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OK I haven't bought a CD in a long time cuz I used to download music... But I don't download anymoa and I just bought the Kanye West CD and it's soo awesum! Does anyone know any CD's like this one that r worth buying so I can actualy start a cd collection!? Thanx so much! I rate High!!!

ashlee simpson
gavin degraw
green day
jessica simpson
ryan cabrera
relient k
sanctus real
blink 182
mr. north
christina milian
alicia keys
eminem
rascall flatts
the starting line
story of the year
taking back sunday
bob marley
avril lavigne
.....

and many more

if i knew ya style maybe i could help sum more

GL !! xoxoxoxoox best wishez
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i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do?

warn him before you get 2getha this is gunna be about a friendship.. that your heart hurt'z too much to get ne more involved. He'll understand if hes worth bein with in the 1st place

GL!!!
xoxoxoxo
Best Wishezz

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Okay, this is a weird question, I'm sure...but I figure I may as well see what y'all say.
Okay...my boyfriend kind of has a thing for "dirty talk" and I think it's totally ridiculous. I start laughing whenever he says something and expects me to respond. I think it bothers him that I keep giggling, but I can't help it! To me, it just seems so totally fake and stupid...
I mean, I've tried playing along, but I just feel so awkward and stupid, saying things like...that...
Should I try to do something about my giggling problem (lol)? Should I tell him I just can't do it? What do you guys think?

wen he talk`z dirty, laugh a little, hold off the laughter, and laugh in your talk.. u no what i mean?? Be like "yeaa sure" or "whatever floats your boat" stuff like that. If he`z gettin mad you wont just answer say straight out "nahh im not doin that" " it`z 2 earlii" stuff like that. I mean hes gotta except your on the level where you are. Tell him you just laugh alot. I do, alot of girls do... u dnt need to DO something about giggling. Its natural.. he`z gotta deal. And if he doesnt stop with the filthy mouth.. u stop him.. no1 wantsta hear that trash 24/7.. and there r ways to tell him nicely too.

GOOD LUCK!
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Hey, this guy told me how much he really liked me the other day and I turned him down because I wanted to be single but now he is goin out with my best friend and I changed my mind I think I'm jealous, but what should I do

the only reason your jealous is because hes going out with your bestfriend, it happens to all of us. You'd start goin out with him and you'd quickly stop liking him. I promise its only b/c your JEALOUS. You should just drop it. Plus if he'll change from liking you to going out with your best friend that fast hes really not that sincere.... you dont need them kinda people in your life :-/

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Okay...my friend who is 13. Recently just went oit and got hammered..on whisky. and its not like this is his first time either. He is my best friend..and yeah i kinda like him. He said a lot of things when he was drunk..but i wouldnt know because i got up at 2:30 am and walked alone, all the way home..and he just stuck his head out the door and said :make it home safe: well..my step sister said that she mothered him the whole night. he drank half a bottle of whiskey. He said that he wanted to fuck me, that i was going to be so pissed at him..a lot of shit.
Should i beleive anything he says? he keeps on apologizing to me..
well my question is, how do i tell him that im really dissapointed in him without making him feel shittier then he already feels?

tell him all the things he said that made you pissed. But beyond that.. he was frigen drunk. I doubt 97% of what he did wasnt really what he thinks/feels. You'll have to understand that when people are drunk they go into a different frame of mind....


SO, just understnd i guess..

if u need more help, leave one in the inbox. I know how you feel and exactly what its like. GL tho!! beSt WiSheZ--- sincereeeeely

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My cat has a bad habbit of tearing up the toilet paper rolls. I have tried putting the rolls on backwards so the paper won't roll off when she plays with it, but she is still tearing it up good. I end up thowing away 1/4 of the roll when I go into the bathroom. What can I do to prevent my cat from doing this?

well, you can always declaw him/her, which is probably not a fun one for the cat :-(... try getting him/her a scratching post, if that doesnt even work, it may be a pain in the butt but put all the toilet paper rolls on those dispensers that are closed, they have them, they stand instead of being attatched to the wall, well most, and they have a cover on them. Try looking in home depot or home goods or something. GL!!!

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I was really good friends with this girl named madeline.... today she came up to me and punched me in the face in school(i still am in school right now) for no reason at all! I fell on the ground and didn't hit her back! I should of (well i think so at least) And i didn't! Should i of went after her or did i do the right thing by not hitting her back?

