money for the movies was because he bought weed with the money he had. he told me he stopped smoking weed 2 weeks ago. also, we went to the mall and he just sat with his friends n whispered n laffed n ignored me. i was like "call me tonight" wen we left and he wasl ike okay i will i promise. and he didnt. he didnt call all day saturday either. and today hes surpose to come over to go trick or treatin with all of our friends. but i still havent heard a word from him. should i call him n see if hes still coming? or just forget bout it and go out with my gurls?

HEYY!! omg wat a fu**** jerk!! it seems to me that you sound b the beror (sp) of bad news and break the ice! and just go wid your grls! HAVE FUN!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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i am 13. but i look like im 15. i want to get my belly botton peirced, and my mom will let me. but i still think im too young to get it dun. im almost dun growing...so im not sure about getting it done or not and if it will hurt. please help.. i rate

personally... i think wait! y rush! you are only 13!! + it hurts and it really can effect you on growing! it also can get infeccted! so i personally think wait!!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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I KNOW IT IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ AND HELP

ok here is the thing my parents have been divorced for 8 years now and my dad got remarried like 2 years ago and i am fine wit that bcuz i like his wife. But now my mom has started datin this guy that is 18 years younger then her and i don't like him like at all and what makes me really mad is that my family is straped for money and there r some things i NEED and my mom goes and buys the guy random expensive gift just bcuz he likes it. And she drives 2 hours back and forth 2 pick him up just 2 spend the night wit him and "talk" (he doesn't have a car right now) and that is wastin alot of our money in gas. just how can i tell my mom how i feel and isn't that ur parents should have u kids approve of the person 2 cuz if ur kids don't like them then how will that work. someone help what can i do, say or nething? sometime i just wanna runaway cuz she pisses me off sooo much HELP!!!!

hey!! i am srry!! well 18 years younger than her!! that is wierd! lol... i think you should go to your mom and say.. "MOM WE SERIOUSLY NEED TO TALK..." and sontinue with your convo... i mean 18 years younger! tell her how you feel and how it will effect your family! tell her everything that you told us... + he is using your mom!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE
PS FOR FFURTHER INFO IM ME!! qtmichelle26@aol.com or qtmichelle26

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ok this is probubly gonna be stupid but i gotta ask for ur help

i just got dumped by my b/f of like almost a year and i was heart broken but i got over it really qwick and yea h i started liking this new guy i know he knows who i am but i think im getting weird vibs around him like at the begining of the year i got nominated for homcoming and he did to and he asked me to walk wit him and he was soo nice then i didnt talk to him for like ever cause i never saw him now i like him but im scared to like wave or say hi or anything cause im afriad hes goona think im stupid or pathetic and i talk to his friends and they all tell me to go for it but i cant i have no idea help me plz!!!

it seems you still have feelings for him!! that is okay.... go tallk to him even tho it will kinda b random but still he wouldnt think you are wierd!! ask him wat he had been doing latly and talk to him ask him if he still has feelings for you tell him how yu feel! i mean he might have feelings for you 2!! you never no with a chance like this! GO FOR IT!! TALK TO HIM!!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MIChELLE

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Is it ok for a guy to stay out late partying if his girl is sitting at home waiting for him?

no not really it hurts the grl... it is basiclly like burning her! i mean it shows that you kinda dont care about your relationship! i mean it is okay if you tell her were you are who you are with and everything... i would visit her if i were you!! i mean ya i guess you can if you tell her but i mean i wouldnt
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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Alright... So I just held a party which started about five hours ago and ended around 11:00 pm. 8th period today I invited one of my guy friends at the last minute. I told him that he couldn't bring anybody but himself, since there were already going to be a lot of people and my mother would flip if someone she didn't know, showed up at our house uninvited. He told me his friend whom he hasn't seen in a long time was coming to visit, but I told him that he couldn't bring him for reasons I already stated. It was basically an open invitation, if he could come alone, then he could come, but if he couldn't, then that was too bad. So, a little bit before the party after a few early people arrived, he called me and said he was in the neighborhood and was wondering if he could come a few minutes early. I said it was fine, and he came... with a friend in tow... I was a little pissed, but I let it slide for the time being. Well, a little while later after basically everyone arrived, he "pretended" to steal some of my DVD's and lots of food. Then, a few minutes later, he calls me over and says he's got a "shitload of alcohol" in his car. Now, my friends and I are not into that kind of stuff, and it made me really uncomfortable. I basically told him I thought he should leave. He got a little pissed but agreed to it. His friend was kind of just sitting there the whole time, not talking. So they got up and stood at the food table for a while and just hung out. I was really pissed and worried at the time, cuz one of my other freinds was threatening to leave (the alcohol comment made her really uncomfortable), so I said "Are you just going to loiter there?". He got really pissed then, and then left with his friend. A few minutes later he called all heated and was saying "You were really rude to me, and the alcohol thing was just a joke" which I didn't believe, because he only said it was a joke after I expressed my discontent. So then I told him again why he had to leave, and he was just like "yeah whatever, fuck you" and hung up. Now, I've thought about it over and over and my friends say that he's a jerk and I have every right to be angry. But I'm not sure... Was any of this my fault? I feel I made it very clear that he wasn't supposed to bring anyone, and that if he wanted to spend time with his friend, he should do so. We could always hang out some other time. It's not like he's doing me some huge favor by coming. I just need to know, for my own sanity, do I have the right to be angry? Thanks... Pom

YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO B ANGRY!! ALCHOLE? THAT IS BAD FOR A UNDERAGE PARTY (I DUNNO HOW OLD YOU R LOL SRRY) + it seems like he gets himself in to truble all the time so he is bad news! you did the right thing dont feel bad or anyting you sould b MAD!! so you have the right to b mad!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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What are some ways to get over your ex? My ex is a jerk, but for some weird reason, I can't stop my feelings for him. I don't want to go back to him because all he does is hurt me.

AWW lol!! HEY! some easey ways to get over your ex are try NOT to think of him (i no that is hard) ignore him. get a new bf... you can still be friends! you can always call him and ask him.. WHY DO U HURT ME? talk it out with him... mayb u have feelings for him bcuz he paied attention to you and had feelings for you. you never no! i no wat it feels like bcuz it is hard geting over boyfriends as much as they are a pain you still gotta love em! anyway... still talk about it with him see his point of view does he still have feelings for you? you will never no untill you ask him and find out! anyway if i didnt answer you question good or as much as you wanted me to... e mail me qtmichelle26@aol.com
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE!!

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One of my guy friends at a different school told me that his friend really wanted to meet me and take me out on a date after a football game. So we emailed all week long & talked a little bit on the phone. He seemed excited to meet me. So on Friday, we met at his school's football game. For the first minute, everything was going great. I was cuddling under a blanket with him. He was acting really nice. Then all of a sudden, a bunch of girls came up to him and started flirting with Nathan (that's his name). He flirted back and he didn't pay as much attention to me. Other girls tried to steal the blanket from me, but Nathan didn't let them. That was nice of him, but he still continued to flirt with them. When he said he was going to get something to eat, some girls screamed, "I'll go with you!" Then the girls followed him. A little later, I decided to go see what he was up to. Not only were the same girls flirting with him, but others were, too. Nathan payed some attention to me, but not very much. I waited for several minutes for him to shut up to the girls, but he didn't. So what did I do? I left the game COMPLETELY, without saying a word to him or anybody. After I left, I felt bad, so I called Nathan. I told him I would be back at the game. When I went back to the football game, it was almost over. I called Nathan again to tell him I was at the game, but this time a girl answered and said, "He's somewhere else." I looked all over for him, and asked other people if they saw him, but they didn't. So much for the date he was going to take me on after the game. I waited for Nathan to call me, but he never did. This morning, I sent Nathan an email, telling him why I left the game, but I haven't heard from him. Who's the jerk, me or him? What should I do now?

And another thing: While this was going on at the football game, I saw my ex boyfriend who goes to Nathan's school. He was flirting with some girl. I got INCREDIBLY jealous that my ex was flirting with a girl, but I didn't care as much that Nathan was. Why does it seem like I'm TOTALLY over my ex, but I get so jealous when I see him with other girls.

HEY! well... this is tough... you wouldnt b the jerk bcuz HE is the one who wanted to meat you and HE is the one who was flirting and not paying attentio to you... right? besides if he cared at all wouldnt he call you or anything? he obviously was a waist of your time... bcuz obviously you are too good for him lol! and it is kinda wierd that he was flirting with a grl and then she answerd HIS fone? i mean really think about it! he might have just been trying to make you jelous and show you that he can get any grl he wanted! i think. and you kinda gave in by leaving. but in the end he is the jerk what did you do wrong?
to answer your second question you shouldnt do anything. LET HIM CALL YOU AND LET HIM APPOLOGISE (SP?) dont sound desprate! if he doesnt respond in like the next couple of days call him on wed. and see how things are going DO NOT MENTION A WORD ABOUT THE GAME UNLESS HE SAYS ANYTHING LIKE I AM SORRY! he is gonna relize wat a jerk he is!
finally to answer your 3rd question ex bf's are always a pain in the ass lol seeing him with another grl flirting will always make everyone jelous. IT IS NORMAL! it might also just b that you arent arent over him quiet yet, as much as you think you are. i mean you prob still care about him but you just dont relize it! i mean talk to him 'flirt' ask him how life is going with him lol! i mean just ask him if he still has feelings what is the worst he can say? lol srry if i didnt answer your question(s) how you wanted just contact me qtmichelle26@aol.com
HOPE I HELPED
~MICHELLE!

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My 14 yr. old brother will be turning 15 soon and I was wondering if anyone knows where I can buy him some vintage t-shirts (i.e. Atari, Nintendo, etc.)? Thanks!

