my best friend and my ex boyfriend have done stuff before and they still like each other on and off. and thats the same for me and him, but i want to do stuff with him but i dont want my best friend to find out and get mad. should i do it or just forget about him?
Paige answered Monday September 27 2004, 10:03 pm: Hey~well, I know that you don't wanna hurt your friends feelings, but if you like him then theres nothing wrong with that. I would talk to your firend and kinda see what she says and then take it from there. ~Paige~ [ Paige's advice column | Ask Paige A Question ]
Witty answered Monday September 27 2004, 9:27 pm: I say forget about him. There are plenty of other guys to be with. You'll just end up hurting others, and getting hurt yourself. [ Witty's advice column | Ask Witty A Question ]
liddylflirtx3 answered Monday September 27 2004, 3:22 pm: I think you should find a new guy to do stuff with because this one has just been using you and your best friend for fun and the games should stop! Also, you shouldn't be sneaking around your best friend! =(
PuReLuVeR143 answered Monday September 27 2004, 3:20 pm: Hey, I really don't think you should do anything with this guy. If I were you, as hard as it is, I'd try to forget about him. He's messing around with you AND your best friend..? Not cool at all on his part or yours. Im just being honest..
~~kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
AskMegan answered Monday September 27 2004, 2:57 pm: What you should do, is not sneak behind your friends back, and do stuff with this guy, because if she finds out, that'll make your friendship look like trash. Respect her, she has feelings to.
Communicate. Talk to your friend, and ask her if she plans on doing any more 'stuff' with this guy. If she says no, he's fair game. If she says yes, then maybe it'd be best to find another guy.
Truth is, your friend will probably find out, and get mad, so maybe you should just forget about him all together. I mean, if he's your ex boyfriend, he probably isn't worth you and your friends relationship.
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