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One day me and my friends were hangin out and this gurl came up to me and smiled. WEll that day she hung out with us. The next day at lunch she sat by me and we talked. the next few weeks we got closer. And we started to kiss and go out. Well one of my friends likes her and i dont want to hurt him. To make matters worse i over heard him and her talking and she really seemed to like him.
Im confused should i bring my game up and not be friends or should i let him have her and still be friends. I dont want to give her up
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well, you dont really know for sure that she likes him just because she "seemed" to like him. maybe shes just the flirtacious type? or maybe theyre really good friends already. cause i have a guy best friend and people always think we like each other or are dating.
and its really frustrating, cause then guys that i like dont think i like them, but i really do.
maybe thats just the case with her? i think you should talk to the girl about it.
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she could be the pimpette. so just ask her straight foward. or just ask sum of her friends. if ur friendship with ur friend is valuable, dont throw it away on a girl that seems like a pimpette..lol. hope i helped...
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I think that you should just stick with your friend. She sounds like the kind of girl that would go from person to person on the fly. in other words she sounds VERY flirtatious. You haven't known this girl long enough to break off a friendship so you should just break it off with her or talk to her about it.
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I don't think you should let your friend have this girl, since you two seem to obviously have feelings for each other already! Ask her who she wants to be with, since things seem a little bit confusing, but don't just "give her away" to your friends if you really like her!
Tell her that you want to know who she likes and that you really like her =)
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It sounds like she's playing the both of you. Talk to your friend and ask him whuts up with him and the girl..Then tell him about how you thought in the beginning that she really liked you, but now you dont know what to think anymore. Basically, just talk to your friend about her. And if worse comes to worse, end it with her, and stay friends with the guy.
love kristin
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Are you willing to lose your bestfriend, who you've probably longer than this girl, over 1 girl? I'm sure he'd be more hurt, if you left him, then she would, if you left her.
Thing is, you have to talk to this girl. Ask her who she likes-you- or your friend. It seems kinda odd, that she'd go after you, then go after your best friend. But, you never know, she could be really good friends with your bestfriend. You have to talk to her and ask her if she likes you, like that. And than ask you friend to ask her if she likes you friend like that. And if she says yes to both questions, than both of you should forget about her because thats kinda slutty, if ya ask me.
Just have good communication, and have a nice chat with this girl, and ask her what is going on.
The best of luck, dear.
AskMegan
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im guessing you broke up with her. Assuming that, I would say let them go out. He might've liked her when you guys when out but let it slide. Plus, a good friend will let another friend just go out with who they like. Dont loose any friends over this, no ones really guilty of anything mean. If your feelings are hurt, you have every right to tell this guy what hes doing isnt cool.
GL !!
hope you find the advice your lookin 4 :-p
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*Does he know ya'll go out? Make sure he knows and he'll back off. But remember friends last forever, girlfriends don't.*
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