AMERICAN EAGLE & ABERCROMBI
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~MICHELLE

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ok im 15 are you supposed to be depressed upset and wanting to cry all the time

ya lol!! well that is wat stage i am in now! i just turned 15 so ya lol! well at least i am and all my friends you are going through changes it okay loL!
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~MICHELLE

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when should it be okay to have sex?

16+
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~MICHELLE

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here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u

just get french tips or pink!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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Hey! Ummmm, ok here's my story. I dislocated my knee on May 24,2004. And sometimes when I run around I feel like my knee is dislocated again. But it's not. Is that normal? !~*Steph*~!

ya!
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~MICHELLE

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im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out?

if i was her i would wat to no! and if she really has feelings for you it wouldnt matter to her! personally i think that you should b straight forward with her even if she says like eww and doesnt talk to you for a few days i think that it is worthit! just dont drop names of anyone and just b straight forward!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...

well i think that you would b bi i mean i totally support you with your choice (not that i am lesbo or gay or bi) but like you no wat i mean and i love gay ppl!! they are hot!! lol anyway i think that that shouldnt matter to anyone anything!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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how often should u dye ur roots if u dye ur hair like blonde and ur hair is naturally black:?

every 1 1/2 month!!
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~MICHELLE

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I just started my job about 2 weeks ago.I work with some HOTT guys!But anywayz...there is this guy I work with.Lets just call him "bob".Anywayz...Bob and I dont talk that much.Well...My friend also works with me and she asked bob if he had a g/f?and he said naw and she goes what about her?(talking about me)and he said yeah shes cute.Can I get her #?So...my friend gave it to him and he still hasnt called.That was 2 days ago.Hes really cute but hes the shy type of guy.How do I get to start talkin to him to get to know him better so he will feel more comfortable around me?I really want to get to know him better and he always texts my friends phone lookin for me.I want to flirt with him and stuff because my friend is really trying to hook us up.She asked him if were gonna go on a date and he said i dunno.LOL!She always does stuff like that!but anywayz...What are some good ways to make him open up to me and talk more around me?
Answer ASAP!

hey babe!! sorry for the delay lol!! well some ways to get to know him is for you to start talking to him lol (that isnt very helpful but you no) and like you have to go up to him and say like stuff like so what school do you go to (even if you no the anwer) and like if he has a gf ( you no the answer but you no) and you should like say well i am open lol!! and stuff like that be urself around him. i think he isnt opening up as much as you want him to is because u might not b oopening up to him. so if you talk to him more he will get used to you more! and... if he wont ask you on a 'date' then you should jump for the chance and say 'hey wanna go to ______' or wanna catch dinner/lunch and a movie? you no wat i mean? also i think that since he is shy he wont make the first attempt to talk to you so you should go and talk to him and stuff!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE
PS IF I DIDNT GIVE YOU ENOUGH DETAIL OR ANYTHING DONT B SHY EMAIL ME OR I M ME QTMICHELLE26@aol.com!! or qtmichelle26 sorry again for the delay and i hope i helped as much as possible!

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Okay, well me and my boyfriend are pretty close. His friends are my friends and my friends are his. So we all go places and hang out together all the time. Well, it kind of seems like whenever we are together, me and him cant get away from each other! I mean dont get me wrong thats not a bad thing, but I'm starting to think that my friends are thinking that I need to stop being around him so much, and I dont have time for them. I love my friends, and i love my bf, but how can I balance all of those relationships? When me n him are together sometimes we get all kissy and we are hugging and everything and sometimes it feels weird becuase my friends tell me its so cute, but I think they are annoyed. What can i do?

I Will Rate HigH! ThAnKs!
sIgnEd,
*cOnfUsEd*

wow u have had a long relationship!! congrats lol! anyway..... dont break up with your bf and set a time wen only you and your friends get together and have fun!! dont include ur bf he will prob understand!! and if ur bf calls u on ur cell answer it but like dont take 5 billion years you no wat i mean? anyway wen you and your frieds set aside time together like once a week everthing should b fine!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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ok a few weeks ago i got a hair cut and i got my bangs cut but they look horrible cuz my hair cutter did them all wrong does anybody no of a type of shampoo or a way to make them grow faster or simply just a way to make them look good

if it helps im 13/f and i have bright blonde hair

~!~Lizzy~!~

hehehe lol it prob looks fine but if you want them to crow fast clip them back or braid them! if you wat a shampoo to make it grow faster im not usre of any at this moment lol srry i didnt answer your question lol! but use your shampoo and just do wat i told you braid it or clip them back!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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okay im 13/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month and like 9 days and we havent kissed yet and i want him to make the first move but i want him to do it and get it over with and like yeah and his friend said that i should just do it but im scared...what should i do?

well how i see it you shouldnt just do it bcuz u want to you should wait until you are ready!! i no that im not helping that way but wait a few more weeks and if you guys kiss great but i think you should wait untill you are ready and the special time comes!! if you just want to do it then let him make the first move bcuz guys get moody lol or if he doesnt then you sould go for it!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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