You did the right thing by not touching her back, but wow. For no reason? Tell the principle because thats a big offense, and i know tattle tales are stupid but if she wants 2 do the crime, shes gunna pay up some time. Shes just a useless bitch, get her in trub trub.. lol

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hey i have a problem, there are these 4 guys and they all like me 3 of them are friends and the other one is seperate and doesnt know them... the thing is I don't wanna hurt anyone of them... help me plz... what should I do.

follow your heart. For instance, who could you see yourself being with? Who would be most supportive of you and catch you when you fall? Whos shoulder could you see yourself crying on? Which ones really serious??? Then go for the guy that fits those descriptions. If none of them do, you'll have to let them know you want to be friends with all of them, and that's not being mean. You cant totally avoid hurting their feelings unless you wanna go out with all 4 !! lol, and even then you might if they found out you were cheating, so really theres nothing you can to but be nice about it. Your feelings are your feelings.

GOOD LUCK!
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I have this friend, and she is changing, her other friend moved it with her, and now she is completely ignoring me what do u think I should do?

Call her up and ask her whats wrong. If she says "nothing" ask her to go somewhere or hang out or something. Maybe shes waiting for you to make the first move. Maybe something happened thats hurting her inside... going out or hanging out will help you instigate.

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theres this guy.. that i wuld do anything to b with.. andd i kno he likes me.. buhh he does have a rep with grls.. buhh he doesnt waste tyme on askin grls outta cuz basically he doesnt need to if all he wants his shyt.. he can have grls in a sec.. and hes thinking of askin me out..i kno hes a player buhh.. cant u change a player? like if u kno they like u for a fact.. do u think i can? cuz i can so picture myself fallin in love with himm and having sex with himm

once a player, always a player. If he knows he can get any girl he wants and do any girl he wants hes not going to just stick with you for very long. He'll move onto the "newest, hottest, pretty, sweetwest, sexy, funny" girl he can find. And he will cheat on you, find excuses, take advantage. No,no,no hes all bad news. I dont recommend u guiiz getting together

im not tryin to be tha rain on your parade... but ive seen shyt happen... it will easily happen to you if your not on your guard... plus you may REALLY wnna go out with him, but it will be worth NOTHING wen he dumps u and makes u feel like garbage..

GL sweets...
hpe you find the 411 your lookin 4

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ther is this boy who i know he keeps asking me out but i dont really like him. he is my friend and i dont want to hurt him. also everyone else makes fun of him and they call him gay. he is really nice but i dont know if i should go out with him what should i do.

if you dont like him more than a friend dont go out with him just to be nice. Going out with him while lying to yourself would be even meaner to him. Express to him you only wanna be friends. That wont hurt his feelings cause its not mean, not at all.

GL
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ps. Dont be afraid to stand up for him! When people make fun of him, tell them to keep their big trash talkin mouths shut
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Hi, my friend from church is 18 and shes pregnant. She started going out with a non-christian guy and my youth group thought it wouldent be a good idea. She wont come to church, shes too ashamed. But my church + pastor has told her many times that we wont think of her differently. Because we dont! We love her so much and we wanna help her get through this. I miss her so much, I havent seen her in 2 months. :( She doesnt really like to talk to anyone from church. She only talks to her mom dad & siblings...I want to call her, but im scared cuz her bf might not lemme talk to her..or she might not talk to me..and i wouldent know what to say!! plz help in any way you can:)

Call up. Do the right thing. Your pastor is doing exactly the right thing!! If you do get a hold of her, let her know that she has more of a reason to be at that church than anyone else. And not for a bad reason! Just because she can use some extra guidance. I believe in sex when your married and all that, im a christian, but also, it could be worse. She could be 14 and pregnant. You know what I mean? 18 is still very young but it isnt the worst. Tell her that she could use her experience as a way to reach out to other girls her around that age thinking of having sex. Let her know of her potential and her purpose. If her boyfriend wont let you talk to her, show up at her house. Honestly, go there. Id say you have a 90% no one will turn you away if your at the door. This girl needs friends more than ever. Surround her with godly love, and give her support, and enforce her to go to youth group! Tell her no one there will judge, and if they do happen to, their not being a very good christian themselves!!!

GL...hpe everything goes smooth with the situation..... my prayers are out there


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well i have this friends and she is 13 like me and shes had sex already and might even get married already because her parents dont give a crap about her im really worried about her and i dont want this guy to be with her..wut should i tlel her

OK she cant get married at 13, not even with parental permission. You need to take her under your wing and discuss all the responsibilites that come with marriage, and let her know she cant even get married yet if she wants. Also explain to her every single consequence you know and have heard of with sex. Like STD's, accidental pregnancy... things like that. I'm wishin you best of luck. By the way, maybe suggest she lives by you for a while? Her parents dont seem to take the right care of her.

Good luck!
I feel really srii for you and your friend
but i believe with a lot of courage and some kind words you can make this work

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I really really like my boyfriend but he's always doing things on the weekend to do with scouts and his church and things. I don't think he's only saying that to avoid me but I really want to spend time with him. What should I do?

hang out during the week at nights or after school. Or ask him if its things that you can go with him and do. Even better try asking him if hes free on any upcoming weekend, see what he says.

GL!!!xoxo hope u find good advice

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im 15 year old male.

okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.

Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.
PLEASE ALOT OF PEOPLE ANSWER I NEED AS MUCH HELP AS I CAN GET

the girls really nervous. I mean, i dont know how much your on this site but all the time i see people saying "Im nervous to kiss him/her, i always pull away" soo maybe wait it out a little. I wouldnt ask her if shes too nervous to kiss you cause that might put her on the spot. Give her a week or two and try again. If she pulls away once again, simply say "what was that?"


GL!
hope you find good advice, lol hope other people answer 4u 2

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whenever anyone starts to kiss me i always freak out cause I don't know what to do and I pull away, what's wrong with me?

you probably feel deep down inside like your going to do something wrong. And trust me.. as long as you dont bite someones tongue, theres nothing you can physically do wrong. Just press your lips with his, and your good. Plus dont freak and pull away, stop being shy, just let your emotions go out the window and KISS!

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One day me and my friends were hangin out and this gurl came up to me and smiled. WEll that day she hung out with us. The next day at lunch she sat by me and we talked. the next few weeks we got closer. And we started to kiss and go out. Well one of my friends likes her and i dont want to hurt him. To make matters worse i over heard him and her talking and she really seemed to like him.

Im confused should i bring my game up and not be friends or should i let him have her and still be friends. I dont want to give her up

im guessing you broke up with her. Assuming that, I would say let them go out. He might've liked her when you guys when out but let it slide. Plus, a good friend will let another friend just go out with who they like. Dont loose any friends over this, no ones really guilty of anything mean. If your feelings are hurt, you have every right to tell this guy what hes doing isnt cool.

GL !!
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kay im 15 and kinda have gurl probs.

1) every time 1 tries to kiss me i shy away because im scared that a might do somthin wrong
2)im afraid to go on a date again because i might do somthing wrong.
3) i dont no y but there are alot of hot gurls in my area and im ntimidated by alot of them


PLease help me!

ok, to answer all your questions in exact order, here i go ::

by the way, I'm a girl myself. I've seen guys and their problems or even girls and their problems. And i've seen the solutions. Theres so much hope for you it aint funny ;-) , just have courage. After that

1)there is physically nothing "wrong" you can do kissing. I sware, its soo natural. I've never heard of someone saying they did something wrong on their first kiss, and i know many people that have kissed lol.. basically everyone i know, but in any case, shying away makes the case worse. People are going to think your like prude or you just dont like them... so forget about doing something wrong, its impossible... touch your lips with theirs and see what happens

2) on dates, the only thing you can do wrong really is talk about bad subjects. Subjects like old girlfriend/boyfriends ... just stupid immature stuff, just be mature in your conversation and thats the only thing that you have to look out for. Remember, the more "worried" you are, the more you will "mess up"

3) hmm intimidation. I dont know, i think your just a really shy guy. Theres nothing you can do if their known to be intimidating but just toughen up and not be scared , lol, figure your old enough to handle it. Whenever your really shy and cant say anything, say something, its the absolute best time, and dont be afraid of girls, silly... lol... yer supposed to be happy when they come around ;-)

good luck. I think your just a really shy person, but ive known people like you before, all your fears are soooo easily conquerable, i promise you that. dont be afraid to go a step further than you usually would and see where fate brings you. GL again !!!! Hope you find advice yer lookin 4

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are ghosts real? have you ever seen one?? just wondering!!

i believe in heavenly sort of things. Almost like angels. I've heard stories, but never seen one. Here and there i'll come across wierd situations. This one may sound wierd, but i had this abercrombie sweatshirt, i got it for christmas, I sware to you it was a medium, (from kids) and just recently i brought it out to a weekend retreat, when i pulled it out of my suitcase it was a large... :-?


hmm gl

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I have a boyfriend who i see every other weekend.i just saw this kid who i havent seen in three years and i still like him. wat do i do? do i stay with my boyfriend who ive known for a month and have been together a week or do i break up with my boyfriend for the kid ive liked for three years? some1 help please

go out with the guy you've like for 3 years!! your hearts been throbbing for him, so follow loves lead and make no regrets cause life is oh so short. ;-)

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